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Thomas J. Lahaye

October 10, 1939August 27, 2020
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Thomas J. Lahaye, 80, of Secaucus, NJ passed away on Thursday, August 27, 2020.

Born in Jersey City, NJ to Anna and Paul Lahaye.

Devoted husband of the late Theresa Lahaye; loving father of Nancy Van Es (Peter), Joseph Lahaye (Darlene), Jo Marie Bennett (Vincent), and the late James Lahaye; cherished grandfather of Lisa Blanchard (Anthony), Scott Van Es (April), Raymond Lahaye (Ali), and Daniel Lahaye; adoring great grandfather of Kenny Blanchard; and dear brother of the late George Lahaye, Edward Lahaye, Christina Lisiewski, and the late Steven Lahaye. Thomas also leaves behind many loving nieces, nephews, close family members and friends, and wonderful neighbors.

A visitation for Thomas will be held Tuesday, September 1, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Mack Memorial Home, 1245 Paterson Plank Road, Secaucus, NJ 07094. A funeral mass will be held Wednesday, September 2, at 9:30 AM at Immaculate Conception Church, 1219 Paterson Plank Rd., Secaucus, NJ 07094.

In lieu of flowers donations in Thomas' name to the Secaucus Chapter of Unico, PO Box 1182, Secaucus, NJ 07096 would be greatly appreciated.

  • DONATIONS

  • Secaucus Chapter of Unico

Services

  • Visitation

    Tuesday, September 1, 2020

  • Funeral Service

    Wednesday, September 2, 2020

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Thomas J. Lahaye

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Jennifer Oramas

September 1, 2020

Tom, you beautiful soul! Your home was always welcoming. You loved to share memories of your youth, your family, and of course, your beloved wife. When you spoke of her your eyes watered. You constantly told me how much you loved her and how much you missed her. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to be a part of your life. Before I left your home, you always said "Looking forward to seeing you next time Jen" and gave me a kiss and a hug. Thank you for being so kind and caring. Sleep in peace. You will be surely missed. My deepest condolences to the family 💓

Pam McGauley

August 31, 2020

My sincere condolences to the family. Rest in peace Mr. Lahaye.

Charles & Loretta Van Es

August 29, 2020

With our deepest sympathy to the family. May he rest in peace.

Sharon Abraham

August 29, 2020

My memory of Thomas J LaHaye is stories from your beautiful daughter Nancy. Although we never met, Nancy and I got to share our Mc Donald and Subway lunches together. We shared our chit chatter of innocent life experiences and lessons. Thank you for my friend, Nancy. The twinkle in her eyes and her love of family speaks for itself the great Dad and parenting from you. Sharon Abraham

Nancy Van Es

August 29, 2020

I cannot stop looking at this picture.

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