Rebecca was the beloved daughter of my best friend, Ms. Norma Natividad. She loved her daughter more than life itself and misses her greatly. My prayers are with her and the thoughts of her daughter who has gone on to heaven in the spirit world. May God bless her and keep her in his loving hands for all eternity.
-Dr. Candi O. Belle MBA M.Juris PhD.

I never thought this day would come Becca . I miss you dearly . I thank you for everything in the little time we spent together. For everything you’ve done for my family and my precious boy . Rest In Peace pretty momma ❤️ 

Becca was more like a daughter to me than a little sister.  I was always watching over her. Scolding her for not doing her homework, chores, and coming in late from playing with her friends.  She absolutely hated when I would say “You know the rules”  haha I think that made her rebel more. I remember she made dinner and gave me a menu with only one item to choose (tamale) but she spelled it as tomole. Till this day we still use that word.    As she grew older I taught her to cook, helped her with her kids and was proud that she asked me to go with her to purchase her first car. I am so proud of her and all her accomplishments.  She loved her kids so much.  Although she always told me she loved me, I don’t think I realized how much until she needed the transplant in order to live . It was a very sad moment for all of us.  The way she leaned on me, asking me about every decision she had to make.  I tried to keep her positive, even though I was scared for her.  While in the hospital I stopped by every day to make sure she was ok.  Transplant day came, it was a success.  A few weeks later I was able to bring her home.    About seven months had passed and everything seemed to be going well.  Then she was back in the hospital.  There I was again everyday trying to keep her in a positive attitude, holding her hand every step of the way.  I wish I could have eased her pain, done something more for her. She fought all the way to the end.  Always worried about her kids, saying she wasn’t ready to go, and that it was too soon.  In reality she was right.  I am relieved that she is no longer suffering.  She is in a much better place.  Although incredibly difficult, this reminds me not to feel sorrow for her death, but instead to be grateful that her presence has blessed our lives.  We are all better people today because of HER. I will always be here for Mellie, Alex, and Richie and am honored to be her big sister and her MamaLisa.  I love you BeccaBok

One of my most precious memories of  Rebecca was when she was  a toddler she would sing to me she called me  da raise up her bottle she was hungry  thank you sweetheart  for all the joy you gave me  as I was always there for you I am here for your children . With a heavy heart  I bid farewell love you forever your proud father Francisco ( da ) Natividad

Truly breaks my heart this day has come.. I have quite a few memories of Becca, the one that stands out the most is the day she met AB... Frank and I walked in Norma’s house and I saw Becca in the hallway, hair done make up on and bracelets.. She was sooooo nervous, she looked like a shy school girl. She asked me a few times if she looked ok, it was the cutest thing.. Throughout the years Becca has stayed in contact with me, she always tagged me for mother’s day and always, still called me her sister... You were a beautiful soul Becca.. Rest Easy Now Sister... 

REBECCA WAS A VERY LOVING CARING BEAUTIFUL PERSON WHO LOVED HER FAMILY HER KIDS AND RICHARD.I REMEMBER WHEN SHE GOT HER APT SHE WAS BEYOND HAPPY AND SO EXCITED THAT SHE HAD HER OWN PLACE ESPECIALLY FOR THE KIDS..SHE LOVED TO EAT AT EL CHARRO SO I ALWAYS WOULD HOOK HER UP LOL...AND WHEN I WOULD GO OVER HER HOUSE I WOULD BUY PIZZA FROM DOMINOS BECAUSE WE LOVED THERE LAVA CAKE WE WOULD SAY ITS LAVA NIGHT..YES I COULD SAY I SPOILED HER LOL WE DEF HAD SOME GOOD TIMES WE WOULD JUST KICK BACK AND LISTEN TO MUSIC AND DRINK I WAS ALWAYS GETTING A TATTOO EVEYTIME I WENT THEN 1 DAY SHE CUT ME OFF AND SAID NO MORE TATTOOS I WAS LIKE IM PAYING SHE SAID I DONT CARE I AM CUTTING YOU OFF CRAZY BECCA AND TO THIS DAY I NEVER KNEW WHY...LOL SHE WAS ALOT OF FUN ONLY THING I CAN HONESTLY SAY IS SHE NEVER COMPLAINED BOUT MUCH LONG AS HER KIDS WERE OK NOTHING ELSE MATTERED...SHE WAS ALWAYS HAPPY ONLY THING I KNOW THAT REALLY BROKE HER HEART WAS WHEN MY BROTHER JOHNNY DIED SHE REALLY NEVER CAME TO TERMS WITH THAT IT WAS VERY HARD FOR HER SHE MISSED HIM LIKE CRAZY...I WILL CHERISH THE MEMORIES LOVE YA BECCA R.I.P. AND DANCE WITH THE ANGELS...NOW YOU CAN SEE JOHNNY AND YOUR NANA AND TATA FLY BABYGIRL SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND FLY THREW THE GATES OF HEAVEN...LOVE....YOUR CRAZY COUSIN..CHRISTINA

Sending my condolences to the family may God bless you with peace and comfort. RIP Becca in Paradise...❤️🙏

My tia Becca has always been a constant in my life growing up and while it's hard to see her go I'll always treasure the many memories I have with her. I remember when she would babysit me and my bother when we were little kids every week. I remember she would always put bows in my hair on my birthdays. I remember always eagerly running to her bedroom at nana's when i was a little kid to play with her monkey stuffed animal she had hanging on the door. I remember sleeping on the futon next to her bed when i would visit my moms on the weekends and I remember her getting up in the middle of the night to feed baby Richie and she would hold him like a football. I'll always miss my aunt and I'm happy for all the good memories she gave me. 

All of my prayers to the parents of Rebecca and her immediate family. I know her mother and she is a fantastic woman,so I'm sure Rebecca was just as sweet and caring. My church has placed her name on our prayer list. May the Natividad family find peace and contentment in the Creator's heart.

I knew Rebecca working at Banner Desert. I work in the cafeteria she was one of my favorite people to come down. When I'd see her in the cafeteria she would always have a smile on her face. Rebecca was such a beautiful soul. She definitely made me laugh all the time.  And she was so easy to talk to. I will miss her and scrolling down my timeline seeing all of her comments and post.  She is in a better place now no more pain no more suffering. I would like to send my thoughts and prayers to Rebecca's children family and friends 💜

Dear Becca, 
  
 You been my bestie from day 1, you been in amazing person. thanks for being my best friend.. I'm glad I meet you and the family.. Your always going to be my best friend no matter what.. no one can replace you. No one understand our relationship. I love you becca always and forever❤️

Time...i wish i had more time. Or go back in time, so i would have spent more time with you Becca. 
More time making memories to cry and laugh at. .🥀
It was a pleasure to share memories with you. What i remember most was our closeness growing up. You were my friend and confidant not just my cousin. We always laughed and joked and looked out for Ruben..always trying to figure out and solve our lifes little problems back then we thought were soo big, like how to get Ruben to take a bath🥴lol. . In a family where i was different you made me feel special and loved ❤️ Without you my childhood would be different, lonelier...Thats why i wanted you to be Jalens Nina, because i knew you would love him and accept him as you did me. .as you did all the blacksheeps of the world. Yes Becca my memories of you are endearing, emotional, precious and fun. . And at least that part of my past is safe. Safe from loss, safe of not ever having you in my life. – 
I ask GOD why? Why Becca? And as we know, GOD gives us no mistakes or coincidences every event in our lives good or bad are teaching moments..where we have a life skill to learn. Or something to overcome.
See, the most beautiful people we ever become to know are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of those depths..like you did. The downs in your life have given the rest of us a new appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of our own lives that fills us with the compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern to have the Time, make Time, and take the Time to honor and love our family more. Beautiful people like you Becca do not just happen..you were for me, an Angel sent- a blessing to so many. You showed us all what Courageous is. You showed us what a caring mother is. What A daughter is. A sister is. What family is. I love you Becca butt, with all my heart.🌻💜❤️ Your Cousin Sonya Zambrano

One of the things I’m going to miss the most about Tia Becca is going over to tatas and having bbqs and hanging out with you and the kids making fun of each other and when you go around putting funny snapchat filters on everyone. 

R.I.P. Becca I love you!

  Out of the many memories I had with my Tia Becca, one of my favorite memories would be when she would always make Elf Yourself videos of my siblings, cousins and I. She would make the videos every year around Christmas. I love and miss you so much Becca <3

I remember the times me and Alex would beg for your permission to stay the night and sleepover at each other’s houses during our childhood, and I also remember the time Mellie poured apple cider vinegar on Alex at 4 in the morning when you would get off of work then you were yelling at Mellie because she made poor Alex cry and my dad was yelling at me because we were up early in the morning doing all nighters being loud all the time. One time you took us to McDonald’s at 4 in the morning to get some breakfast, I’ll never forget that. 

Rest In Peace Becca we’ll keep you in our hearts at all times ❤️

Dear Becca, 
           
                         Only the most beautiful souls get to go home early. I am so proud of you Becca!  I only hope that some day I can be half as strong as you. You carried so much so gracefully.  Fly freeh and may the Lord receive you as the Warrior Queen you were in life. Please give Johnny, Tio Joe, Tia Terry, Jimmy and my baby Regina all our love. I miss you so much already,even though my heart is breaking I promise to celebrate your life. I will always remember your silly laugh and your huge loving heart. You will always be a part of me and all of us who were blessed to have you in our lives. You were the greatest mother, a wonderfull cousin and a loving, caring friend. Rest In Paradise Becca Pooh! I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!

My favorite memory is when she taught Alex and I how to make chicken. she was getting ready for work and Alex and i made chicken and burnt it, so the smoke detectors went off and she came out yelling took out our burnt chicken and threw it away. She was so mad, she sent us to bed early. 

rest easy mom💙

You will always be remembered Becca. 
May you Rest In Peace.

Jerry Gutierrez

It's been a hard month for the Natividads and it's finally come to an end. This immediate family has always been such a constant in each of our lives and now that's changed with the loss of Becca. We will, however, remain tightly bound to one another both now as we  tenaciously remember her as well as in the distant future when she'll live in the backs of our minds. Although it's painful to see her go, I'm glad I was able to be there to hear her draw her final breaths, however difficult they were to listen to. I'm thankful that, as a family, we'll be able recieve cosolation; especially the kiddos. Mellie, Alex, Richie: I hope you realize you've still got a whole family to love and support you; that you can always reach out to for help. You don't have to be strong for now, we'll carry you wherever you need to be.

Becca, was such an amazing person. I have many memories from years and years ago on bellview of Becca and Johnny. Those 2 together made my days. Always had me laughing and smiling. Making fun of each other. Im so blessed to have had her in my life for so long. She truly inspired me to be a fighter and to love life! I told her in March how much i admired her. Her perseverance, strength and humility made her the amazing person she is. I wish we had seen eachother more throughout the years. I will miss her so much. Her always talking crap on my Facebook posts. ALL crazy... 😌. Im comforted knowing she is again with Johnny and all her other loved ones and no longer in pain. May you rest in paradise my Beautiful friend! I love you Becca!

"If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." John 8:36🙏🙏🙏






Becca and I had what I call your typical love/hate sibling relationship. She was my older sister so she was mean and picked on me a lot  in my younger years which are hilarious to think now but, so many memories flood my thoughts that it’s hard to pick one. I can say that throughout her life she has influenced my life in a positive way.  It’s impacted me and helped me learn life’s lessons that made me a better human and role model to my kids and hers. Thank you for being your mean self to me because all those moments had a positive lesson that I will take and pass down to our seeds.  Rest In Peace Becca. I’ll keep you alive through thoughts and memories out in this world.  

My mom was a great mom she raised her kids with happiness and she’d always work for her kids and feed them and take care of them she’d always needed help and I always helped her when she needed it and she would talk us when she was bored she would always make fun me cause I’m fat and she’d always make a face I always make and we would make her laugh and be happy.

OBITUARY

Rebecca Marie Natividad

August 13, 1976 – October 31, 2019

Green Acres Mortuary & Cemetery

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