Al DeMeo

Al, 89, passed away peacefully on October 14, 2026, leaving behind a lifetime of memories, love, and a family who will forever cherish him. A hardworking man, a devoted husband, a proud father, a loving grandfather: Al leaves behind the love of his life, Cathy, two children Bob (Erin) and Kim (Chuck), and six grandchildren, Kristen (Greg), Allie, Jess, Robert, Bobby, and Scott.

Al shared 63 beautiful years of marriage with his beloved wife, Cathy. Their life together was built on love, commitment, and a bond that grew stronger through the decades. Al absolutely adored Cathy, and their years together were a testament to a lifetime of devotion, countless memories, and a love that will never fade.

Al was, above all, the greatest family man. His family was his world, and everything he did came from the love he had for them. Al was a proud father to Bob and Kim, and his love for them was special in its own way. He was immensely proud of his son, Bob, for the man he became. His daughter, Kim, was the ray of sunshine in his life. He will be remembered for the love he gave, but also the example he set and the pride he showed in the family he and Cathy built together. As the family grew, Al's love and devotion extended to his daughter-in-law, Erin and later, son-in-law Chuck. He treasured them as his own.

Al was a loving grandfather to his six grandchildren. From the day each was born, they held a unique place in his heart. Each one brought him a special kind of happiness, and he loved them uniquely creating a bond that was theirs alone. His love for each of them was unconditional, and they will forever carry a piece of their grandfather in their hearts. Al had many adoring nieces and nephews and was especially fond of his nephew Joseph and his wife, Ludy. Al’s sister Angela and her husband Charlie were also very dear to his heart.

Al had a lifelong love of sports, especially golf. Whether enjoying time on the course with his great friends or following his favorite teams, these passions brought him happiness and created memories that will always be part of his legacy.

Forever loved. Forever missed. Al D forever.

Visitation will be held at O.B Davis Funeral Homes, 4839 Nesconset Highway, Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776, on Tuesday, October 20, 2026 from 2:00 - 4:00 PM & 7:00 - 9:00 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Wednesday, October 21, 2026 at 11:00 AM at Infant Jesus R.C. Church, 110 Myrtle Avenue, Port Jefferson, NY 11777. Entombment to follow at Washington Memorial Park, 855 Canal Road, Mt. Sinai, NY 1766.

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