Melanie and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. My son practiced with Toby sometimes with Columbus Astray. The boys are so shaken by Toby’s sudden passing. Sending my deepest condolences and the biggest hug to all who are missing Toby.

Toby,
I miss you so much, being your uncle was a gift from God. When we’d visit Ohio we’d always ending up watching you play sport either football basketball or soccer. Watching you give your all is something I’ll never forget. You are such a determined young man and it’s obvious in the way you have succeeded in soccer. I’m so proud of you. When you’d visit Australia, especially the last 2 times, I never truly managed to say thank you for being so generous and kind with you little Australian cousins. You were never too busy to play a game with them or wrestle them down 😂. You would have made an incredible father. Just like yours. We all miss you so much and the pain is immense, but the love of knowing you and seeing you become the man God created you to be is outdoes the grief. I’m so proud of you Toby
Love Uncle Chris

I got to share my junior spring semester with Toby in so many different areas of life. On the soccer field, at church, the dining hall, the rec center throwing the football for hours, and even car rides like this going back home. He had such an amazing spirit and he was the definition of a hard worker. Hearing his soccer journey of how he worked his way up to the D1 level was always inspiring because he never let what anyone say stop him. Going back to school without Toby won’t be the same. This season is for you my boy. I’m going to you. Rest in peace

Our little Shepherds!  So many memories of our boys growing up together!  Hugs and love to all!  Continued prayers in the days and weeks ahead!  My heart is breaking for all of you!

Mel and family
Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony and memories of Tobias. Though we did not have the joy of meeting him, we are sure he has been a tremendous help and testimony to so many. 
Praying for you and everyone who is hurting right now, missing his unique light. 
Praying that he is still a witness of Jesus' love and salvation through the memorial service. 
With love in Christ
Mary and David

Our deepest condolences are with you. In His Love, Pastors Jasen Williams, Kim and Jamie Stilson, Jaime Boye, Charles Minton, Kelly Stilson, Terry Mincy, and Your Vineyard Family in Cape Coral, Florida.

I had the honor of playing alongside Toby for one semester, and I’m truly grateful I got the chance to know him. He was definitely one of the players who gave everything he had for this team every single day. He was one of the hardest-working players I knew and always pushed himself to be better. Watching how much he improved in such a short time was inspiring. Toby made all of us better with his work ethic, competitiveness, and the standards he set every day. He will be remembered not only for his dedication on the field but also for the kind of teammate he was. Rest in peace, Toby. You will be deeply missed.

I had the privilege of knowing Toby for a semester, and it was clear to see he was such a great man. Always hard working and positive, making everyone around him do better. He was a guy who never complained and just made everyone’s days better by his vibe. He was also always striving to become better, not just as an athlete but more importantly as a human. He taught me and many others many things such as bravery, positivity, and even humility. He made me always more excited for the next day. It pains me to know it won’t be the same anymore, but we all pray that he is in a better place now and that he may have eternal rest now where the sound of those who keep festival is endless. Thank you Toby for everything ❤️

Rest easy Toby ❤️ This seasons for you bro! Hopefully we can bring a championship back for you!

I first knew Toby as a baby and toddler, and I was so grateful to reconnect with him after moving back to Ohio last year and attending Life Church.

One of the memories I'll always carry is watching Toby be re-baptized. His explanation of why he chose to do it has stayed with me ever since. He shared that it wasn't about undoing or replacing the baptism his late father had given him—it was about personally recommitting his life to Christ.

My husband had wrestled with the same question. He had been baptized as an infant by his parents and struggled with the thought that being baptized again might somehow diminish or erase the significance of that first baptism. He also wanted to honor the love and faith his parents had shown by bringing him to God. Toby's testimony gave him a new perspective. Seeing Toby's joyful, unwavering faith gave him the peace and confidence to publicly recommit his own life to Christ.

I don't know if Toby ever realized the impact that one act of obedience would have on our family, but because of his faithfulness, he helped strengthen another believer's walk with Christ. That is part of the legacy he leaves behind.

