Debralee Ann Assink

July 17, 1954June 18, 2012

Debralee Ann Assink Beloved Mother & Friend Former Elementary School Teacher in St. Paul

Died on June 18, 2012 at the age of 57. She was currently residing in Eagan, and had been born in San Francisco. She was preceded in death by mother, Rose Butler and her father, Harlan Assink. Debralee is survived by her loving son, Anthony and many friends. She will be dearly missed by all who were honored to have met her; she touched the lives of many. Celebration of Life: 1 PM, Friday, June 22 at Wulff Godbout, 560 W. 7th St., St. Paul. Visitation 1 hour prior to the service on Friday and on Thursday, June 21 from 4 until 7 PM. Interment at Pleasant View Cemetery in Burnsville. Memorials preferred to family for later designation. Many thanks to the staffs of Regions Hospital & Our Lady of Peace Hospice.


  • Evening Visitation Thursday, June 21, 2012
  • Celebration of Life Friday, June 22, 2012
  • Gathering of Family and Friends Friday, June 22, 2012

Debralee Ann Assink

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April 1, 2013

Its getting nice out. Still feel like i can just call you up. Your favorite time of year is near.i think of you everyday. So much different up at the cabin with out you up there. We talk about you all the time as if your still here with us. Missing you so much Deb. Dont forget to leave a penny here and there so we know your there like your mom did for you . XoxoOxoxXoxoXo

azariah cotton

February 18, 2013

dear Ms.Assink, your were my history teacher which was the best teacher at daytons buff and you were the best teacher going to miss you

December 19, 2012

Ms.Assink you were one o the best teachers I've ever met.

September 30, 2012


You took me to a really fun party, many years ago...
I always thougt you were a sweet woman, very nice.
I didnt hear of your passing until yesterday; I will always remember that day...

Your friend Dan...

Mary Lee

July 4, 2012

I will miss your sweet mother,she was a GREAT caring teacher and a GREAT caring friend.It is an honor to know her.
I was sorry I could not attend her celebration of her life because I was out of town.You will be in my thoughts and prayers through this time.

Sabrina Ruberto

June 28, 2012

Ms. Assink you were my favorite teacher and I'm grateful for the chance to have been in your class. I wish I could have made it to the wake but I wasn't notified until it was too late. I hope you are in a good place.

June 22, 2012

to my friends who weren't able to be at her celebration...

the room was standing room only. early on a lot of right-on deb music played quietly: some rock, some latin american, and very significantly sheryl crow singing "all i really wanna do is have some fun," which virginia and i agreed would have brought deb to her feet.

knowing that deb refused to help tony plan her celebration, i can only say that she must have been confident tony would know what to do when the time came. she just didn't tell him that. it was magnificent, tony.

they played "ave maria" as they tucked deb into the cushions of her coffin and closed it. later we heard elvis sing "i come to the garden alone," a song that dominates my family history. my parents often sang that song as a duet at funerals in my church.

her friend andrea spoke and i don't know where she got the strength, but what a grand tribute to deb as a friend! but even greater, tony spoke to his mom, in front of us all... he threatened to tell inappropriate bartender stories, but he went on to tell us this: he took care of his mom unconditionally for 6 months. she did the same for him for 31 years. he didn't think his sacrifice was notable.

the last song was by the singer who plays the ukele and sings "somewhere over the rainbow," but this version incorporated "what a wonderful world." perfect.

till we meet again, my friend,

lynne with love

Kelly peck

June 22, 2012

Ms.assink You were the best of all Teachers and even tho im sad your gone I know your in a better place and is done suffering Everyone at daytons bluff loves you

autumn johnson

June 22, 2012

Ms.Assink, I wish i could've been there for your wake, I'll always miss you, It's hard for me to Say goodbye But i Know that your happier in heaven
Autumn johnson <3

Mary Roussopoulos

June 22, 2012

Please accept our deepest condolences in the loss of your mother. Bob and I just heard and were unable to attend the funeral. Debbie was a fantastic friend and a greater Mother. Please take care and as always we send our love. Mary and Bob Roussopoulos