Pat is a good friend of my parents, Mike & Jean Martemucci.  We are so sorry for your loss.  Every time we came to Pentwater camping Pat would find us and provide us with a wonderful desert like her pineapple upside down cake.  She would also bring homemade bread. (still warm)  She never came empty handed.  Her laugh could be heard from a distance and would light up our day.  Her carefree attitude was so refreshing.  She will be missed !!  Our thoughts and prayers go out to Hillary, Holly and family.  My parents Mike & Jean Martemucci just heard the news and called today.   Jim & Carol Martemucci

We were all so sorry to see that Pat has passed away.  Her and Ben were friends with my parents, Mike and Jean Martemucci and we became friends with these two awesome people through them.  Pat was a wonderful lady, funny, loving, and so generous.  We always could expect a visit or several from her everytime we camped in Pentwater.  And yes she always came with dessert or bread.  We are so sorry for your loss...Phil, Patty, Ryan/Kim, Nate, Chris/Stefanie Whitney, Martemucci, Rutledge.

In one's own lifetime we meet people who soon occupy our hearts and minds. Pat was one of those people. Becoming a friend was just as natural as breathing. We joked and kidded, enjoying every minute of it. Her specialty was doing for others, always smiling and rarely frowning. It was natural for her to be my adopted "aunt.' Our community has a hole, as well as our heart, which had been filled by Pat. We lost Pat, but her memory will long be remembered by many. God speed Pat, and thank you for being a close friend. -- Barb and Phil Myers, Harbor Lights.

I will miss Pat, she always stopped in my office at Harbor Lights and shared her bread and I shared by pretzels with her.  What a wonderful lady!

I will always remember Pat for making great deserts for the great parties we had in Harbor Lights. The home made bread that Pat made and shared with her friends was greatley ejoyed.
Tom & Peggy Neupert Depper Kalamazoo MI.

Pat will be missed by all her friends in Harbor Lights.  We have missed her the past season.  It was great talking to her a couple of weeks ago.  I am glad she told me how to make a upside cake.

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Patricia J. Oesterle Benvenuti

September 23, 1928 – May 23, 2012

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