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I remember all the times me and Sebastian would talk after church hours, he really seemed like a nice loving guy but I know deep down his long decline is over. His smiles lightened up the room, I'm sad to know in the end he surrendered to despair.  I remember a week before he died, he looked like he was in a temporary bliss state. I'm sad to see him go but I know that we have another angel watching over all of us.

Its  good to know we have another angel watching over us but if I had known we didn't have many days left I would've loved to talk to him more. I remember talking to him the day of the autumnal equinox about Jesus and not even 6 months later he passed. His passing more than slightly bewildered me I cant believe the time we spent together is just a burning memory.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

In memory and honor of Sebastian "Sal" Paraspolo. Today we are remembering a very funny, always hopeful, caring, man of deep faith. We only knew him a short time but, it was long enough for us to see his faith and trust was rooted in his Savior. What impressed us most about Sal was that even though his mind was fixed on Heavenly things, he always seemed to have time enough to spend on and care for his fellow man. The last time we saw Sebastian, he told us he was awaiting some test results on the 6th, and that he could attain the results sooner but, he knew he was healed and wanted to enjoy Easter. So today, we rejoice that Sebastian(Sal) Paraspolo was indeed completely healed and has enjoyed Easter with his Savior like he never did before. Our sympathy and prayers go out to his wife Val and his family. I think the following verse depicts Sal and his tireless desire to show God's love toward others. 1Cor 13:2 "If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing!"
 Our church will be a dimmer place without Sal and we will miss him so much

Carole,
I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope the memories you and your family hold get you through this difficult time.  My thoughts are with you.

Carole, Your entire family is so genuinely kind, gentle and giving.  This will always be your dad's living legacy.  My heart is with all of you.

Dear Carole,

May God help you in this hard time and send you many special memories of your times together.  You will miss your Dad, but can always hold him close in your heart.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family~
~Joan Paris

Charlie Sal was a friend to my parents and brought to me a wonderful friend in Carole.  He will be missed.  My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love LuAnn

Dear Carole & Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. When I think of your Dad, I think of kind, sweet, friendly & loving.   He was a very special man.  May your grief give way to happy memories. Sending all our love and sympathy to you, your Mom, Joanne, Cassandra, Mikey & Michael.

Love, 
Joanie

Sal,
rest in peace.  
Condolences to Valerie, Joanne and Carole. So sad to hear this news.  I will always treasure the memories I have of your kind wisdom as we were growing up back in Flushing.

Dear Carole, Michael, Cassandra and Michael, 
I know you have wonderful memories of your father and grandfather.  The one time I met him, he struck me as a sweet and genuine man.  Keep his memory alive by talking to him and about him often.  You are all in my prayers.

The last time I spoke to Uncle Sal was the day after his birthday which happens to be the same day as my daughter's. If I would have known it would be the last time I would talk to him I would have said so much more. I will always be grateful for his prayers over my husband. I find comfort in the fact that our family has another angel watching over us. My heart aches for my sweet Aunt Valerie and Joanne and Carole. My prayers are that you can feel his love all around you. Cassie and Michael he bragged about you guys and loved you beyond measure, I hope that stays with you forever.

Dear Valerie, Joanne & Carole,

My heart goes out to you all during this difficult time.  May all your memories bring you each peace and comfort.  God bless you Sal and may you rest in peace.

I'll miss your smile; it would light up a room.  Your amazing wit and positive attitude endeared you to everyone you met.  You were quick with a compliment and you would always make everyone feel as though they were important.  Your children and your wife were your life, but your grandchildren were your greatest joy.  You were a wonderful uncle to us and we will miss you immensely.  We love you always.

