 Dear Louise,
I am so sorry about Gary. He was such a fun loving guy. He always enjoyed a party and seemed so upbeat all of the time, even when fighting his illness.
I think he would have enjoyed his eulogies, George's was heartfelt and amusing. Charles' was so touching. Your boys are so handsome and they have always been so nice, you must be very proud of them.
I really feel for you with the loss of Gary and your Mother. You are such a caring person, loved by many.
Love,
~ Kay

 Dear Louise,
Mark joins me in this message of deepest sympathy. We are headed to north Georgia tomorrow and so we will not be able to attend Gary's service. I know it will be a lovely tribute and will be praying for everyone traveling here to be with you. In some small way I hope it is a comfort to know others care very much and share your sorrow.
I can't help thinking about your family at the Mystery Ball and also at your 70th birthday party - the good times. I hope you will be able to rest some and focus on your many good memories. Peace +++
With love,
~ Mark and Libby

 Dear Schaefer family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Gary's passing he was a very nice man.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family this holiday season.
Sincerely,
~ Kathy

Dearest Louise,
Please forgive me for taking so long to finally put down in written words my deepest and heartfelt feelings of sorrow from the loss of Gary and sympathy for you. My heart ached at sharing your pain because you are so very special to me.
Frank and I truly miss Gary- his humor and genuine honesty, his interest in others, and willingness to help whenever he saw it was needed - someone you could always count on. We've always admired his dedication to family and you as well.
We are indeed most blessed to have had him as our friend and for all the wonderful memories we have of the great times we shared over the years. I know that if Frank had not still been working, he would have wanted to spend more time with Gary.
And now I still thank God for having brought you into and for keeping you in my life. I pray that our friendship will always remain special and strong and that we will always be there for each other.
Still praying for God to comfort you and keep you strong through this most difficult time.
Much Love,
     Anne and Frank

 Dear Louise,
Please accept my belated sympathy at This time. Although Gary had been ill for a long time I know his loss was still a shock.
Time will make your pain lessen, I promise. Hope to see you at a meeting soon.
~ Nancy

 Louise,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you were surrounded by loved ones over the holiday. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Best,
~ Lisa

 You had a wonderful husband and he had a wonderful wife!! I think your friends helping with the meals was indicative of the caring and concerned they felt for you and Gary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
~ Jan

 Dear Louise,
I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May His unfailing love be your comfort according to His promise. Psalm 119:76
Love,
~ Hugh L.

 Dear Aunt Louise, Charles and William,
I know it has been a difficult year with the passing of your mother and grandmother and now your beloved husband and father. You have our condolences and were saddened by you loss.
Although it has been far too long since we have had to the opportunity to visit, I was very fortunate to have visited with Aunt Weezie about eighteen months ago. She was great to rekindle fond memories of my grandmother. However, her true joy and delight was in the stories she recounted of you. Her love was radiant.
You will remain in our prayers during this difficult time. Hopefully, the Christmas spirit will ease your grief.
With deepest sympathy,
~ Peyton

 Dear Louise,
I have been so thinking of you these past few days. You are always so kind and thoughtful and sweet to speak to me. Gary was the same way. He will be so missed at church, around town and from your sweet group of friends.
I hope you are doing okay. We will be thinking of you and sending love your way this Christmas.
Sincerely,
Mary Martin and Richard

We were so sorry to learn of Gary's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.Love, Betsy and Lee

Dear Louise,
Dito and I are so sorry that you and Gary have been through so much. We have missed you both, and think of you often. Pat and Dito

Dearest Louise,
Allen joins me in sending you and your family hugs and our sincerest condolences during this very sad and difficult time. We have some fabulous memories of Gary(particularly at Jimmy's wedding) Wish we will continue to treasure! Please know that you and your family will remain in our hearts and daily prayers! With love, Cindy and Allan

Louise,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family now. Wishing you comfort in all the wonderful memories you shared. Sincerely, Helene and Dick

Dear Louise,
Billy and I send our sincere sympathy. You have been a great example to all of us. May Gad bless you and give you His great Peace. Love, Cindy and Billy

Louise,
It is with an understanding heart that I express how sorry I am for your loss. I am leaving in a little while for MN to visit my daughter. Just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my prayers. I return on the 24th and hope to be here for your husband's service. Will be in touch. Fondly, Margaret

 Dear Louise,
So very Sorry but goodness what a fight he fought. He was an inspiration. My love and prayers are with you and all the family. Linda

 Louise,
Thoughts come daily about what you are going through with the lose of both mother and husband in a very short period. I hope that as soon as possible you can find peace and comfort which will come from remembering happy and important activities in their lives. Cousin William

Dear Louise and Family,
    We are thinking of all of you as you are in Church attending Gary's funeral. Sending our prayers and love during this difficult time.
Gloria and Norman

Louise and all of your family,
 I was so sorry to hear about Gary. He fought a good battle and he was lucky to have you all. We are still domiciled in Florida. I will see you in Dec. I just wanted you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will also cherish my conversation with Gary at John C's Wedding in Atlanta.
Love, Dee and Nat

Dear Louise,
    Candy and I want to offer our condolences to you for Gary's death. He was very brave in his struggle with cancer, and always appeared to live a full life even while fighting the disease. 
    You were together a very long time, and I hope you are comforted by many joyful memories of your life together. I pray that you will also face the future with the anticipation that one day you and Gary will be joined together for eternity. Until then, the love of children and grandchildren can be a reflection of the love you received from Gary.
  With sincere sadness for your loss,

OBITUARY

Charles Gary Gary Schaefer

November 13, 1944 – November 18, 2015

Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home & Cemeteries

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