Elaine M. McDermed

Elaine departed to heaven on May 16, 2025. She is survived by her daughter, Linda Forsythe (Michael) and her five grandchildren. Saving a place for her in heaven are her husband, Donald McDermed (2003); their daughter; Diana Kissinger (1994); and their son, Mike McDermed (2013). Her remains will be in El Carmelo Cemetery beside her sweetheart, her favorite place to be.

Born and raised on a farm in Kalispell, Montana in 1930, she attended U of M in Missoula, earning a BPharm degree. Within that Journey she met and married her adoring husband. After marrying in Montana in 1953, he brought her back to his hometown, Pacific Grove, CA.

Elaine was a talented, hard-working, proper lady, who kindly offered a smile to everyone. She and Don worked side by side as pharmacists for more than 30 years, managing and running McDermed Pharmacy, their successful drug store in downtown Pacific Grove, CA. They settled in Carmel after selling their business in 1983 and continued as relief pharmacists throughout the peninsula. Elaine filled ler last prescription, 60 years in, at the age of 83. As an avid and accomplished golfer she enjoyed playing in the local salt air at MPCC and around the globe from 1961 to 2021.

The her last couple of years her memory was clouded. It would mean so much to us to hear stories of how you knew Elaine, how she affected your life, or simply how she brought a smile to you. Let this be a reminder that community is important. Grace is essential and a little kindness goes a long way.