Joshua Ryan Lamance

1/30/81 – 10/17/26

Joshua Ryan LaMance took his final look at the world and said goodbye on the morning of Saturday, October 17th, 2026. It was a sunny and crisp autumn day; he was 45. He passed away peacefully in his own room, with his beloved friends and caretakers, Myrna Brewer and John Allan Restauro. He is remembered by his brothers, Zach and Travis; his sister-in-law, Dawn; his mother, Sonia; and her partner, Jeff Schwabe.

As the oldest of three children, Josh witnessed his brothers grow into men, his father and grandparents live out their final days, and his mother grow old(er). He was imbued with a passion for swimming, science fiction stories, caped heroes, and a love for drawing—a talent likely inherited from his mother. Throughout his life Josh was an example of kindness, warmth, and effortless joy. Whether you were a family friend, a waiter, or passing stranger, he made sure to introduce himself to everyone who crossed his path. His giggly grin penetrated the hearts of anyone who spent time with him. His capacity to smile through hardships and love without reservation will live on in the memories of all who called him a friend, a brother, and a son.

Down Syndrome Creed

My face may be different

But my feelings the same

I laugh and I cry

And I take pride in my gains

I was sent here among you

To teach you to love

As God in the heavens

Looks down from above

To Him I am no different

His love knows no bounds

It's those here among you

In cities and towns

That judge me by standards

That man has imparted

But this family I've chosen

Will help me get started

For I'm one of the children

So special and few

That came here to learn

The same lessons as you

That love is acceptance

It comes from the heart

We all have the same purpose

Though not from the start

The Lord gave me life

To live and embrace

And I'll do it as you do

But at my own pace

- Author Unknown