OBITUARY
Jacob "Jake" Lee Williams
October 17, 1984 – January 13, 2021
Jacob “Jake” Lee Williams was unexpectedly called home to be with the Lord on January 13, 2021. Born and raised in Salisbury, he was a graduate of James M Bennett High School. Until his passing he had been a supervisor with Peninsula Water Conditioning for the last several years. Music was Jake’s passion. He spent a good deal of his spare time playing the guitar and writing music. Jake also loved to read. He was always eager to share what he learned whether it was from something he read, or had come across. Regardless of what it was, he wanted to tell you the whole story. The funny thing about his enthusiasm was it often turned a five-minute explanation into a twenty-minute story. He often had to be prompted to: “get to the point Jake!” which was usually followed by lighthearted laughter. He was an avid fisherman who enjoyed fishing of any kind. He also loved sports, especially baseball. He had played on teams since he was about five years old. When he was 15, Jake even had the opportunity to belong to the AAU Traveling All-Stars who finished 7th in the country that year. He loved his family and friends, and loved spending time with them. Jake was always the person whose first thought was to help anyone he could. His tender heart was willing to help anyone with anything they needed. He will always be lovingly remembered as someone who “truly cared.” Jake is survived by his precious sons Jaden Michael and Tristan Wyatt Williams for whom his world revolved around. His boys were absolutely “his everything” to him. Jake also leaves to mourn his passing his beloved parents Terry and Karen Groce Williams; his loving sister Jamie Williams DiLegge, dear brother Terry “TJ,” Williams, Jr.; and treasured nieces MaKayla and Paige DiLegge. Friends are invited to pay their respects on Saturday, January 30, 2021 at Bounds Funeral Home, 705 E Main St., Salisbury, MD from 1:00- 2:00pm where Memorial Services will begin at 2:00pm. Pastor John Kalfayan of the Crossroads Church of God will be officiating. In accordance with Covid-19 protocols protective masks will be required, and social distancing will be in place. You are invited to share a story or memory of Jake on the funeral home web page at www.boundsfuneralhome.com.
FAMILY
- Terry L. Williams, Father
- Karen Groce Williams, Mother
- Jaden Michael Williams, Son
- Tristan Wyatt Williams, Son
- Jamie Williams DiLegge, Sister
- Terry L. Williams, Jr. "TJ", Brother
- MaKayla & Paige DiLegge, Nieces
Services
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Visitation
Saturday, January 30, 2021
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Memorial Service
Saturday, January 30, 2021
Memories
Jacob "Jake" Lee Williams
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ADD A MEMORYRonnie Sterling
February 5, 2021
Well, I didn't know him to well, but I did know jake did the absolute best he could for his boys, he did have a big heart and I'm glad to have had the opportunity to meet a just all around " cool" dude", at Least now he has no more pain or worries god has him and best believe he is in a way better spot than us, ima miss u bud .
María José Esquivel
February 1, 2021
Jake! I met you this year in a art page on Facebook, you told me that my art was awesome and it was what you’ll like for your music project, I’ll always be grateful for your friendship and for trusted in me and my art to get along this project... I still don’t believe you aren’t here anymore, we had so much to do and to start. I know you’re doing music now at heaven, always being talented as you are, simply amazing. Thank you for making me appreciate more my art and drawings, I learned a lot from you, you’ll never be forgot and you’re always loved from your family and friends. Adiós amigo, nos veremos algún día. ♥️
Luis Santos
January 30, 2021
Jake, here's a pic of you and your buddy Andy Travers after his wedding. You being there really meant a lot to him. BUT you taking him under your wing during and after his divorce showed what a stand up guy you were/are. Helping him get out of the house and even exposing him to some good old manual labor while at the same time giving him advice and hope. That's just the person you were, you never asked for anything ever but you were there to help people you saw hurting. Thank you for taking care of our buddy Andy. We are still the three amigos.
