My brother Patrick  and I met Aunty Dolly during the 1960's, 
when we were teenagers, in Calcutta, India. It was Aunty Dolly who motivated our mother to apply for a job in a large Company, which resulted  in her meteoric rise, to the position of Secretary to the CEO, for several decades. Aunty Dolly is one of those very rare individuals that can never be forgotten; sincere, kind, thoughtful, intelligent and humble. Her passing away has profoundly affected us, and we are comforted by the
unquestionable fact, that she is rejoicing with Our Lord and his Blessed Mother, eternally. 
in Heaven. We shall miss her, 
very much. 


It has been such a joy to have known Aunty Dolly.  Her sweet smile was warm and welcoming whenever we met her.   She was very welcoming and friendly to us when we met her at church or when she welcomed us into her home.   I remember her sage advice to me regarding not disagreeing with ones spouse in front of the children but going along with it even if you disagreed so as to keep the peace in front of the children.  I remember the trouble she took to painstakingly cook delicious "Sor potel" for us in particular which showed her attention to detail and her tender heart in cooking with love for us knowing I did not get such a 'treat' in the area where I live.  I remember her joking about different stories from her youth  that she shared with us which immediately put us at ease and made us laugh and it was a joy to see her laughing so hard too.  Last summer she gently chatted with me knowing that we had lost my mother-in law and grand-mother in the first half of 2019 and my sweet mother  in 2018, although Aunty Dolly herself had the beginning symptoms of what we would later learn was stomach cancer.  Such a precious lady.  She will truly be missed.   Thank you Lord for blessing us with  her friendship. 

Ron Lessin said 'When a stone is dropped into a lake, it quickly disappears from sight, but its impact leaves behind a series of ripples that broaden and reach across the water.'
In the same way  the impact of Dolly (Mum as I call her) life lived for Christ left behind  an influence for good that touched  my life and many others.
Mum will be missed by many after the 9:am  Mass
May she rest in peace 
Classina 

Dearest Ann, Joe, Joanna & Julia,

Saying goodbye to someone we love is heartbreaking. I pray that in the midst of your sorrow you find comfort in all the joyful memories shared. We share in this time of grief, but also share in the love and memories of your mom/Nan (Aunty Dolly) No words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.

"I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death.  They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make.  Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.  We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love."

Robin, Jeannette, Charlene, Michelle & Shannon.



Dear Ann, Joe, Joanna and Julia

Our heartfelt condolences 
on the passing away of your beloved Mother.  May God give you all the strength and courage to go through this difficult time.
She is now at peace and free from all pain and suffering.

We will keep you all in prayer.

Eternal rest grant, unto Aunty Dolly, O Lord and let Perpertual light shine upon her.  May her soul through the mercy of God Rest In Peace Amen

Our deepest sympathies

God bless
Colin  & Judy D’Lima

Ann, Joaquim, Joanna & Julia;

Someone close has left your side, it is hard to bear the thought yet try to remember the good times and the happiness she brought.
Your memories will help you to keep on for the love you hold in your heart and mind will never ever be gone.
THINKING OF YOU IN THIS SAD TIME
IN DEEPEST SYMPATHY

Judith & EARL PETER

Aunty Dolly.... how can we begin to say we will never forget you. You shared your home and gave us so much love when we were young, we are forever grateful.  We still refer to your house in Kolkata as "aunty Dolly's house" and the taste of your "solpotel" curry will never leave our memory. You always had a generous 💓 in helping our family when we needed, but most of all you were a wonderful aunt to us all.

Rest in Peace dearest Aunt.
From : The Xavier family both in India and Australia. 

Aunty Dolly,  it was always a thrill to hear how you enjoyed a tea I made for you long time ago.  Sorry, I didn't have a another chance  to make cup of tea. I guess,  I owe you one when I see you in heaven.  Rest in peace aunty. 

Aunty Dolly what can I say, so shocked and saddened. I have such beautiful memories of our Ekbalpore days as neighbors...all the lovely evenings, parties, shopping, and most of all the great experiences cooking yummy foods. I remember your smile, how you would whistle & I  would laugh and say more!! Rest in peace Aunty till we meet again. Love you.💕
Our sincere condolences to Ann, Joe, Joanna & Julia may God give you all the strength during this difficult & sad time.
With love Cheryl, Johnny & family, Patrick, Nelson, Jonathan & Julian & family. 

"Mummy", as I have always called you whenever I see you standing at the entrance to the Church after the 9:00 a.m. Mass.  Your radiant smile and sweet greetings will be always deeply etched in my heart.  With my whole heart I thank God for having known you for many years at St. Barnabas Church - my elegant friend with such a spirit of light and of love.  May God bless you in the embrace of His love and welcome you, a glorious child who has done well on earth.  

Aunty Dolly, as we lovingly have known you for so, so many years!  You bring nothing but good thoughts to our minds.  Thinking of you always brings a Smile to our faces.  Right till you were in hospital, you joked and whenever asked, you said "I'm ok".  You never ever complained.  

As long as I've known you, you loved to have fun and listen to music and cook for us.  Can't forget the cutting of meat....so precise in size. lol.  You did not think twice to scold or tell me off.  (sob, sob).  I know it was done in Love coz you told me so. :)

I miss you and your kind and gentle Smile.  You will always be among us, in Spirit.  May God keep you in His Loving Arms always!  

Happy 1st Birthday (28th) in Heaven!  Lots of Love.  Oh, please don't forget to tell our Mother Mary to please intercede to Jesus for us.....to be better human beings.  (Hearts)

I felt blessed and privileged to have known this kind- hearted,  ever smiling, generous woman for two years before her passage.   Even in her age, her death is a painful loss because I believe she still has much to offer.  No doubt,  that mom Dolly is  rejoicing with the Host of Angels in Heaven, where there is neither pains nor medications,   I confidently believe that her love for the Eucharist and Devotion to our Blessed Mother will earned her  the Glory of eternity.  I Praise and Glory God for your humble beautiful life, dear mom Dolly of the blessed memories. 
My sincere tribute, on behalf of my lovely children,  Angela Wallinson. 

Our deepest condolences at the loss of our dearest and loving aunty Dolly,she will always be remembered for her warm smile and her willingness to help anyone who approached her,may her soul RIP.We love you aunty Dolly and will never forget you

Aunty Dolly, we will always remember you with fondness. You were always this happy person whose laughter would resound not just in your apartment but the entire building . That memory will always make us smile. Rest in peace Aunty Dolly. 
Our sincere condolences to Ann, Joe and the girls.  
God bless you Ann and give you strength. 
Kenny, Caro, Ole, Vivica and Kimberly. 

With our heartfelt condolences for the loss of dear Aunty Dolly. She will always be remembered for her winning smile, kind nature and generous spirit. May her soul Rest In Peace with her dearly departed loved ones in heaven. 
Aunty Doll you will always be in our hearts 💕 

OBITUARY

Romona "Dolly" Xavier

February 28, 1933 – February 21, 2020

Giffen-Mack Funeral Home & Cremation Centre

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