OBITUARY
Mary Weir Doane
September 3, 1928 – February 17, 2021
Mary Weir (Munro) Doane died in Halifax on February 17, 2021, Ash Wednesday, at the age of 92, leaving us with a long list of one liners that nobody knows when or how to use. Born in Truro, Nova Scotia on September 3, 1928, she was the daughter of the Reverend Kenneth M. Munro (d.1931) and Sarah Elizabeth (Williams) Munro (d.1984) From a young age, Mary loved physical activity. Much of her young life was spent at the Waegwoltic Club where she became an accomplished swimmer and then a lifeguard. She was a keen dancer and basketball player, captaining the QEH teams all three years of high school and winning provincial titles. In adulthood, she continued to play basketball with the Halifax Tartans and took up tennis, which she played at the Waeg into her 80s.
Mary received her education at Queen Elizabeth High School, University of Toronto (School of Physical and Health Education) and Mount Allison University. In the 1950s, she taught physical education at Queen Elizabeth High School and led hundreds of girls in intramural programs there. Coaching was her great love. In the early 1960s, Mary coached field hockey and basketball at Acadia University. She also headed the women’s Phys. Ed program at MSVU. Later, she continued to coach basketball in the Halifax Ladies League and coached the provincial women’s basketball team that went to Saskatoon for the 1977 Canada Winter Games.
A lifelong member of the United Church of Canada, Mary sang alto in St. Andrew’s United, St. Matthew’s United and the Chebucto Choir Singers.
Mary’s volunteer work included chairing the 1984 Women’s Recognition Dinner at the YWCA, chairing the residential campaign for the United Way for Halifax, Bedford, Dartmouth and coordinating the residential campaign for the NS Heart and Stroke Foundation. In 1997, Mary was invited to chair the 20th anniversary concert for the Chebucto Community Singers.
Mary was fierce and quick witted, organized and determined. She loved entertaining friends, coffee, going to the Waeg, wine, road trips with Herbert around this beautiful province, (little) Queensland Beach, CBC radio, redecorating her house, Andre Agassi, her beloved Halifax and most of all, family gatherings where she could be the character she was.
She is survived by her husband of 39 years, Herbert Thomas Doane and his family, her four MacVicar children, Joan (Rob Tremaine), Donnie (Lisa), Sarah (Chris Hicks) and Martha (Nigel Collinson); her grandchildren Andrew, Kate, Sarah and Caroline Tremaine; Neil and Priya MacVicar; and Alexandra, Emily and Sarah Beck; great grandchildren Kai and Hannah Tremaine and Victoria and William Lebans, numerous nieces and nephews and former son-in-law Danny Beck.
She was preceded by her sister Helen Beatty (2016), her brother K. Bain Munro (1993), Colin in infancy and former husband Neil MacVicar (2000).
Donations may be made to Bethany United’s Church Choir Music Fund or to the YWCA of Halifax.
A memorial service will be held at J.A. Snow Funeral Home, 339 Lacewood Drive, Halifax on Tuesday, February 23rd at 3pm. Due to Covid 19 restrictions space will be limited, please call 902-455-0531 to pre-register for the service.
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Memorial Service
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
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Mary Weir Doane
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ADD A MEMORYAshley Fuller
February 24, 2021
Dear Joan, Don, Sarah, Martha and Herbert.
I was very sorry to hear of Mary’s death and the sense of loss that you must be feeling now. She lived an full and active life and inspired many along the way. May her words and memories be with you as you grieve your mother and wife.
My sincere condolences to you and all your families.
Ashley Fuller
Kaye Pottie
February 23, 2021
Dear Herb, Sarah, Joan, Don, Martha and families,
The service today was a wonderful reflection of Mary. She would have loved it and approved. I have so many beautiful memories of times spent in her company- the Chebuctones, Chebucto Community Singers, dinners, visiting at Shortt’s Lake etc.I loved her sense of humour. She was one of a kind.Blessings, peace and love as you all adjust to this loss in your lives.
Leslie Ann Stephen
February 23, 2021
Dear Herb,
I attended the moving celebration of Mary’s life today. You are in the thoughts of everyone who has sung with you over the years!
Leslie Ann Stephen
Karen Finley
February 23, 2021
Herb: I just finished watching the Livestream Memorial service for Mary. What a lovely tribute to your wonderful wife! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Karen Finley
Bethany United Church Choir
Ken Beatty
February 23, 2021
In the 50’s and 60’s I went with my family every 4 years to spend a month at Nana’s house on Waegwoltic Ave in Halifax. My memories of Aunt Mary and my cousins are from those times. Keep well everybody.
