Mildred A. Buonaiuto

Mildred was the beloved wife of 64 years to the late John A. Buonaiuto. Together, they shared a wonderful life filled with love, family, friendship, and adventure. Mildred was the loving mother of Teresa Goodfellow (John), Barbara Bonasia (Joseph), Diane Buonaiuto (Christine DiPaolo), and Christine Villanueva (Richard). She was the cherished grandmother of Lindsay, John, Andrew, and Danielle. She was also the dear sister of the late Louis D’Angiolillo (Eleanor), and sister-in-law to Eugene F. Buonaiuto (late Carol). Mildred was also the beloved aunt of many nieces and nephews.

Mildred and John were proud members of the FDNY Columbia Association, and, through their involvement, enjoyed traveling the world alongside fellow firefighters and their families. Their adventures took them to many wonderful destinations throughout the United States, Europe, Asia and Australia, creating treasured memories that would last a lifetime.

Above all else, Mildred loved and adored her family. They were the center of her world and her greatest source of happiness. She also found great joy in gardening, lovingly tending to her begonias, geraniums, tomatoes, and peppers. Her garden reflected the same care, patience, and love that she brought to every aspect of her life.

Following John’s passing, Mildred moved to Jefferson’s Ferry Independent Living, where she began a wonderful new chapter. Affectionately known as “Millie,” she quickly blossomed and formed many meaningful friendships within the community. She enjoyed playing bingo, Rummikub, and Mexican Train, and looked forward to spending time with her friends. Every Sunday, Millie participated in the Giving Dolls group, where she helped make handmade rag dolls that were donated to local hospitals. Millie’s warmth, kindness, and friendly spirit made her a beloved member of the Jefferson’s Ferry community.

Mildred will be remembered for her deep devotion to her family, her love of adventure, her green thumb, and the friendships she so easily cultivated throughout her life. Her loving presence and the many beautiful memories she leaves behind will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.

Visitation will be held on Monday, October 26, 2026, from 3:00 PM to 7:00 PM at O.B. Davis Funeral Homes, 4839 Nesconset Highway, Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776.

A Funeral Mass will be held on Tuesday, October 27, 2026, at 10:00 AM St. Gerard Majella Roman Catholic Church, 300 Terryville Road, Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776.

A committal service and entombment will follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, 3442 Route 112, Coram, NY 11727.

In Lieu of Flowers, Donations can be made in Mildred's name to:

ASPCA -https://secure.aspca.org/donate

Wounded Warriors Foundation - https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org