OBITUARY
Pamela Brantley
February 14, 1954 – February 19, 2021
Pamela Howie Brantley, age 67, of Monroe, went home to be with the Lord on February 19, 2021.
She was preceded in death by her sister, Libby Howie Morrison and Libby’s husband, Jack Morrison. She is survived by her loving husband of 48 years, Don Brantley; her son, Clark Brantley (Stephani); her daughter, Ansley Sheeran (Paul); her brothers, Ralph Howie (Judy) and Kenny Howie (Carol Ann); and her four grandchildren, Reagan Brantley, Zoey Brantley, Oliver Sheeran, and Charlotte Sheeran.
Pamela was born in Union County on February 14, 1954, daughter of the late Ralph and Celeste Rape Howie. She graduated from Monroe High School in 1972. She then graduated with honors from Wingate College and went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in Education from UNC Charlotte. Pamela was a devoted wife and mother. On August 5, 1972 she married her “honey bun”, Don Brantley. They welcomed their son on June 10, 1980 and daughter on May 27,1983.
Pamela loved to love and uplift people. She had the warmest heart, always with a hug and word of encouragement ready to share. She treasured her family and spending time with them. She especially cherished her role as Nana. She loved going to the beach, her happy place. She made the best chocolate oatmeal cookies. She loved music and was an incredibly talented singer and choir director. She was a strong woman of faith and loved the Lord with all her heart. She loved her church and her church family. She found great joy in praising the Lord through investing her time in church activities such as Vacation Bible School, choir productions, and teaching Sunday school. She was a dedicated teacher and taught elementary through middle school for over 20 years. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and everyone who knew her.
The family has requested open hours for friends to sign the register book and pay their respects from 2:00pm until 7:00pm Wednesday, February 24, 2021 at McEwen Funeral Home of Monroe. A service to celebrate the life of Mrs. Brantley will be held at 3:00pm Thursday, February 25, 2021 at Oak Grove Baptist Church with interment following in the church cemetery. McEwen Funeral Home of Monroe is honored to serve the Brantley family.
“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.” ~ 1 Corinthians 2:9.
Services
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Open hours for community to leave condolences
Wednesday, February 24, 2021
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Celebration of Life Service
Thursday, February 25, 2021
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Committal Service
Thursday, February 25, 2021
Memories
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ADD A MEMORYBarbara & Jimmy Whitley
March 1, 2021
We are sorry we did not know of Pam's passing. She was such a lovely lady and was loved by so many. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Abbie Underwood Fowler Smith
March 1, 2021
Don, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I recall many fond memories years ago with you and Pam at Oak Grove. She was such a warm and caring lady, and always had that pretty smile on her face. I so loved to hear her sing, and it was a real treat to hear you and her harmonize together. Heaven's choir has gained another beautiful voice and soul. Prayers and comfort to you and your family.
Monra Doster
February 24, 2021
Don and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I only knew Pam through her FB posts and she was always so uplifting even during her times of pain and illness. May God hold all of you close to Him, comfort you and cover you with His love today and in the days ahead.
Lois Nance
February 24, 2021
Dear Don and family, Our hearts are broken for you and your family in this loss. We pray you will be comforted by the sweet and precious memories of Pam and that the Lord will give you peace.
Lois & Bill Nance
Gwen Jordan
February 23, 2021
Don, Clark, and Ansley,
My heart breaks for you. Pam was a wonderful person. I'm praying for the strength you will need in the days ahead.
Kelland Williams
February 23, 2021
Don, I am so deeply sorry for you and your family on the passing of Pam. I don't believe I ever saw Pam when she was not smiling. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless each of you during this sad time.
Kelland
Janet McGuirt
February 23, 2021
Don, there are no words to tell you how very sorry I am on the loss of your beloved Pam. She truly was one of the kindest and sweetest people that I have ever known, and even beyond that, she was a true Christian light for the world to see. I always loved hearing her sing when I was at Oak Grove....but I know that her beautiful voice is now singing in heaven with God’s angels. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jean Hart
February 23, 2021
Don, Clark and Ansley, My heartfelt prayers are with you all during this time and will continue in the days to come, SO many sweet memories of better times, the times we worked together at Oak Grove, VBS, teaching, working with youth, and all those fall festivals, Fun times at the beach each year and the joy and laughter we shared. I will remember her sweet smile and her laughter, I will remember how much she adored all of you and I remember all the beautiful music she blessed us with over the years. Her love of God and service to Him was evident in all she did and I will miss her so much but sweet memories of her will remain in my heart. May God bless you all! Much Love! Jean
Ed & Kathy Davis Davis
February 22, 2021
Don, Clark, Ansley, & All the Family,
We have so many fond memories of Pam and the many good times with the Brantley family. First as young couples before any of us had kids, then as Clark and Ansley came along and all our families grew. The church activities, the beach trips, and the many good times we all shared. Through it all, Pam was right in the middle of things with a nice laugh and generous smile. She always used her gift for music for the Glory of God and the comfort of others. Even in recent years when she had various health challenges she continued to serve as our Oak Grove Choir Director. She loved God, her family, and Carolina Basketball. Well, with regard to that last love, I guess no one is perfect! Right Don? 😊You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God's perfect peace will be with you and strengthen you in the days ahead. We loved Pam and we will continue to love you all. God Bless You!