David Henry
February 23, 2021
I'm very sorry to hear about Mary's passing, Herb--please know you're in my thoughts. We miss you at Seton.
David Beatty
February 23, 2021
Dear Herbert, Joan, Donnie, Sarah and Martha
I was saddened to learn of Mary's passing.
Whenever I think of Mary, it makes me smile.
One of my first memories of Mary is driving to Nova Scotia one summer with Helen and Jane. Helen was focused on driving and Jane was being Jane so you can guess who did all he talking. I am smiling just remembering the trip.
We have all been very lucky in the birth lottery and I got an extra bonus with Mary showing up as my aunt.
Best wishes and good health
David
Gloria Simpson (Genik)
February 23, 2021
Dear Herbert,
Sincerest condolences to you and Joan, Donnie, Sarah, Martha and families. I have such fond memories of Mary. We shared many happy times together in our Rockingham days. She was very entertaining and such fun to be with. I know you will all miss her very much.
Michael Conde
February 22, 2021
Dear Herbert,
Just learned of Mary's passing (from David Hopkins who took your place at the 'bubble' today).
My thoughts, condolences and good wishes are with you.
As you go through this difficult time of bereavement, if there is anything I can be of assistance with to make life just somewhat easier for you, please let me know.
Sincerely,
Michael C.
Jane McLean
February 22, 2021
Dear Herbert and family,
Please accept my sympathies on the passing of Mary.
Growing up with her energy, happiness, and laughter - from summers at Waegwoltic to lively visits at the Beatty home in Upper Canada.
& then visiting us in Quebec.
I was so fortunate to have Mary in my life.
Her spirit surely lives on.
Jane Weir McLean
Bernice Doucet-Pearce
February 22, 2021
Sincere condolences Herb from a fellow EnChor East member.
Bernice (Alto)
Claudia Kingston
February 22, 2021
Herb and family,
Sincere condolences on the passing of Mary... take care...
Claudia Kingston (Seton chorister)
Karen Wickwire
February 22, 2021
Another great lady has passed. I remember the fun we had in choir. I also had her as a phys ed teacher at the Mount. She will be missed. Condolences to you and your family, Herb.
Joseph and Joy MacPherson
February 21, 2021
To Herb Doane: Joy and I send our sincere condolences on
the sad passing of your dear wife, Mary. Thankfully, you were able to spend many good years together before this untimely event took her from you. May she rest in peace. Joy and Joe MacPherson,
Halifax, NS.
Karen Ferguson
February 21, 2021
Dear Joan, Rob and family,
So sorry to learn of the passing of your Mom and Grandmother. How fortunate to have had the gift of her presence in your lives for so many years. What a life and what a legacy!
Karen Ferguson and Robert Maingot
derm english
February 21, 2021
Herb
Saddened by the news today of Mary's passing, and our thoughts are with you.
I'd hope to see you when 'covid permits'.
regards
Derm and Chris English
Tatamagouche
Laurie Smith
February 21, 2021
So sorry for you and your family. Trueman and I are thinking of you and definitely praying for peace and the “joy that comes in the morning”. I, gratefully, still have mom and can’t imagine my day without our FaceTimes. Love you, Joan.
Sheila Andrecyk
February 20, 2021
to Herb and family, so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. Please accept my most sincere sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Sheila Andre yk.
Gail Rice
February 20, 2021
Sincere condolences to the family.
I have many fond memories of basketball games with Mary as my coach and good friend. Lots of laughter on those road trips.
Gail Rice
Marie Scagliola
February 20, 2021
Dear Joan,
My heartfelt condolences to you, Rob and family on the passing of your mother Mary. Be assured that all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Marie Scagliola
Cynthia Pilichos
February 20, 2021
Dear Joan:
So sorry to read of the death of your mother, but what a loving tribute to her. It is very evident that she will be greatly missed by her extensive and caring family. Please accept my personal condolences and those of the members of the Coordinating Committee for the Dalhousie Women's Division Alumnae Association.
Cynthia Pilichos
Helen Stewart
February 20, 2021
Dearest Herb, Joan, Rob, and family,
Please accept my most sincere condolences on Mary’s passing. What a wonderfully witty, talented and delightful woman she was. Her smile and pithy comments would light up any conversation one would have with her. My memories of her are so very vivid and cherished. I know she brought a lot of joy into Herb’s life and I will remember her so very fondly. A virtual hug to you all. I may not be able to attend her celebration of life, but wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and I send my warmest regards.
Most sincerely, Helen Stewart
Locklyn Whynot
February 20, 2021
I was very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. I have lots of good memories of her and Herbert. Thinking of you all during this sad time. Locklyn Whynot