I want to send my deepest condolences to my cousin Priscilla < Beco and  your children during this incredibly difficult time. Losing Uncle, your dad is such a heartbreaking loss for all of us, and I can only imagine how heavy your hearts must feel right now.

Your dad was such a strong, loving, and giving man. He was more than just an uncle to me—he was like a  father, a protector, and a teacher. He loved you both and his grandkids so much, You guys were his world and he LOVED you all so much, and it was clear in the way he always showed up, gave without hesitation, and made sure his family was taken care of.

I’ll always remember the quiet ways he let us know we were loved. His spirit lives on in all of us—in the way we love, in the strength we carry, and in the memories we’ll forever hold close.

Please know that I’m here for you, and I’m keeping you all lifted in love and prayer. May God bring you comfort, healing, and peace in the days to come. I love you guys with all my heart!!

I still can not fathom the thought that your really gone.  I miss you so much Uncle.  Uncle... I remember hearing stories from my mom about how you had me so spoiled when I was a little girl. You were always by my side, especially when I was having epilepsy episodes as a kid. I don’t remember all of them, but I know you never left me alone through any of it. As I got older, you stayed right by me through my teenage years, even when I became a young mom. You  never judged me—Your door was always open & you  just loved me with open arms. You were the father I never had growing up.

Uncle you were  such a good uncle to my kids too. You always made sure we were okay, never let us go without, and always had our backs. That’s just who YOU were—loving, caring, generous, and thoughtful. You always showed up in every way that mattered.

Thank you, Uncle, for the tough conversations when you had to scold me, for all the laughs we shared, for all the help you gave me without hesitation, and for all the special memories we made. Thank you for teaching me how to do an oil change and how to change my own tires. I could go on and on.

You were my teacher, my protector, my angel, and my favorite uncle in the whole world. I will never forget you, and I will always hold you close to my heart. I misssssss you sooooo much Uncle! 

I love you forever and ever!!!! Thank you for everything!!!

A couple pics of my loving uncle when he would come and visit us. I'm grateful that when you would come we had some furry little puppies to give to you and you made their lives filled with so much love.

We had this thing I would say to him when we spoke , I'd tell him you can't keep a Good Man down ,then he would laugh and say that's right
He had this way about him that you couldn't help but love him and respect him
I want to say Thank you Ralph for bieng there for me like a big brother ,Always caring and making sure I was ok, even though we are over 1000 miles apart   you know I'm there in spirit  I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU
And I'm not saying goodbye
I'm  saying I'll see you later

Uncle Ralph, my favorite Uncle or should I say more like my second Dad, you were always there when someone needed you you were always there to protect us and make us feel safe and we could always count on you for anything I’ll never forget your laugh and how funny you were or how much you loved so hard, you were all about family. You will be missed so much Uncle!! 💙& even though my heart is heavy I’ll take comfort in knowing you are with our Beloved Father JESUS CHRIST in heaven & we will all see each other again tell Nana we love and miss her and will forever hold of piece of you in our hearts and thoughts always 💙💙💙💙🕊️🙏🏽

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Ralph Loya Gomez

October 10, 1960 – October 17, 2025

Evergreen Funeral Home & Cemetery

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