Patricia Ann Marmande Trahan

Born on December 22, 1931, in Bayou Dularge, Louisiana, Pat was one of six children born to Dr. Marcelin Victor Marmande and Marie Antoinette Toups Marmande. Growing up on St. Michel, she spent her childhood surrounded by a large and loving family. She cherished her memories of life along the bayou, the many adventures shared with her siblings and cousins, and the wonderful times spent at the family camp on Grand Isle. Throughout her life, she delighted in sharing stories of those special years, keeping family memories and traditions alive for the generations that followed.

Pat graduated from Terrebonne High School and Northwestern Louisiana University. Throughout her professional life, she worked for Louisiana Power & Light, the Louisiana 4-H Club, and New Orleans Montessori School. However, her most rewarding professional experience was teaching at Magnolia School in Jefferson, Louisiana, where she found great joy and purpose in working with individuals with special needs.

In 1956, Pat married Ralph Joseph Trahan. Together, they built a beautiful life rooted in faith, family, and love. They made their home in Harahan, Louisiana, where Pat resided for the past 65 years. Their marriage of 49 years was a testament to their love and commitment to one another.

A woman of unwavering faith, Pat devoted much of her life to serving God and others. For more than 60 years, she was an active and dedicated parishioner of St. Rita of Cascia Catholic Church in Harahan. Her involvement in parish life was extensive and heartfelt. She served as a Eucharistic Minister for 40 years, was a member of the Altar Society, helped host the Mass for the Anointing of the Sick, tutored students at St. Rita School, worked with the Catholic Youth Organization (CYO), and generously volunteered her time wherever there was a need. In 1984, she was honored with the St. Louis Medallion in recognition of her extraordinary service and dedication to her parish and the Catholic Church. She was very proud of the leadership role she and Ralph played in the opening of the St. Joseph Perpetual Adoration Chapel at St Rita in 1986.

Pat's commitment to her faith extended beyond her parish. For 45 years, she served as a Captain at the Cenacle on the Lake Retreat Center, helping to foster opportunities for prayer, reflection, and spiritual renewal. Her faith was not simply something she practiced; it was the foundation of how she lived her life. She believed in the power of prayer, the importance of service, and the joy that comes from giving of oneself to others.

Pat was also blessed with a creative spirit and talented hands. She enjoyed crocheting and needlepoint, creating beautiful pieces that reflected her patience and attention to detail. But perhaps her most treasured hobby was making delicate notecards and bookmarks using dried flowers. Each creation was a small work of art, lovingly designed and generously shared. Over the years, she gave away more than 500 of these handmade treasures, bringing beauty and joy to countless friends and family members. Remarkably, even during the final week of her life, Pat continued creating the notecards she loved so dearly. It was a beautiful reflection of her enduring spirit, her creativity, and her desire to share something special with others.

Above all, Pat treasured her family. She leaves behind a legacy of love, faith, generosity, and service. Her life was a beautiful example of how ordinary acts of kindness, offered with great love, can make an extraordinary difference in the lives of others.

Pat is survived by her three children, Timothy Trahan, Susanne Trahan Walker, and Terri Trahan; her sisters-in-law, Ann Boudreaux Marmande, Loretta Young Marmande, and Carol Ballay Marmande; and numerous nieces and nephews who will cherish her memory.

She was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 49 years, Ralph Joseph Trahan; her parents, Dr. Marcelin Victor Marmande and Marie Antoinette Toups Marmande; her siblings, Virginia Lee Marmande "Dinky" Powers, Marvin Victor Marmande Sr., Marian Marmande Doucet, Dr. William Augustus Marmande Sr., and Burton Bernard Marmande Sr.; and her in-laws, Robert E. Lee, Raymond J. Powers, Hosea J. Doucet, Marlene Moory Marmande, Jessie Trahan Laurie, and Lawrence J. Laurie.

Pat's children wish to express their deepest gratitude to her devoted caregivers, Wanda Ducuing and Mamie Williams. The extraordinary love, compassion, and unwavering care they provided to Pat were immeasurable. Their kindness and dedication were truly a blessing to Pat and her family, and they will forever hold a special place in their hearts.

Family and friends are invited to celebrate Pat's life on Saturday, November 21, 2026, at St. Rita of Cascia Catholic Church, 7100 Jefferson Highway, Harahan, Louisiana. Visitation will be held from 10:00 a.m. until 12:00 noon, followed by a Funeral Mass at noon. Burial will be private.

In lieu of customary remembrances, memorial contributions in Pat's honor may be made to The Cenacle on the Lake, 5500 St. Mary Street, Metairie, LA 70005, or St. Rita of Cascia Catholic Church, 7100 Jefferson Highway, Harahan, LA 70123. Please include Patricia Trahan's name with any donation.

Pat's life was one of faith, family, service, and love. While she will be deeply missed, the countless lives she touched, the memories she created, and the love she so freely shared will remain her lasting legacy.