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I know you made it home Denise.  I understand it girl. You were a beautiful  soft soul.  Who will b missed, that's for sure,

Denise Mayer

Denise Mayer, a loving mother, cherished caregiver, and beloved grandmother to her step-grandchildren, will be remembered for her caring heart, fierce independence, magical wisdom, and the joy she brought to the lives of those who knew and loved her.

Denise was a proud participant in the Morgan City High School Flag Corps and carried that same spirited energy throughout her life. She loved music, especially Fleetwood Mac and the rock music of the 1980s. If there was music playing, Denise loved to dance and never needed much of an excuse to get up and enjoy the moment.

Those who knew Denise will remember her as someone who was a whole lot of fun, deeply caring, and wonderfully unique. She had a special way of making people feel loved and remembered. She may even hold the record for the longest and sweetest voice messages—little pieces of her heart that her loved ones will treasure forever.

Denise’s love for her family was at the center of who she was. She was a devoted mother, a cherished caregiver, and a loving grandmother to her step-grandchildren. Her memory will live on through the countless lives she touched with her kindness, humor, strength, and unconditional love.

Denise is now rejoicing in Heaven with her beloved son, Rudy, and her husband, Thurlow (Flander). While her family and friends will deeply miss her presence, they find comfort in knowing that she is at peace and reunited with those she loved so dearly.

She is survived by her son, Dustin Aucoin; her mother and stepfather, Karen and Frank Fink; her step-grandchildren; and many extended family members and friends who will forever carry her memory in their hearts.

We will continue to pray for Denise and for all those who loved her. Her laughter, her music, her dancing, her long voice messages, and her beautiful, unforgettable spirit will never be forgotten.

Rest peacefully, Denise. Keep dancing among the angels. You will always be loved, always,  love your little kiddo, Dustin

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Denise Marie Mayer

March 4, 1968 – July 6, 2026

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