To My Dearest Tita Belen,

The last time I saw you was Dec 2015 Christmas Season. I will always remember your voice, your laughter, and your stories. Your mission here with us is done. It's now time for you to enjoy eternal life with The Lord together with my Dad, Tito Erning, Nanay and Tatay Lake. No more pain Tita, No more sorrow.  I love you and will not stop thinking and praying for you.

JOHN 14:2-3

 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 
3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.

- Your Niece Apple ❤

Auntie, 
I am sorry that I have not seen you in a while.  I wanted to express how important you are in my life (as well as my siblings and the rest of the family) and who I have become,  My fondest memory of you was when we first arrive in the US and everything was new.  I did not know what to do or even if we belong here.  You were always welcoming and loving to all of us.  You made sure there were Christmas gift for my siblings and I when we visited your home on our fist Christmas in here.  You gave us hugs that told me how much you cared.  You made me feel that I belong. 
 You kept a beautiful and immaculate home, something that gave us an example of what hard work in the US can give you.  You raised children that grew up to be my idols and people that have set the bar for me, my siblings and my cousins.  I am very sorry that I did not take the time  to tell you how much I appreciate you and you will be truly missed.  Thank you for who you are and the memories you provided to many in my family.  Rest in God's Kingdom....say hi to Grandma for me!  
Love 

Sonny

To My Dearly Departed Loving Mother

You gave so much of yourself, your generosity so grand.  You taught us integrity, love, and to never demand.  

We came from simple means, but you told us to never be lazy.  Our house was always clean, warm, and oh so very cozy.

You taught us hard work, perseverance, and compassion.  To always look forward, set goals, and live life with passion.

There was never a time we didn't tell you that we love you, because we do.  A saint you were, this we all knew!

You've always been there for us. Nothing on this Earth will ever change this.  Because you taught us so much, loving you forever .... this we can promise.  

Now that you’re no longer with us in body, but in spirit you are there. In our hearts and minds you will always be Mom, the Extraordinaire!

As much as it hurts us that we can’t keep you, which now at this moment keeps us bawling!  God has called upon you to be an angel with a greater calling! 

I love you with all my heart.  Rest In Peace, Mom! 

“A mother’s strength is evident from the strong and special family she left behind.”  - Orland Farinas

Sleep Now, My Son

I stood outside the "kulambo" (mosquito net), where she slept with Dad and my two baby brothers. I stayed there for a long while by her bedside, just staring, and sobbing quietly.  No matter how deeply she slept, her motherly instincts took over and she slowly awoke.  She opened her eyes, smiled, softly whispered, "Halika dito anak ko (Come over here my son)," hugged me gently, and kissed me on the forehead.  Then, she placed me beside her where I felt safe and slept soundly for the rest of the night.  This became almost a nightly event.

This story exemplifies how our mother deeply cares for all of us!  - Orland Farinas

My mother in- law, Avelina was a great person, always giving and was a great grandma to my two sons JR and Brian. She will surely be missed!!

Mommy Dearest...

I feel honored and privileged that I have been your daughter 
You always loved me unconditionally 
And best Mother anyone could wish for

I will miss you forever💜

Your daughter💜

Mommy Dearest...

Your Hug Meant the World

Nobody else hug me so tight 
Or made me feel so right
No one’s eyes shined so bright with love 
as my Mom
Who is now high above, my angel💜

I love you,
Your daughter 


Mommy Dearest....

I’ll always be a part of you 
You’ll always be a part of me 
I hold you in my heart as you fly free

I love you my angel💜

Your daughter 
 

Our dearest memory of you Tita is your awesome smile and gentle personality.  You are loved by so many and we love you  beyond words.  May is a special soul to us, and we know your goodness and  sweet smile will always radiate through her and your kids.  May your soul and the soul of the faithful departed Rest In Peace.    We love you,

Tim. ❤️ Delia Sudiacal 

Lola,
There are so many things I will miss about you. You knew how much I loved food and specifically your cooking. My favorite memory involves my favorite food: your palabok. I remember you always cooking the palabok for me, with the finest ingredients- you never skimped. Every time I came to visit, you would have it ready, and if you didn’t, you would always make it for me and make sure there was enough for me to take home too. It’s just an example of the giving person you are, you always wanted to make sure we were fed and left with something. I love you and will miss you forever.
Your grandson,
Brandon



Lola was the sweetest, most generous woman. When Brandon (her grandson) and I were preparing for our wedding last year she came down to LA for a doctor visit and cardiac procedure. Afterwards when we saw here she wasn’t thinking about herself,  she just wanted to ask about us. She insisted on wanting to help us pay for the wedding and kept trying to give us money! She always wanted to take care of her grandson. I will never forget how beautiful she looked on our wedding day in her burgundy dress, I was so honored to give her her corsage, she gave me a hug and kiss and told me how happy she was I was joining the family when I placed it on her wrist. Love you Lola: brandon, your great grandson, and I will miss you. 

Our heartfelt condolences to the Farinas family for the loss of their mother nanay Belen whom i've met here in the Philippines when she had a vacation here. Even though in a short period of time that we had, i've known that she is a loving sister to her siblings and to her children. 
         Nanay Belen, as i fondly call her is just a simple but very loving person. Eternal rest grant unto nanay Belen's soul my dear lord and let perpetual light shine upon her.
          You are always remember.

