Tot Mai

December 7, 1940October 13, 2018
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Tot Mai, 77, of Port Arthur passed away Saturday, October 13, 2018. Tot was born December 7, 1940 in Vietnam to Mai Van Chau and Dinh Thi Vien.

Tot was preceded in death by his first wife Vu Thi Hai Yen and grandson Dave Mai II. He is survived by his wife, Thuy Dang and his children, Dave Mai and wife, Kristina of Port Arthur, Texas, Duong Mai of Houston, Texas, Luan Mai and wife Peggy of Beaumont, Texas Quynh Mai and wife Crystal of Houston, Texas Linh Mai of San Francisco and Tu Mai-McDaniel and husband Carl of Groves, Texas; brother, Ngoc Van Mai of Houston, Texas; and several other siblings in Vietnam. Left to cherish his memories are his grandchildren, Jacqueline Mai Strickland, Michelle Lang, Lylian Mai, Colin Mai, Dalton Mai, Ashlien McDaniel, Delanhi McDaniel and one great grandchild, Dante Strickland.

A gathering of friends and family will be from 4:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m., Friday, October 19, 2018 with a prayer service to begin from 6:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m., at Grammier-Oberle Funeral Home. Funeral service for Mr. Mai will be at 1:00 p.m., Saturday, October 20, 2018, at Grammier-Oberle Funeral Home. Interment will follow at Greenlawn Memorial Park.


  • Dave Mai
  • Duong Mai
  • Luan Mai
  • Quynh Mai
  • Carl McDaniel
  • Colin Mai


  • Visitation Friday, October 19, 2018
  • Prayer Service Friday, October 19, 2018
  • Funeral Service Saturday, October 20, 2018

Tot Mai

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Melba Hunt

October 16, 2018

Mr. Mai has always been a sweet man and all of his children are just as sweet.
Im so sorry for your loss of your Dad. RIP Mr. Mai. Friends always Melba