Kristine Van Blarcum
January 30, 2021
Jacob,
When I 1st started to date Jacob I personally knew that he was a 1 if a kind, the fact that no matter whatever happened to him & I we had ALWAYS tried to make it work BUT as Nm whatever states I was moved around to. For the longest time ppl thought I was a military brat from moving around so much but I wasn't it was all my dad's jobs. But Jake was the Best, Kindly, True to himself & his family as well. Him & I wanted to stay together BUT he wanted kids & that scared ME so I think that's why he found who he found that said 1 was enough when really ended up having 1 more with him too. But he loved kids so he could have a million kid's & still have more names for the nests ME no way I didn't want any so I made sure of that. BUT if him & I personally was still together when we did talk about many things I told him if I was to have any it would have to be 1 kid & only with him. Jacob I totally remember when you gave me that. "Promise ring" since there was so many times we had talked about getting married how, when, where, who would
do it for us, how old we would everything. But the Williams family you did raise a VERY perfect gentleman that I can't ever say goodbye too I just want to say I'll see you overlooking please as my angle. I love 💘 you forever!! ALWAYS Kristine "KRIS"
Kathy Van Blarcum
January 29, 2021
Jacob were here in Salisbury to Celebrate your life and share all your amazing short life.Jacob you was such a lovely young man who lives you touched more than you know.Your boys will never forget how much you loved them and any free time was always with them.Thats what a real Daddy.I remember all your time you spent helping Patrick with his baseball.Poney League and seeing and hearing that sound when you hit a homerun.Giving Patrick all your used bats which to him was new.He was so excited to go to his Little League games and tell everyone that my sister Kristine Van Blarcum is her boyfriend so he gives them to her for me.Terry and Karen you raised a young man that was kind,would give you the shirt of your back,humble and always put you first.Im sorry that I didn't see Kristine and Jacob as husband and wife as they were talking about before this happened.I would of loved to of had my daughter have you both has her in-laws because she always loved you both as her second Mom and Dad.Jacob I am not saying goodbye but I will see you later.God please keep Jacob and his family and boys by your side through this very difficult time.In Jesus name I pray Amen.
Mariah Chatham
January 29, 2021
Jake changed my life in a way I will never forget. He may have started as my brother’s best friend, but he quickly became a friend to our entire family. Jake was always a kind, soft hearted young man who was always willing to help someone. If it wasn’t for his love of music and his pushing I would’ve never sang in front of anyone other than my friends and family. My favorite memories of Jake involved him and his guitar. I was always so mesmerized by his playing and his passion for it. We lost touch over the years as people do when they start their own families but I can’t imagine he was ever anything but an amazing father. The world is left with a big whole now that you’re gone, but you better believe you will never be forgotten! We love you always, sweet boy....
John Williamson
January 26, 2021
Sorry for your loss
Jeff and Barbara Kelley
January 25, 2021
Jake you are surely going to be missed. You left this world to soon. I know god has plans for you . We are glad we got to see you and boys at christmas. They are growing up so fast. You seem so happy talking about the songs you had recorded . You now can continue writing and playing for our lord. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May God bless and keep Jaden and Tristen close to your heart. Rest in peace.
Debbie Wolf
January 25, 2021
Jake I remember meeting you for the first time, you were so quiet, so shy but such a gentle soul. Your eyes were so full of hope, magic and life. I begged you to run because you deserved so much more than you got. I'll never forget your smile and your devotion and love for your sons. Rest in peace now Jake, you are free.
Joyce McMillan
January 25, 2021
My Favorite memories of Jake was watching him blush...I was always teasing him just to watch him turn red and he had the cutest smurk on his face every single time no matter what...
I love him very much and will miss him dearly...
He has always had a place in my heart and always will....
Luis Santos
January 25, 2021
Jacob, my brother at heart. I always thought to myself I had endless time to catch up with you again. I know we get busy, life happens, work, family, other responsibilities fall on our backs... but I still thought I could hit you up anytime, grab dinner and continue great conversation as if we just saw each other last week. Our high school friends are in shock and I am at a loss. My heart is broken BUT it is also full of great memories and special times we spent together. I can't think of you and not be full of love and then smile. You are a very special person, always will be. Be assured your boys are proud of you and will grow up to be respectable hard working men, like you showed them. I love you Jacob.
Barbara Aydelotte
January 25, 2021
Jake was a very special young man .Whenever he saw me he would give me a big hug and smile and say great to see you aunt Barb.I will miss him and praying for all his family on both sides.God be with all of you whom lives Jake touched.
Jenna Howard
January 25, 2021
I just wanted to give my condolences to all the family! I can't imagine the pain. I give my love to all of you.
Kristine Van Blarcum
January 23, 2021
Ginny Leef
January 23, 2021
Jake ,
You will be missed greatly! My heart goes out to Karen and Terri , thank God I can only imagine the loss of a child , but your sons Jaden and Tristan, had a great loss also , but we all know that you are still with everyone you loved so dearly, you will always be with everyone in our hearts . You and I didn’t always get along , just as Your parents didn’t always get along with Heather , but we all still loved each other ! That is what families do ! You rest now Jake because your work is done !!