Thank you, Toby, for pointing others to Jesus. You are deeply missed, and your faith continues to bear fruit.

I had the privilege of sharing a house with Toby and making countless memories with him. From laughing in the house watching YouTube together, to screaming the worship song Jesus Be The Name on the way home from church every Sunday. Those are the moments that I’ll always cherish. 

When he first joined our team in January it didn’t take long for people to see what type of person he was. He was caring, hard-working, compassionate, funny, and above all he carried an unwavering faith. One thing I admired a lot about him was his mindset. He came to training everyday with the same goal in mind, to be better than he was yesterday. 

I am incredibly grateful for the time I got to share with Toby. His impact on our team and everyone who knew him will never be forgotten. He will be deeply missed but his faith, character, and memories we shared will stay with us forever. 

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept faith”
- 2 Timothy 4:7

Forever grateful, 
Cristiano Da Silva

We are a family from Arkansas and although we’ve never had the privilege of knowing your family personally, your son and your family have been on our hearts since the day of the accident. We have prayed for each of you every day since and will continue to pray that God surrounds you with His peace, strength, and comfort in the days ahead. There are simply no words for such an unimaginable loss. Please know that your family is being lifted up in prayer by people across the country who have been touched by your son’s story.

I was fortunate enough to meet Toby during my time at Blast FC. He was the goalie for my younger brother's club team for a few seasons, and we also had the opportunity to play on the same team during one summer while I was home from college. On top of that, we also did a decent amount of extra trainings together. 

The thing that always stood out to me about Toby was his unique ability to mix hard work with fun. He took his development and commitment to becoming a better player very seriously, but he always brought such a positive energy that made the hard work fun for everyone around him. 

Although I hadn't seen Toby for a while, I really enjoyed following his journey through social media and watching him grow as a player while chasing his dream of playing Division I college soccer. Seeing his commitment announcement made me so happy because I knew how much hard work and dedication he put into getting there. 

It hurts a lot knowing we won't have the chance to share the field together again, but I know Toby's impact will continue to live on through each teammate, coach, trainer, and friend that were blessed enough to know him. He will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.

I had the pleasure of playing club soccer at Blast with Toby for two years, his first two years of club. I remember our first game in the Gateway showcase in Dayton in November 2020. I compare that weekend to July 2021 at Nationals in Denver and it amazes me still today. I have never seen someone get so much better at something so quickly. Toby was unrecognizable as a player by that summer and he kept up this work ethic as long as I've known him. He was a grinder. He was someone who lit up a room. He was someone you could always depend on. As we drifted apart playing in college, he stayed in touch. That effort is rare and I will always appreciate him for allowing our friendship to extend beyond our time as teammates. This world is a worse place without you brother, but it is a much better place for getting 21 years with you. You left your mark on so many people. I'll always cherish our memories together, you hold a special place in my heart. Fly high brother, rest in peace.

Toby was one of my best friends in middle school spending hours and hours together skating and playing soccer every chance we could get. 

In a lot of ways I always looked up to Toby, if he ever wanted to do something there was no stopping him. I remember spending days and days at the skate park with Toby while he would try to do one trick over and over again until he landed it. I always envied Toby’s preservation and ambition. 

When me and Toby were in 7th grade we played for GSA soccer. We had lost our previous year goalkeeper and me and him both agreed to play keeper together and split halves each game. It was always a competition of who had more saves or better possession, often Toby was the clear winner.

I believe Toby is an inspiration to so many people the way he always was to me.

The day a friend of mine and I met Toby. He was truly the sweetest man I’ve ever met.

My son and Toby were teammates on Astray and trained together at Hillsy GK Academy. While I only met Toby once or twice, I felt like I knew him because of how much Camden talked about him. Toby was more than a teammate or training partner to Camden; he was mentor, a friend, a counselor and a big brother. He pushed him to be better, to work harder and fight for what he wants. I find this picture to exemplify the person Toby was-there to pick you up on and off the pitch. My heart is broken for Toby’s family, friends, teammates and coaches. He was truly a special person that made those around him better. Thank you, Toby. Thank you for being you and shining your light on so many. You are already missed immensely and will live on in those that were privileged to know you.

