Michelle Pretti Dotter
July 27, 1955 – May 10, 2019
On the afternoon of May 10, 2019, Michelle passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family. Michelle was born July 27, 1955 in Memphis, Tennessee to Evelyn “June” Pretti and Thomas Alfred Pretti. Michelle grew up in Memphis where she enjoyed a childhood full of fun and laughter with her brother and sister. She graduated from the University of Memphis in 1977 and began her career in university administration and finance. Michelle married John Thomas “Tom” Dotter on April 14, 1979 in Memphis, Tennessee. Shortly after, they moved to Houston where they both continued their careers in administration and finance at the University of Houston. Michelle went on to serve as the Chief Financial Officer at the University of Houston Clear Lake for 22 years. It was at the University of Houston that they met many lifelong friends. Together they enjoyed playing in their co-ed softball league, golfing, skiing in Lake Tahoe, and traveling to Destin with family and friends.
Michelle will be remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She was loved by many and is known for her kind heart, helping hand, love of life, and ability to make people laugh. She cherished her children, children in-law, and grandchildren, who know her as “Nana”. Michelle was a woman of faith, committed to her spiritual growth and forever grateful for a life full of love, family, friends, and travel.
Michelle is survived by her children, Meredith Morriss (Nick) and Richard Dotter (Lauren), her three grandchildren, Finley, Kirby, and Shepherd Morriss, her mother, June Pretti, her sister, Loreleigh Webb (Jerry), her brother-in-laws, David Dotter (Judy), Dick Dotter (Nikki), Dan Dotter, her sister-in-law, Carole Weaks, and many nieces and nephews. Michelle is preceded in death by her father, Tom Pretti, her brother, Steve Pretti, and her loving husband, Tom Dotter. This brief summary of Michelle’s life doesn’t begin to capture all of the people she loved or that loved her.
The family will receive friends on May 16, 2019 from 5:00pm- 8:00pm at Forest Park East Funeral Home, 21620 Gulf Freeway, Webster, TX 77598. A funeral mass will be held on May 17, 2019 at 10:30am at St. Bernadette Catholic Church, 15500 El Camino Real, Houston, TX 77062 with interment to follow at Forest Park East Cemetery at 2:00pm.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to the UHCL Dotter Family Scholarship Fund or MD Anderson Cancer Center.
- Rodger Carr, Active Pallbearer
- Richard Dotter, Active Pallbearer
- Hugh Ferguson, Active Pallbearer
- Johnnie Kaderka, Active Pallbearer
- Nicholas Morriss, Active Pallbearer
- Sam Stacy, Active Pallbearer
- William Staples, Active Pallbearer
- Jerry Webb, Active Pallbearer
- David Bradley, Honorary Pallbearer
- Daniel Dotter, Honorary Pallbearer
- David Dotter, Honorary Pallbearer
- Richard "Dick" Dotter, Honorary Pallbearer
- Jack Seibel, Honorary Pallbearer
- Paul Willingham, Honorary Pallbearer
- Visitation Thursday, May 16, 2019
- Reception Thursday, May 16, 2019
- Funeral Mass Friday, May 17, 2019
- Reception Friday, May 17, 2019
- Committal Service Friday, May 17, 2019
Michelle Pretti Dotter
May 19, 2019
We were "Diana Lane neighbors" and fellow St. Bernadette Parishoners with both Michelle and Tom for many years and Kent and I are so very sad to lose a great neighbor in Michelle. What a wonderful family and our most sincere condolences we extend to the Dotter children and family. Ann and Kent Cook, 15127 Diana Lane, Clear Lake, Texas.
May 16, 2019
Dear Meredith, Nick, Richard, Lauren, lil Ones, and rest of the family members,
My heart felt condolences and prayers for the family. You already know my relationship and love for Michelle. She is the very BEST leader one can ask for, a genuine mentor, a confidant, and a friend in need and in deed. Working with and under her leadership has enhanced my knowledge and professional skill sets. Michelle definitely ran a good race and completed the little dash that is in between her birthdate and her last date on this earth. Well done my good and faithful friend, I will miss you very much, but will join you one day. I pray the rest of us will carry this baton faithfully with endurance keeping our eyes on Jesus our Lord and savior (our ultimate prize). Much God’s love and Blessings!
May 15, 2019
Thanks to the family for posting so many wonderful photos.
Michelle Dotter was my co-chair on the university Planning & Budgeting Committee for many years. She was dedicated to the university and its students and her leadership was key to getting us through some tough times and building for the future. She always had a positive outlook on things and I learned a lot from her about life in general. The university community has lost a powerful supporter and advisor, and I hope her family can find some measure of peace.
May 13, 2019
I first met Michelle in 2013 when I was the student representative on the Planning and Budgeting Committee at the University of Houston - Clear Lake. During my year on that committee I was always impressed by Michelle and how she, despite her position as a Vice President, was always down to Earth and kind. She was particularly caring in clarifying things to me I did not quite understand throughout that year and expanding my knowledge for various campus procedures. As the years went bye Michelle would always greet me with a smile and hello as she did with so many of us on campus. I have no doubt that knowing Michelle made my experience at UHCL brighter and I will never forget how kind she was to me throughout the years. My prayers and deepest condolences go out to all of Michelle's family and friends. I hope you take comfort in knowing that one day you will be reunited with her.
Rest in Peace Michelle, and thank you for sharing your light with us.
May 13, 2019
Michelle was so key to leadership at UHCL for such a long time, and I am grateful for her service to the university. So much of what we are accomplishing today extends the effects of her work to the present and beyond. Michelle's legacy will always be remembered. May she rest in peace, and may her family find comfort in many years of happy memories.
May 13, 2019
Michelle always lit up a room when she walked in. She was a beautiful person with a great personality and so sweet. Sam and I have known her and Tom for about 30 years and always enjoyed being with both of them. She and Tom were parents to two wonderful children who I know will miss her tremendously. I visited her at the hospital several times and was always greeted with her beautiful smile. It was always a pleasure to be with her. To Meredith and Richard, may memories of her always be music to your hearts.
May 13, 2019
I had the privilege of knowing Michelle as both a friend and a professional colleague in the UH System. As a friend she was kind, thoughtful, fun and fun-loving. As a businessperson Michelle was smart, disciplined, and widely respected. Janet and I extend our deepest sympathy to Michelle’s kids and grandkids, who were the light of her life.
May 12, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with Michelle’s family. I have many fond memories of her. I especially appreciate her guidance early in my career. I know I never adequately thanked her. Rest In Peace friend...
“The Brat” (our joke)
May 12, 2019
Our Staff of Forest Park East Funeral Home extends our sincere condolences to your family.