Roger Lee Holem

His passing leaves a void in the hearts of all who loved him, yet his spirit will remain in the memories he created over a long, full, meaningful life.

Born on August 19, 1935, in Michigan City, Indiana, Roger was the beloved son of Earl L. and Ova Holem.

Following college, he began a distinguished 34-year career with IBM in 1957. Through decades of innovation and change, Roger contributed his sharp mind, steady leadership and unwavering work ethic When he retired in December 1991, he closed this chapter of his life with pride, gratitude, and a deep sense of accomplishment.

Roger is survived by his loving wife, Linda, with whom he shared 32 years of partnership, laughter, adventure and devotion. Their bond was rooted in simple joys—especially their shared passion for antiquing, a pastime that brought them countless adventures and discoveries. Roger avidly collected trains, antique guns, toys, and historical artifacts. His collections were more than hobbies; they reflected his fascination with craftsmanship and heritage, connecting him to childhood memories.

He is also survived by his sons Bert Holem (Jeri) of Mt. Pleasant, SC, and Jay Holem of Raleigh, NC; his grandchildren Grayson, Brandt, and Rhett; his step-children Rick Cary Jr. (Barbra) of Wake Forest, NC and Claudia Cokis (Chris) of Rolesville, NC; and his step grandchildren Preston, Sydney, and Madeline.

Embracing his community, Roger was a previous member of White Memorial Presbyterian Church in Raleigh, where he sang in their choir, enjoying worship and fellowship. He also belonged to the Raleigh Racquet Club, Wildwood Green Golf Club, and he served on the Raleigh Citizens Advisory Council for Artsplosure, reflecting his appreciation for both sports and the arts. In May of 1993, he proudly earned his North Carolina Real Estate License, a milestone that meant a great deal to him.

In keeping with his wishes, the family will not hold a formal memorial service. Those who loved Roger will honor him in the ways he valued most—through shared memories and cherished stories.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the third-floor nursing staff, physicians, and support teams at UNC Rex Hospital in Raleigh for their kindness, compassion, and attentive care they provided Roger during his final days.