As a friend of Zac, I came to know Toby through Zac’s perception of him. Rather, through his love, admiration, and pride in his little brother. Every time I saw Zac, he was boasting about Toby, his accomplishments, and the type of person he was becoming. After high school, Toby & I would sometimes hang around in the same groups at the same places. It was always clear who Toby was and what he meant to those who loved him. What a bright light. The Forsythe family opens their arms widely, as they have for me, and losing a member of this family is heavy. 

Wrapping the Forsythes in the tightest hug.🕊️🩷 

Much love always.

One of my favorite memories are the days you would pick me and Rosie up for school in your silver, Mustang convertible and on the way home we  would  listen to music with the top down feeling the wind on our face. you were truly an amazing guy who knew how to light up any room you walked in. (one of the funniest moments was when you and Ethan decided to try the hot chip challenge and you both were outside with gallons of milk.)

Pastor Mel, 
We are saddened to hear the news of your son’s  passing. We can’t imagine the pain you’re experiencing, but you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.  We pray for the Lord’s comfort and strength and a peace that only he can provide. 
Even though we just met at the Spehr wedding in May, we are here  for you.  Please let us know if there is anything that we can do. 
Yours in Christ.

I had the pleasure of knowing Toby for the last two years. We played together last summer and instantly formed a connection. He was an amazing player, a leader, and a wonderful human being. I reconnected with him this summer, helping him prepare for his final collegiate season, finally playing at the Division 1 level, where he belonged. I am so sad that he won't get that opportunity anymore. 

Toby's impact extends way farther than a field, gym, or a game. His relationship with Jesus inspired me. His kindness towards those around him inspired me. After one of our training sessions this summer, my next client was arriving, a 14 year old boy. I was collecting the balls for the session and looked over to see Toby passing and talking with him like they were old friends. I think this sums Toby up well. 

I am blessed to have known Toby and to have called him my friend. I am devastated by this loss. Love you, brother.

For a good portion of my life, Toby was one of my closest, and best friends, and one that I would have considered to be a brother. 

I met Toby in elementary school, and after his 4th grade birthday party, we became amazing friends. Throughout our friendship, Toby introduced me to many friends, and taught me many things. I have so many memories with Toby, whether it was playing backyard football, skating, hanging out at the  pool, or even just riding bikes around Gahanna, I will never forget them. 

I remember vividly, freshmen year when found out he didn’t make the soccer team. He was upset, but he told all his friends that he would keep working and he would make it the next year. He did, and he didn’t stop there. It is truly amazing to see Toby’s hard work pay off, and his dream of making a D1 program come true. Throughout everything, Toby never gave up. 

I wish I would relive one day at our 8th grade lunch table, with Jayden, Andy, Braden, Dallas, Jacob, Jake, and Toby and hear all the nonsense we used to joke about one last time. 

To the Forsythe family, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You are an amazing, and strong family. Toby was an amazing person, who was respected by his peers, friends, and community, and this is a direct reflection of the Forsythe’s. Thank you for everything that your family did for me, I love you guys.

Heartbroken  for you and your family in this indescribable loss. 

Your words, pictures and those being placed here by others: What a beautifully full life Toby lived, well loved by family and friends, near and far.  

My nephew, Eben, knew/knows and loved/loves Toby, and hearing this news from him tied us into your grief in the early hours. 
 You and your family have not left my mind or prayer space, since.

Toby to me was more than a co-worker or friend he was like a brother to me even in the short time i got close with him, he always was so happy to see me and had a smile on his face and encouraged me to work hard and earn college baseball. He was loved by everyone he talked to and interacted with and loved for his ability to be himself and not be embarrassed, he inspired me to be not only a better man but a better person I will forever cherish all the photos and videos i have with Toby and all the memories of him. Thank you for blessing me with your sons time and sons beautiful soul, I plan to keep Toby with me throughout everything and keep him in everything I do via a short message of “TobyStrong#00” again thank you for blessing my life with your sons kind heart and soul.

