Michael John Selbicky

Michael John Selbicky went home to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus, on August 8, 2025. Mike passed away peacefully at the Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula after a brave battle with cancer. Mike was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, son and friend who leaves behind a loving family and many beloved friends.

Married for 46 years, Mike is survived by his wife Patricia Selbicky and their three children; Jess Michael Selbicky, Julie Anne (Dan) Mendes, and Michael Vincent Selbicky. He also leaves behind four grandchildren, Zoie Selbicky, Mollie Alanis, Annaleigh Mendes, and Daniel Vincent Mendes. He is also survived by his four siblings; Neil (Joan) Selbicky, Margaret Stewart, Sandy Selbicky, and Jon (Dawn) Selbicky along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.

He is preceded in death by his parents: Vincent Selbicky and Frances Selbicky Greene, along with his son, Matthew James Selbicky and his brother Vincent P Selbicky.

Vince and Frances began raising the first part of their family with the birth of their first-born son, Vincent Patrick in 1932. Three other Selbicky siblings followed including Neil James, Margaret, and Sandy. The Selbicky Four were the first of the 6 siblings. They were all born in the 1930’s in a span of five years from 1932 to 1937! However, the Selbicky Six was not complete until 1957!

Mike was born in Monterey on July 19, 1955. A true Native Son to the Monterey Peninsula, he grew up in Pacific Grove with his younger brother, Jon who completed the Selbicky Six! As little boys they were taught to fish by their father, Vince. He fostered the love of fishing in both boys which created a strong unbreakable bond. Throughout their lives, Mike and Jon, along with other family members and close friends, have spent cherished moments fishing from Big Sur to Santa Cruz and beyond to the lakes of the Eastern Sierras. They also enjoyed surfing the shores off PG, Santa Cruz and Big Sur as well as Hawaii! The Selbicky boys have been truly an integral part of the Monterey Peninsula surfing and fishing communities.

Mike graduated from Pacific Grove High School in 1973 playing football and participating in track and field. To this day he still holds the record for the longest throw in the 12lb shot put. The record stood for 20 years until Mike broke it! Mike’s record is now over 50 years old and is still standing strong! It was his love of the field events that brought him to the Monterey Peninsula College Track and Field team. Representing MPC in the 1977 Coast Conference, Mike won the Coast Conference Championship in the shot-put event. He also won the affection of the love of his life, Patty, as they both met on the MPC Track Team!

Patty and Mike were married at Lover’s Point in Pacific Grove on February 3, 1979. Before they were married and throughout their marriage, Mike taught Patty how to surf. They enjoyed fishing in the bay, trying to catch the waves at the beach, riding bikes in Fort Ord, or just sitting in the car at Bone Yard munching on Compagnos sandwiches and taking in the ocean view.

During the early part of their marriage, Mike was employed by Hayward Lumber and Patty eventually became a registered nurse at CHOMP. Together, they set up their home in Pacific Grove where they raised their 4 children. In 1980 Jess, the oldest, was born followed by Julie Anne. Their third child, Matthew, passed away at 1 month old due to health issues. In 1990 their fourth child, Mikey, was born. Always a loving father, Mike was known to help coach the kids in baseball, softball and surfing! Like father, like sons….both Jess and Mikey are avid surfers and fishermen following in the Selbicky family tradition.

Later in their marriage, Mike and Patty shared some wonderful traveling opportunities. Their first trip was to France where they were able to see firsthand, The Tour de France. Together they were able to witness the beauty of the mountains and Mike was especially captivated by the beautiful cows that dotted the French countryside. He especially loved their big brown eyes and the bells they wore around their necks.

Their second trip was a life-changing trip for both. They traveled to Israel where their love of the Jewish people, God’s Chosen, came alive for both as they stepped into the Holy Land and witnessed the holy historical sites for themselves. Mike’s love and support for Israel remained unwavering and strong.

Yes, it is true, Mike was known by many titles……but the one title that Mike would want others to know would simply be, A Believer In Christ. Mike has been a solid member of Calvary Monterey, where he and Patty attend church regularly. His love for Jesus is exemplified in his humble and gentle heart. Mike leaves behind a golden legacy of a loving family and wonderful friends interwoven in a beautiful tapestry of faith and hope in His beloved Savior, Jesus.

And in our faith as a family, we know Mike is now in the arms of Jesus. This is a comfort and a blessing. But Mike’s presence, his gentle and kind nature, along with his soft laugh and his wonderful patient approach and guidance to everything will be greatly missed by his family and his friends. Even his number one dog, Ted, the little yorkie, who has been a friend as well as a comfort to Mike, will miss him. He will always remain in our hearts, truly loved by all.

The family would like to express their thanks and deepest gratitude for the wonderful care that Mike received from: Dr. Nancy Tray, Dr. Baker-Leyva, and Dr. Garren. Also, the Palliative Medicine Staff: Dennis, Kim, and Dharma as well as all the wonderful nurses and nurses’ aides from Terrace West. You are all angels! And last, but not least, to Dr. Thomas Nelson from UCSF Neuro Oncology.

A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held in honor of Mike On September 5, 2025, from 1:00-3:00pm at Calvary Monterey located at 3001 Monterey – Salinas Hwy Monterey, CA 93940

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the following organizations. Thank you.

The SPCA of Monterey County

www.https://spcamc.org

The Salvation Army Monterey Peninsula Corps:

www.https://montereypeninsula.salvationarmy.org