God bless you Sal. God bless you Valeria,Joanne and Carole. Always in my prayers and thoughts always and forever. Sal rest in peace. Love you!!!  XOXO

I still can't believe you are not here with us!  I have so many amazing memories of you especially from my childhood when we lived upstairs from you.  One of the fondest memories I have is when you taught us the McDonalds song front and backwards while trying to keep us kids entertained while you babysat us.  I still can say it backwards, bun seed sesame a on ..........The most recent memory I have is you playing hide and seek with my granddaughter Kyra on Christmas Eve.  I don't know who had more fun her or you.  I will always remember your kind words and how much you appreciated every holiday we spent together.  You had such a strong faith that I know you are with Jesus and in a much better place.  I will truly miss you Godfather, I will never look at a palm tree the same way.

Dear Grandpa, 
I already miss you more than I can put into words. I miss our Wednesday phone calls and our conversations about our favorite musicals. I miss hearing you say that you love me and that Jesus loves me more. I am going to miss you calling me Miss Rose and cheering louder than everyone at my shows. I am going to miss watching movies in the den with your insane surround sound speaker system. 
You gave me 19 years of love and beautiful memories, and for that I will always be grateful. Thank you for being the best grandpa in the whole world. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and cheering me on at every milestone. I am so proud to be your grandchild, and I strive to one day be as good of a person and Christian as you. 
I hope you've got the penthouse in Heaven, with every musical and movie you love and all the lox and bagels you can eat! You'll always be my guardian angel. 
All my love, 
Cassandra Rose

Sincere sympathy dear Valerie and family.  Sal was a very sweet man!  Prayers coming your way.

Dear Paraspolo Family

Mr. Paraspolo was one of the nicest, kindest people I have ever met.  He always had a kind word and a warm smile.

You are all in my prayers.  I know what a difficult time this is but please know that there are people who love you and are here to help you through.


JoAnn Nolan

Oh, Sal... You were like a 2nd father to me growing up.  You were very much loved, & will be very much missed.  Thank you for all the wonderful memories, and may you rest in peace.  P.S., I know you, Uncle Pop Pop, & my Dad, are together reminiscing  about the good days!

I still can't believe you are gone.  I have so many happy memories of you especially since we lived upstairs from you for sooooo many years.  I think one of my favorite memories was when we were kids and you were babysitting for us, to keep us entertained you made us sing the McDonalds song frontwards then backwards, two all beef patties, special sauce.......bun seed sesame a on ......   You always had such kind words for all of us and were always so appreciative for spending the holidays together.  Another favorite memory was this Christmas Eve when you were playing Hide and Seek with my granddaughter Kyra.  I will always remember your strong faith you had in Jesus and it seems fitting that you got to spend Easter Sunday with him.  I know that you are in a better place because that's what our faith teaches us, however we will miss you greatly here godfather!  I love you!

To the Paraspolo Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss.  Mr. Paraspolo was such a sweet man.  He always had a smile on his face & was so pleasant to talk with.  I will miss seeing him when I catch a ride with Joanne.  He always came to the door & waved or he opened the door & asked how my daughter, husband & I were doing.  Unfortunately we all have to go through this.  Keep your strength.  In my experience you never get over such a thing but you do get through. Cry when you need too, scream when you need too, talk when you need too.  Your father/husband was very rooted in his faith.  I hope this carries all of you through.

To my loving father.  I miss you already!  Thank you for taking such good care of me my whole life.  I know how much you loved me and I also know you know how much I loved you!  I am so happy I was there with you when you took your last breath and went to Heaven.  I am so happy that you are with the Lord and the rest of our family.  My children know they had the best Grandpa in the world.
I know I will see you again someday when I am in heaven,  Please hold my hold when it is my turn.  I promise to take care of my amazing mother and look after my big sister.
I am so happy you are no longer in pain.  I love you more than words can express.  I am so sad now, but in time I will be able to laugh again when I think of all the great times we shared.

Your baby girl,
Carole Rose

OBITUARY

Sebastian "Sal" Paraspolo

March 9, 1936 – April 4, 2015

Quinn Hopping Funeral Home

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