Cindy Dillard
February 22, 2021
Don, Many thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family
I loved reading Pam's Facebook post of encouragement and her love fir the Lord. She was a beautiful lady inside and out. We will always remember her sweet spirit through her posts. May God give u grace through this time.
The Dillard's
Kathy Gay Buxton
February 22, 2021
Don and Family,
My sympathies to you and yours. May you find peace and comfort in the coming days. My prayers are with you all.
Becki Rushing-Rice
February 22, 2021
Don: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Barbara Rochester Howell
February 22, 2021
Pam and I were friends on Facebook for several years before I finally got to meet her. We ran into each other at the laundry mat and knew each other instantly and it was like we were old friends. Pam knew that I had gone to school with Don and we talked for quite a while. We were instant friends and I am going to miss her so much.
My thoughts and prayers are with Don and the rest of the family.. I know that Pam has now been in the presence of the Lord and wouldn't change places with anyone for anything in this world.
Don Robinson
February 22, 2021
Don,
Lauren and I received news today of Pam's passing. You and I have the same first name and I was born on February 14th.
Pan and I thought that was cool. What a nice person she was. Lauren and I will always treasure the precious memories of
you and Pan singing at our wedding in 2004. May you and the family find peace in the promise of eternal life. Remembering you and the family in prayer.
Don Robinson
Mary Starnes
February 21, 2021
Mr. Don. Rusty and I are shocked at what we have just read about Ms. Pam. She was such a sweet lady and seemed to be the other half of you. Please, if you need anything, please don't hesitate to call use. Rusty's number is 980.257.1401.
The Medlins
February 21, 2021
Prayers for the Brantley family. Don and family you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Don if you or your family need anything please don't hesitate to ask. Praying for you all.
The Medlins
Norma Carpenter
February 21, 2021
Don and family, I am so very sorry for your loss.
Phillip & Teresa Alexander
February 21, 2021
Don and family we’re so sorry to hear about Pam . You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Phillip and Teresa Alexander and family.
Don and Ann Thompson
February 20, 2021
Praying for the family. May God comfort your hearts and give you strength hour by hour.
Janice Eury
February 20, 2021
When we heard of Pam's passing and in sharing with people that knew her, the first thing that was said was that she was such a sweet person and lived her testimony each day. I believe that this is the way that she would want to be remembered. Although we didn't get to spend a lot of time together, I know that I will never forget her bright smile each time I saw her. Now we pray for comfort for Don and the family in days to come knowing that she is in the arms of Jesus and not ever being in pain again. As time goes by, all the memories of her will bring much comfort. Sending thoughts of comfort.
Cathy Ferguson Helms
February 20, 2021
I knew Pam in high school as friendly and kind to everyone who crossed her path. I enjoyed joining voices in the school choir and then hearing hers soar in with us. Such a lovely girl! I'm sure I would have liked the woman she became.
John Moore
February 20, 2021
Don, so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers.
Anita Simpson
February 20, 2021
Don, I hope you know how much you are loved and that it brings you some peace. Pam was amazing and a blessing to us all. It is said that we have grief because we loved so deeply. That is very true and I’m so sorry you experience it now. I’ll be praying for you and your family and will always remember the smile and joy Pam shared with us all.
Jann Simpson
February 20, 2021
Don and Family,
There are no words that I can share to console you all, but those who knew Pam were truly blessed. After we last text before her treatment started she had the best outlook. The reason was because she was a true Christian , and she would make everyone else feel better.
We grew up watching our brothers play ball for years, and I cherish those memories and friendship . We lost touch as I was a few years older, but we didn’t skip a beat catching up when we saw each other.
She was a special lady that was kind, thoughtful, and well respected!
My heart is sadden to hear the news , but she is healthy again and cherish those good memories!
Anne Purcell
February 20, 2021
Tracy Barbee, AnnePurcell, Pam Brantley
( Tracy is already joking with Pam in Heaven)
Anne Purcell
February 20, 2021
Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of my sweet friend. Pam loved her family & friends, unconditionally. She also loved Jesus, as was evident in her daily life. Pam & I shared many adventures together from the time we met at Wesley Chapel Swim & Racquet Club. We taught together, planned together, went on many school field trips together, & attended educational conferences together. Before Christmas every year, we played hooky to go Christmas shopping. In later years we often met for lunch. Of course, this year we had to settle for our phone visits . Although I know that we will meet again, it is still difficult knowing that she will not sit across from me at Trios, or just maybe she will if I leave her seat empty. ❤️🙏😇
Phyllis Simpson
February 20, 2021
Don, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Pam was beautiful and talented . Enjoyed getting to know her many years ago when we sang together in the Union County Singing Christmas Tree. She was special!
Kimberly Hilton
February 20, 2021
Don, I certainly will miss Pam. I have good memories of her from Oak Grove. 🎶 She will be missed by many, but I’m glad her suffering has ended. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda Brown
February 19, 2021
Don,
I am so sorry for your loss! Such a sweet precious soul.. I will be praying for you..
Linda
Joyce Whitaker
February 19, 2021
So sorry for your loss.