Debbie, you will always be close to my heart. I truly miss you. Sorry I was not there to say good bye.  I’m glad your with the angels. I just wish I could of known you  longer.  I can say you are truly loved.  By all   Your family and friends. And you  will truly be missed . 

Mom I miss You! I miss you. I don't know how I'm gonna say goodbye tomorrow. My life will never be the same without You! I'd give anything to know that you knew how much I needed you and love you my sweet mother. The last time I saw my mom it was lunchtime...steve was rock in out to some county music and a beer doin yard work. I made my mom lunch that day....cut up strawberry and cheese is what she wanted. I cut them up bitesize and she little by little was able to feed herself. She got so excited she yelled...steve steve...did u eat your lunch yet? This is good food. Dani...shes such a good cook my mom said. That was a really good day. Mom....i will forever  hold a sadness and longing for you. Like uncle rick said...you are one of the angels u always loved!


Debbie was a wonderful, awesome friend.  We had a lot of wonderful times together shopping, walking and the LA County fair and others.  She told me one of  her childhood memory of looking up at the clouds and finding objects in them, I did that on Tuesday after she went to her peaceful rest place and I seem a cloud that was shaped like a heart. I know she was there sending love to all of us. I miss her.
You'll have my deepest sympathy.
Adell

I am very sad to hear of Debbie’s passing.  We went to high school together and we had so many fun times it’s hard to think of one.  I will always remember her laugh and her ability to always stay happy even in dark times.  RIP Sweet Friend.

My Big Sister,
 A Kind Gentle soul. Your Love , Support and Kindness was  always there for me. You are forever in my Heart and the hole in my Heart will never be filled, our Memories will never be Lost.
RIP Deb. Now your one of the Angeles (she loves Angeles) you always Loved. I miss you more than words can say! 
Love You . Now my Gardian Angel 😇 

Our kind and gentle soul, Debbie, has been called to rest. I will always remember the fun times we shared together and that she was such a good sport,  and gave it her all ..." The awesome foursome".  I love her and will miss her dearly.



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Debra Lynn Wilhelmi

November 11, 1954 – November 24, 2019

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