Melanie and family,

I’m deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your dear, Toby. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you and your loved ones. 

May God comfort and care for you during this difficult time and bring His peace and encouragement your way and from your church community and loved ones. 

My love and prayers are with you. 

With sympathy, Linda Sylvester

As a parent there is one call you never want to get, but you don’t realize when tragedy misses the mark yet still hits so close to home your heart will absolutely break into a million pieces. Toby you were the friend every mother wishes, hopes, and prays her children will find. You were a stand in for love while I was away on assignment. I would FaceTime the boys and forever see you at the house so I would ask, “Does Toby live here now?” When actually my heart would be filled to the point of overflow knowing you were there for them. Your joy for life was infectious, your smile and heart the biggest I’ve seen in one so young. I remember the last time I ran into you at Resolute and you were telling me about all your plans, your ambition, and the work you were putting in to making it all happen. Your hug was strong and confident, I was so proud of you. I am so proud of you. You’ve touched all our hearts and changed our lives for the better so now rest easy young fella. We will carry your light forward.

Toby has always been there for me. No matter what happened he always been there. He was a big role model to me on and off the field. Glad to meet the lovely woman who raised him. Toby‘s legacy will live on.

Toby was one of my daughters favorite people when she was little; We got to see him grow from a boy into a man, his loss is felt deeply by many and he will be so dearly missed. ❤️

I had the pleasure of briefly meeting Toby at Lindsay Honda on two occasions, and he has left a lasting impression on me.  RIP, Toby.  Sending sympathies and prayers to his family and friends.

I know in my soul that your Dad is so overjoyed to see you Toby. I also know that this tragedy comes as an inconsolable moment in time for so many.  Wish I could wrap my arms around you all.  All my love,
Sarah

We are crushed by this news. He is and always will be so loved.  Sending all the comfort and healing possible your way. Praying continuously for the Forsythe family and loved ones.
- Khutsidze Family

This is a clip of Toby’s best moments from our trip to Myrtle Beach back in June of 2023. Toby’s energy throughout the trip was also so bright and contagious. He always knew how to make everyone around him laugh and have a good time. It’s a shame to know someone so genuine and kind, is gone. But Toby’s memory will never be forgotten, may he rest in peace.

I didn’t know Toby personally but he was a friend of my daughter’s in high school. Every day, after school, her little brother and I always asked her what funny things Toby said that day. My heart goes out to his mom. As a mother, I can’t imagine. Much love and prayers going out to his brother, sister and the rest of the family. He touched so many - even through funny stories passed down every day after high school.

Toby...

You had a fire in you that could not be ignored. You were loud, you demanded more, and you refused to let anyone settle for less than they were capable of. You challenged us, believed in us, and made us better, even when we did not want to hear it.

Your impact was far greater than the game. You gave people memories they will carry for the rest of their lives. You gave this program a piece of yourself, and that piece will never be forgotten. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with Toby’s family, friends, and everyone who had the privilege of knowing him during this incredibly difficult time. Forever one of us. Forever a Bear.

Rest in peace Toby.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand this situation. It's the hardest thing in the world. 
Never get over it! Always look back, Toby is always right behind you!!!
Sending my prayers, 
Eddie Forsythe 
#eddieforsythe

I trained with Toby at Columbus GK Academy, he was always hard working and a great training partner. I hadn’t seen Toby in almost 2 years,  just a few weeks ago, he came into Horseshoe, where I work, and sat down at my bar. I turned around and he said do I know you?? And started smiling and laughing.  We talked the rest of my shift. He told me about his aspirations for this upcoming year and post college, playing professionally. I told him, that I lost love for playing and I wasn’t sure if I wanted to continue, he pushed me to believe in myself again and told me I was good enough. I’m thankful I got to share one last special moment with him. Fly high Toby 🖤

Toby was a kind person and a great friend. He was a leader in every environment; from the moment he came to Ashland Soccer, he made an impact on our team by encouraging and motivating everyone around him. He had all the natural qualities of a born leader: confidence, integrity, and, most importantly, the ability to put others before himself.

