Colleen Mary Ellingson

Colleen Mary Ellingson (née McCabe), age 78, passed away on July 22nd, 2025. Born on October 2nd, 1946, in Sheboygan, Wisconsin, the majority of her adult life was spent in Milwaukee, WI. In 2015, Colleen and her husband Ed retired and moved to Estes Park, CO. Colleen lived a life marked by compassion, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to the well-being of others.

A proud graduate of the University of Wisconsin–Madison with a degree in Social Work, Colleen devoted her professional life to supporting children and families. As Executive Director of the Coalition for Children, Youth and Families—Wisconsin’s largest support network and resource center for adoptive and foster care families—she worked tirelessly to improve lives across the state. Under her leadership, the Coalition became a vital force in shaping statewide legislative policy regarding adoption and foster care, including early advocacy to legalize adoption for LGBTQ parents. Her efforts helped forge thousands of new families and created a legacy that will continue to impact generations to come.

Colleen’s passion for helping others was matched by her zest for life. She was a vibrant and supportive presence who loved celebrating life's moments—big or small. Her creativity found expression through many artistic pursuits over the years. She cherished time spent canoeing and camping along the Wisconsin River, where nature provided both inspiration and peace. A gifted cook known for preparing elaborate and delicious meals—especially alongside her son-in-law Dean—Colleen brought warmth and joy to every gathering. Colleen hosted Andy and Kate's Milwaukee wedding reception, and while her daughter Sarah spent the day preparing Matambre (flank steak rolled and stuffed with secret ingredients) along with many other delicious dishes for over 100 people. Sarah told Colleen this would be definitely be in her obituary some day.

She also had a deep love for family adventures, travel, home renovation projects with Ed, and lifelong learning. Whether fixing up houses or exploring new places, Colleen approached each endeavor with enthusiasm and curiosity.

Colleen is survived by her husband Edward Ellingson; her son Andrew Ellingson (Kate) of Scotland; her daughter Sarah Rhode (Dean) of Estes Park; and her cherished grandsons Atlas Rhode, Odin Rhode, and Adler Ellingson. She is also survived by her brother Mark McCabe (Jane) and niece Kristen. Colleen shared a particularly close bond with her mother Helen McCabe, who preceded her in death in 1982.

Colleen encouraged, supported, and celebrated family and friends. Colleen was very proud of her children and grandchildren.

A memorial service celebrating Colleen’s life will be arranged in Estes Park and in Milwaukee pending family travel arrangements.

Colleen’s legacy lives on in the countless lives she touched through her work, her family, and her enduring spirit. May her memory bring comfort to those who knew and loved her.

Please make memorial donations to the Coalition for Children, Youth, and Families, coalitionforcyf.org.

Allnutt Funeral Service of Estes Park is honored to walk alongside this family. Please visit allnuttestespark.com to leave messages to the family.

A celebration of life for Colleen Ellingson will be held Saturday, September 20, 2025 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM at Estes Valley Community Center, 660 Community Drive, Estes Park, CO 80517.

A celebration of life in Wisconsin will occur Monday, October 20, 2025 from 11:00 AM to 2:00 PM at The Grand Hall in Hoyt Park, 1800 N. Swan Blvd., Wauwatosa, WI 53226.