Mary Lou Haider

July 2, 1932June 16, 2013
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Age 80 Lifetime Resident of St. Paul Mom, Grandma & GiGi

Passed away June 16, 2013. Family was the most important thing to Mary Lou. She is survived by her Children, Paul (Diane), Steve, David (Stephanie), Jack (Julie), Bill (Michele), Marietta (Todd) Kvilhaug, Meg (Shorty) Garibay, Maria (Jeff) Kehr; Fourty-One Grandchildren; Fifty Great-Grandchildren; and Sisters, Nancy Mench and Barb (Bill) Weiss. Mass of Christian Burial will be Friday, June 21, 2013 at 11:00 am with Gathering of Family and Friends from 9:00 - 11:00 AM at St. Stanislaus Catholic Church, 398 Western St. at Superior, St. Paul. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred.


  • Visitation Friday, June 21, 2013
  • Mass of Christian Burial Friday, June 21, 2013

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Ann Copeland

August 1, 2013

Mom just told me of Mary Lou passing and I am deeply sorry for you loss, I know who special Mary Lou was to her family and friend. When I was living in Mn. I spent every weekend with Mary Lou and Maria and she treated me like a daughter. She was a very special person and will always have a special place in my heart.

Linda Ewert

July 1, 2013

To the family of Mary Lou: So sorry to hear of the loss of Mary Lou. I delivered meals on wheels to Mary Lou for several years. She was always a delightful person and so appreciate of what we were bringing to her. I will certainly miss knocking on her door at Winslow and seeing her smiling face.

June 24, 2013

Paul and Diane

So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother.
Miss you both here in Hugo and the fun talks etc.
Know that you are both in our thoughts and prayers. Keep the memories close...
Your friends
Kathy & Gloria Rapatt

June 22, 2013

Rocky's friends at work are thinking of his family. Sorry for loss.

June 21, 2013

I was lucky enough to know Mary Lou through her brother Joe. She was the nicest, kindest person! I have happy memories of her and her sweet smile. May she rest in peace.
Alice Vignalo

Chris Linke-Compton

June 21, 2013

"Haider Family~ Remembering days on Randolph Avenue and sending heart-felt sympathy for your loss. God bless you all."

Steve and Kris Kehr

June 21, 2013

We are sorry for your loss.

June 21, 2013


So sorry for your loss. Another good one has left us behind, but cherish the memories and good times you shared.

Laurie Aguirre

Kim Dunbar Durant

June 21, 2013

Haider Family~
Remembering days as neighbors on Randolph Avenue and sending heart-felt sympathy for your loss.
God bless you all.

Katie Brown

June 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Grandma was a beautiful person, inside and out! She will be truly missed! xoxoxo