Toby was also a student of life. Whether at our men's bible study, at practice, or in the classroom, he was always eager to learn and quick to share any insight that might help me or those around him. The impact Toby made in his 21 years is a testament to his love and passion for the people in his life. He will be missed dearly.

Love you bro this is when we went out for like our 3rd time at Lowell really had a good night with you

Lesh and the entire Blast FC family send our deepest condolences. Toby will be missed but never forgotten.

Toby, I never got the chance to say this to you in person but I love ya bro thank you for everything you’ve done for me, i wouldn’t be here without you. From the first day behind the church to the last session in the barn before you went off to college,  I looked up to you the whole time. Everytime I faced a hardship I thought what would Toby say, Keep pushing, stop complaining, try harder. As much as I hated hearing it back then, it has shaped me into the player and man i am today. 
To the Family,
You may not know me but just know that I love you guys, thank you for raising a wonderful man and he has changed my life forever. He never knew it but I loved watching him play and shaped my game to be like his. I am so sorry for your loss and I am praying for you all. ❤️

Your energy was contagious and your impact on others has been clear this week.  Thank you for sharing your story with me. This first photo is how I will always remember you. How you used soccer to heal. How you exceeded your own expectations in the sport. And how your faith became important again. I won't forget our conversation about this photo when I posted it over the many saves you had that same game. It takes a special kind to be a GK, and you were one of the best.

Here’s Toby playing basketball at my house. I fondly remember after this him having an hour long conversation about goal-keeping with my father who was a college goal-keeper. He not only touched my life but his too.

He had the best sass it would make you laugh so hard every time.

Toby was probably one of the most kind people I think I have ever had the pleasure and privilege of knowing. This was at my sisters 18th birthday. He brought her flowers and wrote her the sweetest cards. He would stay up nights playing dress to impress with me. In true Toby fashion he wanted a silly photo… and of course that meant this amazing pose.

Toby changed my life for the better. He got me to believe in God again. In the worst year of my life at college he would FaceTime me just to check on me. I will forever be grateful for his kindness and care he not only showed me, but everyone. A thank you to him will never be enough, he pulled me back to God after I had strayed due to the worst moments within my life. He was always an angel.

There is not enough words in the English dictionary to describe Toby. He was everything a great person could be. I am so blessed to have known him and to have been his friend. I will miss his smile and laugh the most, they were incredibly contagious. He was a person who was intelligent in every way; book-smart, emotional, religiously, and of who he was.  He truly changed the trajectory of my life, he was a catalyst. Words fail me when it comes to the pain of losing such an amazing person, and most importantly friend. I don’t pretend to know the pain of his family— especially his mother. He loved her more than anything and he would light up when he spoke of her. He was relentlessly proud of his siblings, he always let you know how incredible they are. I am praying for his family and sending them all of the love that they so rightfully deserve. His love for his family was unmeasurable. I am so truly deeply sorry for your loss, your pain is something that I could never imagine. I hope you know how much he loved you all.

2023 Suicide Prevention and Awareness Walk. 💛💛💛

Toby was part of our team and lives, he spent 2 years with us here at Ashland. When I recruited him he was great - such enthusiasm and a great kid - everyone I talked to loved him. He was a high achieving kid although becoming a goalkeeper relatively late in his high school playing- he was extremely focused all the time … he was destined to do well. We will all miss him and I know he had some very close friends on the team - this will hit them hard. I think for our team we will look back with a smile at the times we were fortunate to spend with him. RIP TOBY - Nick Roberts / Head Coach at Ashland University

It was a pleasure and an honor photographing Toby doing what he loved on the pitch. His life was a gift to those who knew him. His fire, determination and charisma drew people to him and spoke his story. We are so sorry for your loss and are lifting you all up in prayers. 🕊️❤️

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Tobias Christopher Forsythe

November 2, 2004 – July 5, 2026

Schoedinger Margarum Northeast

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