My dearest Auntie Belen,
 I'll never forget all the great memories we had as I was growing up ..All the holiday's or just driving to Earlimart with my parents just to visit.   Auntie you are truly an example of a genuine woman.  Always putting others before yourself.   I remember I came to visit and you had asked me what was one of my favorite dishes and I absolutely love your Palabok. Without hesitation you made it for me right away.  You were an amazing cook Auntie and you are going to be missed so much.  I love you and you will be in my heart forever...May you Rest In Paradise 
Love,
Jenny 

Mom, I lost both my parents when I was young. But, you treated me like your own daughter. You filled the void in my heart my parents left. Thank you for your gift of love. This is the meaning of Mother in Law to me, and you were truly a special one.

M  -  you had been a MOM to me.

O   -  you put OTHERS FIRST and was always ready to help meet their needs.

T   -   your TIME WAS NOT YOUR OWN.  You shared it and used it for others.

H   -  you were a HARD WORKING woman.

E   -   your treasure was laid up with ETERNITY IN VIEW.

R    -  you realized that you REAPED WHAT YOU SOWED, so you planted goodness.

IN  -  IN PRAYER, you upheld all of us.

L   -   LOTS OF SACRIFICIAL LOVE had been given by you over the years.

A   -  you were  ALWAYS THERE to listen, to help, and to lend a hand.

W  -  you realized that true WISDOM COMES FROM THE LORD.

Rest in peace, and thank you for everything you’ve done for us. I will miss you greatly. I Love you Mom.

Malou


Mommy Dearest....

I am who I am today because of you, Mommy. You taught me everything I know. When I was a teen, I’ve watch and took note as you cooked for Dad and my siblings. I wanted to learn how to cook. So one day, I had a plan to surprise you and Dad as I figured you’d be tired and hungry from working all day. I cooked sinigang, but in your opinion I’ve put too much water. I remember pouting and walked out of the kitchen. In my defense, Dad spoke up and said “You shouldn’t have said that as she was just trying to help.” Later that evening, you apologize for hurting my feelings. I then realized that you were just helping me with the proper measurements and technique on how to be the perfect cook!

Thank you, Mommy for being my mentor🙏❤️

I didn't have the honor to meet Mrs. Avelina De La Cruz Farinas in person, but based on all of the wonderful things her son, Orlando Farinas, shared about her, I am certain she was beautiful soul inside and out. My deepest condolences are extended to you all on your unfortunate loss. You now have a new angel watching over you. 
John 14:1-3
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.”

Sincerest condolences to your family on your loss. May she rest eternally in peace and happiness.
God Bless,
Mike Dasaro and Family.

To the Farinas Family,
   We extend our deepest sympathies to the whole family.  May the care and love of the families and friends around you provide comfort and peace to get through the day ahead. 
      I am honored and blessed to have know Mommy Belen. Remembering her wonderful and gentle soul forever remains  in our heart.  May the soul of Mommy  be at piece with our heavenly Father.  Mommy Belen will be missed.

              Psalm 23:4 KJV
Yea, though I walk through the valley of shadow of death. I will fear no evil: For thou art with me; thy rod thy staff they comfort me.

Lots of love,

Sandra Wood and family

Ate Belen was the first sister-in-law I met when I first got married and came to California. Even tho there was a language barrier she welcomed me into their humble home like she had known me for a long time . She always made sure there was something great to eat. When the weekends came then it was time for yard sale hunting for treasures and family time. We would travel from Delano to Earlimart to play family bingo at a nickel per card,sometimes a quarter...great memories of a beautiful woman ...love you Ate Belen

Condolences to the Farinas Family for the loss of your beloved mother.  Wishing you Christ's love, peace and hope that her spirit will comfort you as you celebrate her life and legacy.

"God shall wipe all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." -Revelation 21:4

On behalf of your FAA family, Orlando our sympathies to you and your family. Stay strong brother!   

The loss of a mother is never easy. May your family find comfort and peace during this difficult time.  You will be missed Avelina! May she rest in peace!💜🙏

Mom,

You know how much I deeply love you! I refuse to say “loved” because in my heart, you will always be here with me. God blessed me with 56 glorious years with you, Mom. When I was a toddler, I remember asking you many silly questions. Being talkative and inquisitive earned me the “Apeng Daldal" nickname. I did not mind, though. In fact, I wore it like a “badge of honor." I remember you bathing us one by one. You gently placed us atop the dining table, carefully dried us off, and firmly slapped that dreaded Johnson’s Baby Powder all over our bodies and faces. Pooof! Six little Filipino kids frolicking around the house after bathing, looking like little Jokers! These were quality, one-on-one chat times with you. "Mom, when was I born?” “How was I born?” “Did the stork deliver me to you?” Any other mother would have been annoyed with such silly questions. But, not you. You calmly told me my birthday, which I remembered from that day forward. You told me that a midwife delivered me on the floor in that dilapidated house in Manila, where we lived for years. You said the stork baby delivery happens only in margarine commercials. “Don’t be afraid of Poppa Piccolino (a cartoon character for a pasta brand),” you said. You educated me first, and I will always remember the loving way you went about it. Nanay Lake's death profoundly affected me, and I swore to myself that I would never be away when you stepped through death's door. I take comfort in knowing that I was there for you in the end, like I promised myself long ago. I am thankful that you were able to visit my family, even for just a few fleeting weeks every weekend during your last days. A month ago, the Asian market clerk asked me, “Where is Nanay?” You have a special way of touching others, Mom. I know I will cry when I give her the bad news. You gently held me last night, like you always did, and I thank you for that, Mom. You know that my heart is heavy right now, but someday we will reunite!

Lovingly, 
Lan

OBITUARY

Avelina dela Cruz Farinas

February 15, 1942 – October 27, 2019

Funeraria Del Angel Delano

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