Kristine Van Blarcum
January 23, 2021
I just wanted to tell you that I've got MANY pictures of Jacob & myself too along w/ him too. I also have some of him doing the 2 thing's that he loved baseball & playing his guitar too. So if there's anything @ ALL that you need from myself or please ask bc you do have my cellphone # so don't be a stranger @ ALL. I love you ALL Nm what it's like you're my 2nd family. I really do miss you all really xoxo. Whenever you find out the date please tell me so that we can book our hotel room & make it there on time. Also if you would like my daddy to bring anything as food or drinks for the gathering after just please let us know bc you know him he loves to cook LOL Also we did for my grandpa funeral in NJ too so we're no stranger too ALL of this BUT it's that when it's someone VERY closely to your Heart that's when it hurts the most I believe. So keep me updated & miss you all. xoxo
Kevin Ward
January 22, 2021
I don’t even know where to begin. From the moment you walked into my open mic night all those years ago to the last time we hung out at my house and played the songs we were going to record. I can’t choose just one memory of you, Jake. There are so many from music to work or just talking on the phone. I’m sorry that we weren’t able to finish your songs, I’m sorry that we didn’t hang out more, and I’m sorry that we won’t be able to make any more memories. I can still hear your laugh as you ran around my yard playing with my son the last time you were here. You never complained, no matter how rough things got...you always stayed true to yourself and kept working hard. Countless times you told me how much you love your boys and how proud of them you were and they will forever know that. I’ve never met anyone that was so passionate about music as you were and that will forever radiate with me. I will hold onto the cajon that you gave me when we jammed until the day that I die. I will never forget you dude...this still doesn’t feel real. I love you man...rest easy and keep jamming wherever you are. ❤️💔
Kathy Van Blarcum
January 22, 2021
I will never forget you Jacob.Picking you&Kristine from Skateland ever Friday night's.All the baseball games.You were the perfect gentlemen.Thank you for loving our daughter and treated her like any parent would be proud to have you as a son in law.Your life was cut short but your soul is living still all around us.Your missed more than you know.
Love the Van Blarcum family
Willie Walker
January 22, 2021
Boiii I’m gone miss you! I love you man!! All the problems we had writing lyrics and now they are flowing!!! We had our ups and downs but that’s what BROTHERS go thru!! I’ll never forget the ride with deer antler😉. All the music, late nights playing out. Everybody loved “Will N Jake” even though I had to make sure you didn’t drink too much so you could play!!!! Shot my first gun with you, you taught me how to fish, showed me that there were still good men in his world! I LOVE YOU MAN. I’m gone miss our handshake, our inside jokes, you rolling your eyes at some ridiculous crap. Lol. I love you man! I’m gone finish every song we ever wrote! Especially your favorite, “ There’s a fire burning deep in my sole, there’s a fire burning out of control, temptations calling me and I can’t explain it, tryna fight the feeling but I can’tcontain it!!!!.....” I haven’t forgot ONE MELODY, one bad ass riff you played! I’m going to make sure jaden continues to follow that music to put in his blood. And tristin, UFC BABY!!! ,”Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh”. I’m gone tell em how when you or I won on the ufc game we would scream that!!! I LOVE YOU MAN!!!
Candice Tapman
January 22, 2021
Uncle Jake was everything you’d expect from a uncle... the perfect combination of arm punches and hugs... but if you can see this Uncle Jake.. I’ll always be here for the boys... and I’ll never let them or me forget you... Superman will always be around to remind me of you. I love you! And thank you for being my uncle when you didn’t have to be. I’ll always be grateful for that. When we meet again, I can’t wait to hug you really really tight. You’re probably the roughest and toughest Angel right now. ❤️ I love you, rest easy.
Roger Martinson
January 22, 2021
Our family is praying for your family. Jake was a very special man and loved his family with all his heart. Words can't express the hole that is left. We pray God's peace and comfort over you all. We will be here to help the boys through this hard time. Sending love your way.
Heather Williams
January 22, 2021
You are greatly loved and missed by us but we know you’re not far!! Stay close and help us get thru this and help me bring these boys up the way we planned. We love you!
Kathy Van Blarcum
January 21, 2021
We can't imagine what Terry and Karen your going through.Our hearts are broken.Kristine and Jacob,There is not a single memory without those too always together.May God give your family the strength to get through this and Kristine because it's the hardest thing to go through.We love you all.