Itoko "Mary" Mathys

Itoko “Mary” Mathys, a longtime resident of Oceanside, California, passed away peacefully on October 31, 2026, at the age of 91. She was born on June 8, 1935, in Japan, to Untaro Sugano and Tei Kono.

Mary was a devoted wife to her beloved husband, Richard Mathys, and a loving mother to her two sons, Hiroshi Mathys and Dennis Mathys. She was also a proud grandmother to nine grandchildren, all of whom were an important part of her life.

Throughout her life, Mary found joy in the simple things. In her younger years, she was an avid table tennis player, enjoyed fishing off the pier, and took great pride in tending to her garden. She was also a devoted baseball fan, with a special love for the Los Angeles Dodgers.

Above all, Mary will be remembered for her generous heart and unwavering compassion for others. She had a special place in her heart for those in need and never hesitated to lend a helping hand. Whether feeding the homeless cats along the pier, offering kindness and assistance to unhoused individuals in Oceanside, or bringing treats to the pier to share with those she encountered, Mary found countless ways to make others feel cared for. Her generosity extended beyond those she knew, and she gave freely without ever expecting anything in return.

Mary's life was a testament to the power of kindness, compassion, and giving. She leaves behind a legacy that extends far beyond her family and friends, touching the lives of countless people and even animals in her community.

As we remember and celebrate Mary's life, may we honor her memory by carrying forward the kindness she so effortlessly shared. May we strive to help those less fortunate, give generously, and show compassion to others, just as she did throughout her life.

She will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten.