OBITUARY
Stanley Stan Joseph Chapin
March 31, 1950 – January 30, 2012
Stan Chapin, 61, a King County sheriff’s deputy who for the past 12 years was part of the police force in Sammamish, died at his home Monday night.
Chapin was the school resource officer in Eastlake High School and Inglewood Junior High, according to a news release from Cindi West, spokeswoman for the King County Sheriff’s Office.
He was close to his 40th anniversary with the King County Sheriff’s Office, she said.
“Officer Chapin was not only an outstanding police officer, he was an outstanding human being,” said Eastlake High School Principal Brad Malloy. “He enjoyed working with students of all ages and guided them toward making good choices in their lives.”
“Stan was a remarkable man,” Sammamish Police Chief Nate Elledge said. “He really put his heart on the line for the students he helped and the community he served. His passing is a shock to all of us who valued his friendship and admired his professionalism.”
Before working in the two schools, Chapin worked as the a D.A.R.E. officer in the Issaquah, Lake Washington and Northshore school districts, West said.
“Over his career, he also served as a patrol deputy, detective, and member of the Seattle FBI’s Fugitive Apprehension Team. And just last month, the city named Chapin the Sammamish Police Department’s “Officer of the Year” for 2011,” West said in the release.
In addition to his police work, Chapin was known as a dedicated runner. He won the 1974 Seattle marathon, West said, and competed in the Boston marathon in 1974, 76 and 77.
Surviving him are his wife, Sue, and three children, Christopher, Bethany and Scott
Arrangements under the direction of Acacia Memorial Park & Funeral Home, Seattle, Washington.
Services
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Visitation
Sunday, February 5, 2012
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Memorial Mass
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
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Stanley Stan Joseph Chapin
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ADD A MEMORYBrad Sevener
November 10, 2018
I had the privilege of having Officer Chapin as our resource officer from 7th grade until I graduated in 2011. I remember when he would preform in our school assemblies or do his infamous raptor impersonation. He always put a smile on everyone's face and certainly mine. He had the ability to brighten anyone's day and see those who really needed it. My fondest memory of Officer Chapin is one that I think about a lot and I carry it with me. I had a hard time in school, I was lonely and struggling with my mental health. It made things difficult and I think it showed. Now, as much as I adore Officer Chapin, I rarely had the chance to speak with him directly. I really wish I had a chance to speak with him more back then. The conversations we had were brief but he always cheered me up. It had been a long time since the last time I spoke with him. In a school with over a thousand students I couldn't possibly imagine him remembering me. One day I was just stepping into school and already dreading the day. I walked by Officer Chapin and as I did he said to me, "Good morning Brad, how are you doing today?", I couldn't believe it, I was in such awe that he remembered my name. I couldn't remember the last time I had a one on one conversation with him and the fact that I am one of the thousand of students. I remember feeling so much joy from one simple sentence. He saw me, he remembered me in the times where I felt forgotten. I think about this all of the time and it warms my heart. I have never met a more loving, caring and selfless person as Officer Chapin.
Amber Cuozzo
March 31, 2012
There are infinite positive remarks one could exclaim about Officer Chapin. He was able to make every single person he came in contact with feel important. He took the time to serve not only as a police officer keeping us safe, but as a friend and confidant- someone we all knew we could turn to for anything no matter what the issue was, what background we came from or how closely we knew him. He is one of the few people I have ever met that I could define as a legend. His accomplishments were and are exceptional, and he will forever be missed, but will never be forgotten. Eastlake loves you, Chapin. Thank you for everything you have brought to our school and done for our community, and thank you Chapin Family for sharing him with us. I am honestly so blessed to say I had the honor of knowing him, he truly was one of a kind.
Jeff Thomas
March 24, 2012
Dean Fredrickson
March 17, 2012
I want you to know that I am so honored to have been called upon to do the sculpture honoring your husband and father. I look forward to meeting with you to prepare for this. In going through the pictures and reading the notes that were written by the students I immediately began to sense that this is a very special human being. I am trusting that my work will let this special feeling come through.
Julia Gay
February 17, 2012
I was blessed to know Officer Chapin beyond his patrols of the schools. His compassion, the pure light and joy he always carried with him, even when he would come to pick my niece up from home and drive her to school each morning, was a blessing in disguise. His vibrant ways of showing kids (of all ages) that even an officer of the law could be just as down to earth. My heart cries for Sue and his blessed children for this great loss. I know nothing can fill that void that is now a part of their lives. I pray though that with the humble words left by everyone that they will help to keep his memory and brightness alive. I know I shall never forget all that he had ever done to help the kids in my family.
February 9, 2012
On this day of remembrance I just wanted you all to know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you; Family, Friends, Staff and Students. Such a dear loss for so many factions of life.Here's a man who gave his all to whatever he was doing; Husband, Father, Friend, Police Officer, Resource Officer, Velociraptor and here is one some of you may have forgotten or didn't know about Hannah Montana. This gentleman even took time out of his busy schedule to talk sports (current and classic) with a certain night custodian. For me It was an Honor, Privilege and simple Pleasure to have known this Human Being. So be Strong for Each Other and Yourselves and Remember God is now getting spoiled. We Love You Stan, Your Friend Douglas Nabors
Peggy Hughes
February 8, 2012
Your friendship at SU meant a lot to my husband Bill. Our kids all benefited from you also being a resource officer at their schools throughout Jr. and High School. Bill and I always enjoyed stopping by school and getting a chance to catch up on your family. Sue we will never forget him and will keep you in our prayers.
Peggy and Bill Hughes parents of Bernadette, Johnathan, Thomas and Veronica
February 7, 2012
It has been an honor and a privilege to know Stan Chapin both personally and professionally. Stan left this community better than he found it and we are all better off for having known him. Thanks for everything Stan, you will be missed.
Josh Pelonio
Eastside Fire & Rescue
Jeff,Madeleine,Alysha & Blaine Kym
February 7, 2012
Dear Family of Officer Chapin, You were truly blessed beyond words. I have known Stan for over15 yrs he was a strong presence at Margaret Mead, IJH and Eastlake. My kids are now 26 and 29, they remember their childhood with Officer Chapin they respected the uniform but most of all the Person that he was. He just had that Gift of relating to the youths of Sammamish. We too were blessed by his kindness , empathy, and proffesionalism, and most of all ... of having him in our lives, Thank You for sharing him to us, and may God put his loving arms of comfort around you, we will be praying and keep you all close to our hearts.
February 7, 2012
Stan was an important part of my daughter's life. She attended both Inglewood Jr. High and Eastlake. Helen was not treated very nicely by many of the students because she didn't quite fit the mold in the way she dressed (she HATES skirts and dresses!), sense of humor, and general interests (a real computer nerd). Stan really helped her through some tough times by holding accountable those who bullied her when he observed that behavior. He also held her accountable when she made some questionable choices.
I was lucky enough to see Stan often, because I work at the City of Sammamish. Stan always asked about Helen, even after she graduated. I really apprecated our brief conversations in the lunch room and will miss him and his wonderful, full face smile! He was truly an officer and a gentle man.
Lola Nelson-Mills
John Hearing
February 7, 2012
Dear Sue and family,
I had the honor of knowing Stan for almost 40 years-- growing up in the Valley, Stan was one of my first coaches at the Mt. Si Cross Country team (a volunteer!), and rapidly became my mentor and friend. I often ran with him on weekends, rode along with him on patrol as an Explorer Scout, and worked with him during Search and Rescue missions. He inspired me to join the Navy and after retiring, I re-connected with him and it was like old times. He was a shining light and cast his light far and wide-- and that light has been multiplied by all that knew him.
Your Husband and Father will be missed, but will never be forgotten by the thousands of people he touched.
Vaya Con Dios, Stan-- you ran a great race-- and came in First in my book.
Marlon Hoyle
February 7, 2012
Dear Sue and Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and I am so very sorry for your loss. I'll only add that I am a better man for having known Stan, as are all of us who were fortunate enough to have called him "Friend".
Marlon
Donna Odendhal-Levin
February 7, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. I have an 8th grader and a 9th grader and they were so sad to lose him. He made all the kids feel so important and so safe. We will truly miss him.
Donna Odendhal-Levin (Sammamish, WA)
Stephanie Doyle
February 7, 2012
Stan's legacy runs deep and wide and many streams flow from his impact on our children and our EHS/Inglewood community. EHS graduates carry a part of him as they move forward with thier lives in this big world. His compassion, kindness, wise advice and grace will be a part of our families and community for a very long time. We are so blessed to have him in our lives! Thank you Chapin family for sharing this wonderful man. Our hearts and prayers are with you now and always. He will be greatly missed by many but will continue to live within us.
Sheri Ng
February 7, 2012
Dear Chapin Family,
I had always heard about Officer Chapin's legendary dinosaur impression. Two years ago while chaperoning at EHS Relay for Life, I got to witness it first-hand. It was around 3:00am, dark, freezing, windy, wet and the kids had been up all night walking for miles around the track. Officer Chapin was leading the bone weary pack doing his Velociraptor impersonation and the kids joined in, recharged to keep on walking.
Officer Chapin, your dedication, compassion and inspiration for our students and community will forever be in our hearts. We could always count on you to go that extra mile, we will miss you.
Jeff, Elizabeth, Stephanie, & Ben Coffey
February 7, 2012
Dear Chapin Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Officer Chapin was an extraordinary human being. He was a positive role model for youth and adults. Everyone knew Stan in some way. We will miss seeing his smiling face at sporting events and around Eastlake High School. Our sincere sympathy to you all. May you feel God's love surrounding you during this difficult time.
Becca Newman
February 6, 2012
officer chapin will always be remembered. god bless his family.
Wendy O'Sullivan
February 6, 2012
My sincerest condolences and fervent prayers go out to all of Officer Chapin's family and friends. I am a parent of former Eastlake students. I have known Officer Chapin for over 12 years (since he first came to Eastlake) and I have always enjoyed talking with him, seeing him interact with absolutely every single student who came through. I know for certain that he prevented many student suicides -- because he was there, he cared, and he was available. He helped all students stand strong and proud. My son said he wished he could speak to Officer Chapin's children because he really did not think they could possibly know and probably did not understand "just how cool their dad is". He wanted to tell Chapin's children how very blessed they were -- and how blessed all the students at Eastlake and Inglewood have always felt. Chapin Family -- if you never knew it before, I pray you will know it now! I am very sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Thank you for sharing your husband/father with all of us.
Becca Newman
February 6, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss. officer chapin has touched every one in our school. he will always be remembered and will always have a place in my heart. :(
Shira
February 6, 2012
i am soo sorry for your loss. god bless you and your family
Shira
February 6, 2012
Officer chapin was a very good man, he touched everyone he meet. He was a good man and he always will be missed.:( i am so sorry for you loss. god bless
Anonymous
February 6, 2012
Dear Chapin Family,
I drove to the Starbuck's by Eastlake High School at 9:00 this morning just so I could see Officer Chapin's flower memorial one more time, and to view from a distance the outpour of love directed his way. As I was waiting to receive my coffee, the young woman serving me began to reminisce about him. She told me that years ago, while a student at Inglewood Junior High, she had no way of getting home after school. Officer Chapin cared enough to see that she got home safely by giving her a ride. Everywhere I turn someone has something so kind to say about him.
Now, as I wait to pick up my daughter after school, I will no longer see Officer Chapin enthusiastically directing traffic with his neon orange gloves and smiling face. I will no longer see him stop a bus just to wish the driver a fine weekend. I will no longer see him interact with students, leaving them with smiles on their faces, and seeing the smile that students left on his. I will miss Officer Chapin's presence tremendously.
It is my family's hope that you all find comfort in knowing that your loved one literally touched thousands of lives in such a positive way. While most people may not have the opportunity to reach so many, Officer Chapin's natural inclination to extend a helping hand was admirable, and a reminder to us all of how important it is to extend a helping hand when we can. Wishing you peace.
Steve Geertgens
February 6, 2012
I met Stan for the first time a week before he died at the Bothell Safeway where I work. I started running marathons last year and heard from some co-workers that he has run marathons. I caught up with him at my work, and I asked him all kinds of questions about his running career and training for the Boston Marathon. He gave me great advice on how to improve my time. When we finished talking, he told me he was all pumped up to get back to running. He wanted to qualify for the Boston Marathon again. I'll never forget the look in his eye when I saw him leave. He was so excited to pass on all his training advice. I ran a marathon last weekend and thought about him throughout the race. He is a true inspiration.
Denise Luders
February 6, 2012
Officer Chapin. What a legacy! One of the neatest, happiest, good-hearted folks I have had the pleasure of knowing. You will be forever missed, but know you are also forever loved. EHS was better, Sammamish and King county were all better because of you. Rest easy friend.
Guy
February 6, 2012
RIP Stan, from a fellow O'Dea grad. I'm sorry to hear of this.
February 6, 2012
Dear Chapin Family: Stan was the DARE officer at Westhill Elementary in the Northshore SD when I was the principal. He was a delightful person to work with - always ready with a smile to share his great sense of humor. The students liked him very much and learned important information from him. We looked forward to seeing him every week and he also helped us out whenever we needed advice. I am so sorry for your loss. Love and warm thoughts to you all.
Michele Williams
Sammamish, WA
February 6, 2012
Officer Chaplin will be especially missed by students and parents. He had a pleasant smile and waved to parents on a daily basis in schools. May his soul rest in peace. My heartfelt sympathies to his wife and children.
God Bless, Jennifer Ennes (Sammamish, WA)
Adam Munday
February 6, 2012
I know myself and my family are thankful of all the time Officer Chapin spent with me and my brother as we both went to Eastlake High and Inglewood Junior High. He was an amazing mentor to my brother and myself. He taught us all valuable lessons while always being able to make us smile and laugh. He will always be remembered in our family as a great officer and outstanding person!
Dawn & Kevin Grout
February 6, 2012
Sue and family, I can't believe Stan is gone. I think about you every night in this awful time you are going through. You are all in my prayers. Please accept our condolences.
The Musolino Family
February 6, 2012
The first time I ever drove to Inglewood Junior High Officer Chapin was working. I took notice of the enthusiasm with which he did his job. Over the next five years I would find out that this was how he ALWAYS did his job! I would see Officer Chapin almost daily as I dropped off or picked up my kids from Inglewood or Eastlake. No matter what the hour, rain or shine, every time I saw Officer Chapin he had a big smile and friendly wave for every car. Sometimes you don't really think about the impact of a smile seen through a car window, but in the words of Mother Teresa, "Every time you smile at someone, it is an act of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing." We are thankful for the gift of Officer Chapin, his enthusiasm and his smile. He made our world a better place.
Our condolences to the Chapin family. You are in our prayers.
February 6, 2012
We are very sorry for your sudden loss. All three of my children benefited from Officer Chapin's presence at both Inglewood and Eastlake. They were all saddened by his sudden passing. He has touched all of our lives and for that we are grateful and thank him. We offer our heartfelt condolences to you.
The Matsuo Family
Verlin Judd
February 6, 2012
Way back when Stan was an outstanding runner and participated in many law enforcement related runs, particularly, the "Legal Run Around" which he was active in helping stage. This is where I met him. It has been many years since we had contact but I did occasionally bump into him when he worked next door in the County building and I was in the Public Safety Bldg. My condolences to the family as I know he will be sorely missed by all who knew him. Verlin and Donna Judd
February 5, 2012
Dearest Chapin Family,
It was an honor and a privilege to know your husband and father. Stan was one of those rare individuals that truly made the world a better place.
My husband got to know him years ago when he worked on the Fugitive Task Force. He always said how popular and well-respected Stan was in their office.
We always looked forward to visiting with him at Eastlake football games and other athletic events. I realize these were times he spent with our "Eastlake" family instead of yours...thank you for sharing him.
He was kind enough to take time to come to my preschool for Career Day and our elementary school for a Walk-a-Thon when we asked him - he gave the kids a real thrill! I submitted a few photos of those special days.
My older kids all knew and loved Officer Chapin and will be better people because of his influence. I will miss seeing him and waving to him in the Eastlake parking lot.
May God bless you, our prayers are with your family.
Ray, Sue, Alex, Maria, Greg & Katie Lauer
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Lori Horton
February 5, 2012
From Fried Green Tomatoes:
"I found out what the secret to life is: friends. Best friends."
Stan was a best friend to everyone and his friendship will be truly missed by many. Our heatrfelt sympathies to the Chapin family.
Chuck, Lori, Ashley, Chelsea & Joe Horton
James Anderson
February 5, 2012
stan used to shoot me and scott and the neighborhood kids(plus scheid) with a hose in different patterns on the trampoline and we would try to dodge it. it was some of my best childhood memories, he made it fun every time. not to mention the countless R-rated movies he got us all into. im going to miss seeing him jog around the neighborhood every day. RIP
Christopher Vogt
February 5, 2012
My greatest inspiration. Officer Chapin has taught a lesson greater than anybody can put into words. I Know now how much of a difference one man can make. Thank you Officer Chapin, and God Bless your family
"gone but not forgotten"
John Moffatt
February 5, 2012
The world lost an amazing officer, role model and friend. Officer Chapin has forever touched my life. It is an honor to have known him. My deepest prayers to his wife, kids and family.
February 4, 2012
Such a nice person! Always giving a wonderful smile to everyone he met. We''ll miss you Officer Chapin. The Micahel Patterson Family
The Hooker Family
February 4, 2012
Your husband and father was a great role model for everyone here in Sammamish. He was a true inspiration to our community. He will be missed and never forgotten. God bless you all.
Mike,Rene,Lauren,Austin Howell
February 4, 2012
Our family will never forget the care and love he showed them and all the kids at Eastlake and Inglewood. He was truly one of a kind, and we are so blessed to have known him and to have listened to his caring advice. He was a true man of character and will always have a spot in our hearts. I will miss seeing his smile and wave. We will pray for you as you go through this. Love from our family to yours, The Howell's
Marie Taylor
February 3, 2012
Officer Chapin was, and is, an inspiration to both of my children to always do their best and to be helpful to others. At both IJH and Easlake, his postive daily behavior and outstanding service made school a safer and more welcoming place for all. Our family is thankful for everything he did, and wishes the Chapin family God's comfort and peace.
February 3, 2012
Stan was an amazing guy who will be sorely missed by all of us who had the pleasure of working with him and were blessed to call him our friend.
I will always remember his kindness and sense of humor....he had a way of innocently instigating trouble around the station (all in good fun of course) and would get everybody riled up about some topic or another and would then silently sneak out the back door with a twinkle in his eye leaving the uproar he had created behind him.
He was admired by all and had an amazing knack for compassion no matter the situation. I was always facinated by his ability to communicate with people and never saw him get flustered ~ even in the most challenging of circumstances. A true gift indeed!!
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time. He will be missed by so many but will never be forgotten.
Stacy M. O'Brien
Sammamish Police Department
Allee Lowe
February 3, 2012
Dear Family of Officer Chapin,
I currently go to Inglewood Junior High,
Officer Stain would always greet me when i'm there. We all loved him sooooo much. I've been crying for 3 days now after what happend, it was hard to imagine. His Raptor impression is the best thing in our lives in school and we will never forget it! We put a big poster on the walls to sign and i signed it really long! My older sister and older step brother goes to eastlake and i would watch the basketball games and dance compitions, and he would always be there, if was fun to hang out with him. On thurday, we have a mermioral assambley for him and i'm pretty sure im gonna cry through the whole thing. Also, for one of my classes i havewood shop, and i told him i wanted to give him a car that we made cause he liked my box that i made, so i made one for him, it's black with sliver writing that says "officer Chapin" and "police" on it. Sadly, that's the only thing i have to remember him by. I wish i can talk to him one last time. I pray for him every day, he will be be missed! ~Allee Lowe
Ellen Lynch
February 3, 2012
As I drove to EHS to pick up my daughter I was always greeted with a smile and wave from Officer Chapin. Just knowing he was at EHS made me feel that the kids were safe. All of the students knew him and trusted him-what an amazing feat with teenagers. I will miss his smiling face. Rest in peace Officer Chapin, you made such a difference in so many lives!
February 3, 2012
Officer Chapin has been a great & positive influence for the community of Sammamish. We are deeply saddend by his passing and he will be truly missed. Our prayers are with his family during this time. Sincerely, The Helsten Family
Sue Hawkinson
February 3, 2012
Dear Sue and family,
Having two children who attended IJH and EHS my husband and I feel so blessed to have had Officer Chapin be such a positive role model in our childrens' lives. I knew him from working on committes at EHS and he would always have a wave and smile when I saw him.He was such a huge presence in our community, one of a kind, and will be greatly missed. Your family is in our prayers.
Sue,Bob,Jessie and Alex Hawkinson
Steve Baima
February 3, 2012
I first met Stan when he was a rookie with KCPD. He was also a rookie, wearing his country's uniform - he was a soldier with the 104th Training Division. I had the privilege of working with him from time to time. He took his work very seriously, mentoring many young men and women that were placed in his charge. Stan and I shared similar careers. We talked frequently about the trials of our respective professions. I could tell that he was truly a special person. I was pleased when I learned that he had found that special person to share his life with. Although our lives intersected only occasionally, we always were quick to share stories of friends and co-workers in our military and civilian occupations. His passing at such a young age is tragic. I feel so blessed to say that I knew him and he was a friend. We'll all miss you Stan.
Bobby Rouard
February 3, 2012
Dear Sue and children, It is no surprise that your husband/father was a wonderful man. I have known Officer Chapin since I was in grade school going threw DARE and he was more then just A police officer for the school he was a friend. He knew millions of kids yet if I would have ran into him on the streets years later he would still know my name and everything about me. He was mean ping pong player...not to many people have their own paddle so you knew he ment business. He is truly going to be missed and I give the family my deepest prayers.
(Eastlake class of 02')
February 3, 2012
Dear Family of Stan,
So touching to read the tributes to such a wonderful person! Our family knew him as a young man in his old neighborhood. We loved watching him run in those days (70s & 80s)and were curious. Stan was a most engaging neighbor and one day, he brought a huge duffle bag to our house. He opened it up and dumped what seemed like hundreds of running shoes out onto our living room floor! Then he began to explain the attributes of each shoe. He showed us a log he kept while running with each pair of shoes. The running/jogging craze was just getting started and he was evaluating running shoes for the manufacturers. He encouraged us to get out there & run up & down the street! So we each bought a pair of those funny looking, swoopy shoes. 30 years (and many pairs of shoes) later, we have slowed way down . . .
But, judging from the comments about Stan's work with kids, he never did slow down in his work. What a modern day hero!!!
We've been trying to research the Seattle Marathon from when it started in 1970. Pretty sure Stan ran in that race and probably WON!
You kids can be so proud of your Dad! He was a great guy and we are sorry you & your family have lost him so early.
Grateful to have known him, loving former neighbors.
Marissa Eggimann
February 3, 2012
The Chapin Family,
My heart goes out to you all during this difficult time. Office Chapin was an amazing person. We were so lucky to have him as the protector of the neighborhood. He had such a warm smile, i always enjoyed getting a wave from him while he was on his run. He will be truly missed.
Aneesha Nanda
February 3, 2012
Officer Chapin,
You did more for our community than I can even explain. You turned the worst day into one so much better just by your kind words and warm hearted smile. I'll never forget your endless concern for the safety of all of us. You made every kid feel special and loved. I only wish I could have spent all of high school with you too. Thank you for everything that you did. Your legacy will live on forever and you will always remain in our heart. You are so loved and so missed. Rest in Peace Officer Chapin.
Judy Leonard
February 3, 2012
Sue and Family - I am so sorry for your loss. Stan was a wonderful man who was always willing to help anyone. He is going to be missed by us all. You are in my prayers.
Kathryne Staudinger
February 3, 2012
Officer Chapin was more than just a police officer to the students at Eastlake High School. When I was around him, I could let my guard down and just joke around with him. I didn't think of him as an officer on duty, I thought of him as a friend. No matter how many times we asked him to do his velociraptor impression, he never failed to do it. He must have done that thing over a thousand times. Officer Chapin will be missed by everyone, and the Sammamish community won't be the same without him.
Chase Barlow
February 3, 2012
Rest in peace Officer Chapin, i`m gonna miss you a whole lot. I guess you really don`t appreciate what you have till its gone
Fred Marion
February 3, 2012
Stan, 50+ years ago we were just kids in school and going to church. We later became part of the community and did our best to it make it a little better. You must have gotten your job done a lot faster than I did because God took you to heaven. It maybe that he felt that you could spread your caring ways from heaven better than on Earth.
Steve Perry
February 3, 2012
Stan taught me so many things that a new cop doesn't learn in the Academy or on FTO.
He taught me that an "info exchange" is code for a coffee break. I use it to this day when Nextels aren't working.
I learned that you can type a PTCR or absense request on an IBM Selectric. Stan never handwrote anything that would go to the chain of command.
I learned that I loved getting cases from Stan when I was a detective. They were always an inch thick regardless of the nature of the crime. He completed timelines and diagrams that made this detective understand his capers.
Though Stan was about the nicest cop someone could meet, he was a warrior. One day, when going to an inane call, he said, "Careful. There could be gunplay". It was meant as humor, but continues to remind me of the grave responsibility we who wear a badge, armor, and firearms have everyday.
Above all, I learned that one can spend 40 years doing cop work and still have a great attitude, love the job, and deliver exceptional service to citizens. I've often heard guys say, "I want to have Stan's attitude if I stay in this business that long".
Stan, keep the streets safe up there. I await our next info exchange.
The Russo Family
February 3, 2012
Dear Chapin Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your husband and dad, as you know, was a remarkable man who was admired by all who met him. Everyone enjoyed seeing him at school. He always had a positive attitude and a smile on his face, which was contagious. He will truly be missed. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Holec Family
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin was an incredible man, so kind and compassionate to all, especiallly the students he worked with. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jackie Glover
February 2, 2012
Our sympathy to the Chapin family. Officer Chapin was an extraordinary person. He clearly took a great interest in our school and community. My children always had wonderful things to say about him. He once gave my son a ride home from school when he saw him walking in the rain. That is what kind of person he was. He knew everyone's name. I think that was incredible. Officer Chapin was not only respected in the community but we feel like he was family. The only thing I regret is that I never thanked him for all he did. Officer Chapin you will always hold a special place in our hearts! We will always feel blessed to have known you! Our thoughts and prayers go with you and your family.
Jackie Glover, Lauren and Michael Everson
Sammamish, WA
O'Neill Family
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin always knew the right thing to say and treated everyone with respect. He will truely be missed. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Joydeep Das
February 2, 2012
6 months back ,I started to drop my daughter at East Lake HS.That's when I first saw Officer Stan.Since then every day he used to wave at our car....I just cant believe that he will not be there at East Lake anymore..I truly feel a void.My condolences to the family..He will be in our heart...always.
Kathie Hurst
February 2, 2012
Sue and family,
Stan has touched so many lives, childhood friends, students, parents, neighbors and co-workers in so many positive ways. We share your loss as memories of his life will live on. He was truly one of a kind.
George Tian
February 2, 2012
5 years ago you came into my neighborhood and arrested my dad. 4 years ago you were one of the few adults I could talk to about my parent's divorce. 3 years ago you would still check up on me and make sure I stayed on the right path all those times. 2 years ago I remember job shadowing you; watching you as you helped other kids like you did with me. Exactly a year ago you've helped me again by teaching me to let go and be a better person. Now it's 2012, and your gone. Gone but definitely not forgotten. You have made an imprint in thousands of lives, all of my friends, my classmates, and even the kids I don't even talk to. So thank you Officer Chapin, for helping me through these 5 years. I would have been a different person if it weren't for you. You were more than a cop, you were everyone's friend. Rest in peace Officer Chapin.
Julia Wallinger
February 2, 2012
Dear Sue and Family, on behalf of my entire family I would like to send my deepest sympathies to you at this time and ask that God hold you all in his embrace. Stan was a remarkable man and we are all blessed to have known him. As i said in my fb post i believe that he was called by God to patrol some of his "unruly angels" (-; His light will shine from heaven that I am sure! God Bless, The Wallinger family
Amy Moffatt
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin,
There are so many memories that you have created for the people of Sammamish. All of them good. And I hope that, if you are looking down at us, that you see the impact that you made for the people here. No one can replace your enthusiasm, your confidence, your personality. I've known you for a little over 4 years, and will never forget your orange flourescent traffic gloves. Will never forget your performance at the 2008 IJH assembly where you dressed up as Hannah Montana and sang that song. Your velociraptor impression, and the kindness that you gave to every single student that you passed. You made every single student feel included, and if they were new to the school or the area, you weren't afraid to go up to them and strike up a conversation. I admire how much influence you had on the community, and I wished I got to know you better over the years. I've heard so many stories about how friendly you were, and pulling over EHS students just to say hi. You always wanted the best for students, no matter the decisions that they made. Even if they were bad, you never hesitated to give them advice to go in the right direction. You encouraged so many students to keep their heads up during a rough patch in their life, and those are the qualities of a great man. Someone who is selfless and is able to have such a positive influence over students.
You will be missed, but your memory will forever be strong, I would hope, in this community.
Sean Anderson
February 2, 2012
I have known Stan all my life. It is still a shock that he is gone. He was an amazing man who could make just about anyone in any situation feel safe and happy. He was a big child and that was why everyone got along ith him so well. He had a gift that not many people have, to be able to reach out and talk with anyone as though he knew them for ever and they were best friends. My condolences to the Chapin house. A very sad loss...
Elise Thomas
February 2, 2012
Dear Sue, Scott, Beth and Chris,
Stan was a friendly, upbeat and sincere man. It was a pleasure to have know him both as an officer as well as a neighbor and family friend ever since I've known you all. I'll miss saying hello to him in the mornings but am a better person for knowing such a remarkable man.
Sandi Ackerman
February 2, 2012
Dear Officer Chapin's Family,
I hope you know how very much your husband and father was loved by every single Inglewood and Eastlake student. He was truly an amazing person to have been able to have such an impact on so many teenagers. He had a gift communicating, laughing with and enjoying every student he met and he made each one feel special. He was such a wonderful man/police officer for all of our kids to look up to. He taught them that policemen can be trusted and are there to help; not only write tickets or arrest. Never have I seen a community so devastated by one person's death. He will be greatly missed by all of us.
February 2, 2012
Though I was not able to get to know Officer Chapman personally, I am deeply saddened by his passing. He and I only exchanged a few words once. He simply smiled and asking about how I was doing. It made my day. Whenever I walked to school, I would always see him waving and smiling to all the students. Now that he is in Heaven, there is an empty void within. It's such a great loss. I can only imagine what you and your family are going through. I am uncertain on what should be said. All I can do is pray for your family. Stay strong, Chapin family.
Kathleen Murray
February 2, 2012
I'm a recent Eastlake graduate and hearing about this was a complete and utter shock. Tuesday morning, my facebook newsfeed was filled to the brim with statuses about Officer Chapin, all of them completely heartfelt and incredibly touching, it's something I wish the Chapin family could have seen. He was such an amazing man who touched so many young lives in just the three years I'd known him. God bless the Chapin family. I know that Officer Chapin is up in heaven smiling down on us all as he takes a few velociraptor laps with God. :)
The Yeung Family
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin was a true hero, a good person that one could trust. He was the person who made the world a better and safer place. I say safer not because he was an officer, but because he was he who was warm and kind and always spreading positive energy around people. What a loss to our community - he will be missed. Our condolences go out to his family.
Becky deVries-Wong
February 2, 2012
We send our deepest sympathy to Officer Chapins famly, he was a treasure to our schools, students and families here in the Sammamish community. He saw the best in everyone and treated all of our youth with such respect. His sense of humor was great and he gave so much encouragement to all. We hope the memories you have will give you comfort during this time of loss. No words can say how truly sorry we are for your loss and how much we will all miss him. Thank you for sharing him with all of our families here in the community. Becky deVries-Wong and family
Nicole Barlow
February 2, 2012
The Barlow family will miss Officer Chapin waving to one of us with his big smile! Our community will never be the same but we are so grateful of have known him-he was one of a kind for sure. We are so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss...
Matt, Nicole, Bryce, Chase and Alyse Barlow
Lisa Valdez
February 2, 2012
Dear Sue,
I didn't know Officer Chapin directly, but he was always the smiling face that greeted us when I dropped my son off to school. He is already missed.
I teach preschool and we have been studying "community helpers" those who help us in our community. Sammamish has truly lost someone special, because Officer Chapin truly defined and represented the title "community helper" at its best. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Valdez Family
Lisa, Rudy, Drew, Adian
Mimi Yu
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin,
You have touched the lives of so many people; this community would be so much different if it weren't for you. You are one of the few adults that actually took the time to get to know students; you genuinely cared about each and every one of us. Thank you for influencing me positively. You would always say "hi" to me, ask me how my day was, and offer me a Jolly Rancher. You cared, and that brightened my day each day. Thank you for being such a kind, caring, and funny person. This community has lost an amazing person. I bet you're teaching the people in heaven how to raptor.
Mei Mei Levy
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin was a great man whose legacy will forever live on. He always had a smile on his face and he will be missed. Chapin was and will be loved forever.
Matthew Gaddis
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin was an extremely respectable man, not only was he open and caring, he always knew how to make you feel good. Never let his memories go...
J. McLaughlin
February 2, 2012
Thank you for sharing your amazing, kind, dedicated and caring husband and father with all of us in Sammamish. He will be missed so much. Nothing can fill the void he has left but know he was cherished, appreciated and very loved.
Jessica Milligan
February 2, 2012
Dear Sue and the Chapin Family,
The news of Stan passing away was very devastating. I lived in his neighbor all thru high school and remember many time babysitting the kids, playing horse in his driveway. He was always kind and honest. The kids in the neighborhood loved Stan! It's funny I saw him right before Christmas when I was taking a cruise thru the old neighborhood and didn't stop to say Hi, due thinking he may not even remember me at all. Not knowing Stan in the "officer" sense and reading all the lives he has changed and encouragement giving to so many youth puts a smile on face. The world has lost a great man this week. It's always the kind, gentle and the unselfish that die to early. God Bless you Sue and your children. I pass on the strength to get thru this hard time.
Betty Chinn
February 2, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I got to know Officer Chapin through interaction with my children who were students at Mead El, IJH, and EHS. He had a way of making every student (and family) feel like their concerns were his most important focus. We will miss him, but never forget the positive impact he had on our lives.
Michele Julum
February 2, 2012
I will miss having conversation with Officer Chapin during the Eastlake football games. He always had a smile and a watchful eye! ESF&R Volunteer.
The Bernardo Family
February 2, 2012
Stan was an incredible, positive influence on each of our three children, and just a really warm man. We will miss him. Our thoughts are with his family.
Mikaela Tangeman
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin, your smile lit up an entire room. That alone says so much about who you were. I am so deeply saddened by this unexpected loss. You taught so many kids, including myself, how to succeed to be a better person. You taught some of the best lessons in life. You believed in every single student that stepped foot through IJH and EHS. You were a true hero, you saved so many lives by your encouraging words. The most remarkable thing about you was that you were on a constant mission to better the community we live in. I was lucky enough to know you on a personal level & I am so thankful for that. You were truely an amazing person. Its unreal that we have lost such an amazing human being and I still have not yet been able to grasp it.My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends. You will never in a million years be able to be replaced. I will never forget you. RIP Officer Chapin. Let the raptor live on. xo
-Mikaela Tangeman
Eastlake Graduate 08'
February 2, 2012
God's angel on earth as is in Heaven! Officer Chapin touched so many lives with just a smile! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. You will be missed!
In our prayers, The Pierzchalski Family
Marjorie Pacholec
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin, was the kindest police officer my children have ever know. One of sons said that it is due to Officer Chapin that he has such a high regard for Police Officers. My nephew is a police officer in NY and I pray that he will become as wonderful an officer as your husband and father was. He will be greatly missed by the entire community of Sammamish.
Kathy Aslamy
February 2, 2012
Dear Chapin Family,
The Aslamy family would like to express our deepest sympathy to you all and to let you know how Stan touched our lives. I worked with Stan when he taught DARE classes to my 6th graders at Keller Elementary School. He had a such a gift for being able to connect so positively not only to young people but to all who surrounded him. Later, my own three children had the honor of knowing and working with him at Inglewood Junior High and Eastlake High School. All three remember fondly their own personal stories of interactions with him and how he made each of them feel special and important. We deeply mourn his loss and consider ourselves fortunate to have been blessed by his presence in our lives.
Trish Reitan
February 2, 2012
Dear Sue and Family, we are so sorry for your loss. Stan was and will forever be an angel. He was a land angel here on earth, touching lives and adding smiles to those he knew each and every day. As he is taken from our lives I know his lite will shine bright and continue to touch our hearts from the heavens above. We truly have been blessed by this wonderful man, our friend. God Bless you and your family. The Reitan Family
Kathie Cook
February 2, 2012
Rest in peace, Officer Chapin. You were an inspiration to all of us. The kids, parents, families of Sammamish will miss your smile and warmth. You will be missed.
Janna Kach
February 2, 2012
As a parent of three kids who attended and are attending Eastlake High School I always felt at ease when I would see Officer Chapin's car at the school. He was so great with all the students. He will be greatly missed by Eastlake and the entire community. Our prayers go out to his wife and children. God Bless,
The Kach Family
Helen Ivory, KCSO
February 2, 2012
Sue and Family,
Stan was such a kind man, a gentle soul. He will be missed. May God keep you in his arms.
Tony Cuozzo
February 2, 2012
Stan, it was clear to me that you cared as much about the well-being of the Sammamish kids as we parents did. All it took was watching you engage the wallflowers at an Inglewood dance, seeing you play ping-pong with them and seeing the appreciation and admiration in the kids' eyes. You touched my daughter's life with your kindness, engagement and honest concern for her safety and development. You're already missed greatly.
The Edwards Family
February 2, 2012
"God blessed us with an angel." One man who touched and impacted so many,most of the time with just a smile.
Sue, Christopher, Bethany and Scott peace be with you during this difficult time.
Susan Lee
February 2, 2012
To say that Officer Chapin was a fixture in our lives here on the Sammamish Plateau would be a gross understatement. As a parent of three children who have gone through Inglewood and Eastlake, I can't tell you how much I appreciate the influence and impact he had on my kids...especially if they seemed to be making questionable decisions. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Liz Jones
February 2, 2012
To the Chapin Family,
Thank you so much for sharing your husband and father with the Sammamish community. Words cannot express the sadness we are feeling at his passing. His kindness and compassion has left a lasting impression on not only myself, but on my two children, Taylor and Alex. He was an example to us all and we are better people having known him.
Joe Mains, EHS 2004
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin was an incredible man. He built relationships with all the students he encountered and was clearly a friend to everyone. Sammamish lost a great cop, a great friend, and a great person. RIP
Colette Kradin
February 2, 2012
Never too young to die,
Never to old to cry,
I just wish, with a tear in my eye,
That you get the chance to fly,
It's a shame none of us got to say goodbye,
Just promise you'll watch over us,from the sky.
Have fun fighting crime on heaven.
Rest in peace OC
I'm really upset I cannot make it to your memorial. But I know you would get mad at me for skipping class :/ please watch over us.
peace be with your family, you were truely a blessing to the community. <3
Dawn Sanders
February 2, 2012
Stan was a wonderful mentor for my children, I enjoyed working with him, his sense of humor and especially enjoyed seeing his compassion for the kids that needed some extra guidance. Stan guided all five of our kids at Margaret Mead, Inglewood Jr. High and Eastlake. Our thoughts are with your family. We can only imagine how difficult this must be.
Jodey Lingg
February 2, 2012
We are all better people for having known him. He will live on in all he touch!
Brittainy
February 2, 2012
Chapin Family,
I am sorry for your loss. Officer Chapin taught the DARE program at our school and his work truly had an impact on my life. I was so saddened to hear of his passing; my thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Franco Simone
February 2, 2012
Officer Chapin waved everymorning to me as I drove into school and it was impossible to avoid him in the hallways! haha Officer Chapin will be forever a rolemodel in my eyes and everyone else he has impacted, he is the man and I'll never forget him
Darci ~ City of Sammamish
February 2, 2012
Stan was such a wonderful man and I loved seeing his smiling face while at work at city hall. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He will be missed very much.
Maurene Meyers
February 2, 2012
Stan was an incredible man. He brought joy and laughter to everyone he came in contact with. I will miss his bright smile and bounding enthusiam morer than I can say. He truely was one of a kind. God could never replecate a perfect human being. Deepest condolences to Sue and family
Kathie Beutel-Johnson
February 2, 2012
Rest in Peace Stan
May everything you stood for radiate in the hearts you've touched!
Kathie Beutel-Johnson
February 2, 2012
May your family's grief be lifted by angels wings and your sorrow be replaced with comfort in knowing how Stan was so instrumental in so many lives.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful husband and father with us. He gave his badge honor and he gave the human race a new standard of living! Please accept our heartfelt condolences! ~~ Kathie, Alle and Jaleh Johnson ~~ Plateau Shell
Mark Venn
February 2, 2012
Growing up with Stan in the North Bend area brings back good memories. Stan always had a smile and a good word for everyone he knew and met. He left a lasting impact on all those around him. My condolences to his family.
Peggy Martin
February 2, 2012
Will Rogers said, "I never met a man I didn't like." In Stan's case, "I'm sure he never met a man who didn't like him." You were a true friend to everyone who had the privilege of meeting you. There are no words to express how much you will be missed. My condolence and prayers to Sue, Chris, Bethany and Scott.
Harold Jeffery
February 2, 2012
I knew Stan when I was a young man over 30 years ago and I was about to make some stupid decisions , he talked to me as a friend first and a police officer second and I got smart and made the right decisions. He was a credit to the human race and to law enforcement. I am deeply saddened , as are many who grew up in the Snoqualmie Valley to learn of his passing. The world has lost a very special person. Rest In Peace Stan , you will be missed by the many whose lives you touched.
Chris,Deborah,Alex & Madison Waugh
February 2, 2012
Sue, Chris, Beth and Scott you are in our thoughts and prayers. Stan was a great man who has touch many lives and will be deeply missed.
February 2, 2012
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. He was a good man.
Bob Lein, Deputy KCSO
Sally & Rob Mendel
February 1, 2012
Dear Sue and family - we grieve at the sudden loss of Stan and for the pain that you are going through. Truly he was a wonderful man and his legacy is remarkable. As we read the FB posts from the lives that he touched throughout his career, it is absolutely heartwarming. He truly was an exceptional person and police officer. Our hearts are breaking for you.
Barb Swaney
February 1, 2012
I've known Stan since we were kids growing up in the Harmon Heights/South Fork Road neighborhood. As long as I have known him he has always been a caring person with a big smile, a kind word and a big heart. The memory of his genuine goodness will keep his spirit alive in all the lives he touched. I was blessed to know him.
Jim Bowman
February 1, 2012
Dear Sue, the family, and all the KCSO partners. I am so sorry for the loss of such a kind and gentle guy, I will be thinking of you all on Tuesday, wish I could be there.
Jean Best
February 1, 2012
Dearest Sue,
I am at a loss for words. I want to comfort and console, but find my vocabulary inadequate. I wish you peace and solace. Please accept my support and affection, and call upon me for anything I can supply. My most sincere and heartfelt condolences to you, Chris, Bethany and Scott.
Barb Thomas
February 1, 2012
God blessed us with Stan as our neighbor and friend for 25 years. His absence is deeply felt as he was truly a part of our daily life. Our heart goes out to you all. He was a gift and we are better off having known this remarkable man.
Monica Downen
February 1, 2012
Peace be with you Sue and kids. Stan was a gentle man with a big heart and I know he will be missed. Take care of your selves and each other, and may you be surrounded by love.
Kristin Murillo
February 1, 2012
Dear Sue and the Chapin Family, my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this very difficult time. May all your memories help ease your pain and someday turn your sorrow in to laughter.
Kristin Murillo