Peter was the Ada in Cheektowaga court while I was a clerk there.   He was such a friendly person and we shared many laughs about court cases etc.  Peter was a gentle giant that always had a smile on his face.  My sympathies go out to his family, as I’m sure he will be missed.  Sandra Stapleton, retired court clerk 


Peter was truly a fine person, always had a positive attitude and was pleasant to everyone.  My deepest sympathies to his family.

Rev. Dr. Ken Kinton

I had many occasions to work with Peter during my State Trooper career.  He was truly a professional and helped many people.  He will be missed.  My sincere condolences to his family. 
Mike Ballow


It’s difficult to just take one memory to describe Peter. He’s just one of those people who you just  like being around. He had a tremendous wit and sense of humor and can converse on a wide range of subjects. Many times when you’re waiting around in court for your case to be called  you always look for somebody to pass the time with and Peter was always my first choice as you knew you would always get something from him to make you smile. That’s not a bad memory for people to have, that you left them smiling. He’s a great guy. Love that man.

I was so sorry to hear of Peter’s sudden passing. We had spoken several times in the last few weeks. It was so nice catching up recently. He was glad to retire, but next thing I knew, he was going back to work! Great work ethic and good person! He was a great fur-dad to Sophie and Kloe (hope I have that spelled correctly in our medical files - I see it’s different in your write-up). I will miss seeing him. He was so helpful to me personally recently. Peter was just a stand-up wonderful guy. He will be so missed. My sympathy to your entire family. I’m sure I will see you at some point in the office. Please take care. My heart is with you… 

I worked with Peter at the DA's office until 2019.  Peter would always start a story with "My wife and "my" daughter, not "our" daughter but "my" daughter.  For the longest time I really thought that she was really his daughter from a previous relationship.  He loved his family.  Spoke highly of Tammie and his siblings.  Peter will be terribly missed.
Rest in Peace big guy.

It is with sincere heartfelt sympathy that Tom and I share how saddened we are about Pete's passing.

Peter, was affectionately know as "Big Pete" at our house. We have so many wonderful memories of Pete stopping by for a quick beer and some laughs.  

He had the best smile, the best laugh, and gave the best hugs. 

He will be missed by the Schoellkopf family.





I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Peter over the last 25 years.  He was a special person that had a way of making everyone feel welcome. He was kind, humble and genuine. When I think of Peter I think of his smile and his sense of humor. Peter had a way of reminding us all that laughter and being able to laugh at ourselves is an important part of life. He always left me with a smile. He enjoyed teasing his friends and loved his family, his family home, his dogs and Christmas. I have never seen a Christmas tie collection quite like Peter’s. He will be missed.  

I’m so sorry to hear about Peter. We went to grade school together but I haven’t seen him in years. My prayers and sympathies to his family and all who loved him.

When Uncle Pillow drove out to Letchworth to camp overnight with us! ❤️

Dear Tammy and Jessica,,
It has been a very long time since I have spoken to you and now I am so saddened to hear this.  Please Take Care of Each Other. Love on your Fur Babies.  I remember  was it Scooter.  I remember Games with Petie, Peteloaf....  I would talk with Pete at John's still. He was the kindest friend to John and me also.  Always spreading love and great History stories. John and Peter were the.greatest of friends.  What a void that this is.  I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and am sending my love, Robin 

Pete and I often fished when we were younger.  We went early to a stream and had to cross to the bank on the far side.  It was spring and pretty deep and fast moving.  We loved the quiet and being together (and the beer).  It began to rain gently.  After a few hours, I said to Pete "Do the words flash flood mean anything to you?".  He looked at me, reeled in his line and we left immediately struggling to cross back over the stream.   We laughed about it for years.   I'll forever miss you Peteloaf.  You were always the better man, as you liked to remind me often.  Godspeed friend. 

I had the pleasure of calling Pete my friend for about 40 years. No matter how challenging life was, Pete always had a positive attitude. Pete was loving, compassionate and a generous guy, who would give you the shirt off his back. Pete had a way of building up people and seeing the good in any situation. You couldn't help but feel better after having a conversation with him. The world would be a better place  if it had more people like Pete in it. Pete you were taken from us way too soon.  You will be greatly missed.   My condolences and deepest sympathies to Tammy, Jessie, Peter's siblings and nieces and nephews. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and see you through this time of loss.

Peter was wonderful, and will be missed.  Great guy, with a big heart.  He loved his job, and his family.  Great to work with, as well as to go against him as a lawyer.  Every time I saw him, he was happy.  My sincere condolences to his family.  Godspeed Peter.



Peter was my friend for 45 years.   He dragged me out of the hole in the low points of my life and was there for the high points.  He took so much joy in the small things.  He would call me to tell me what absurd number of lights he was able to get on his Christmas tree, or how much he was enjoying the fire in his fireplace or how some deer wandered into his backyard while he was sitting on his deck.  It was impossible to not be in a better mood after talking to Pete.  He loved to make people smile and could effortlessly talk to anyone.    I don't know why the Lord took him so soon, I can only think that heaven needed some cheering up.  

Pete liked this photo, especially after I added the title, "A Boy and his 'Loaf." 

Prosecuting felony DWI offenders is yeoman's work.  It's not as prestigious as Homicide, but it's just as important. Peter was stalwart;  sleeves rolled-up, desk awash in legal pads and memos.    He seldom wavered and made a career in the DA's Office when most use it as a stepping stone to private practice, country clubs and martini lunches with the partners.  
Rest in Peace, Sir. You made a difference in the lives of many and without a doubt saved the lives of others.

Peter always enjoyed long summer weekends on Cass Lake (MI) with the Musiols. 

Pete always enjoyed a long summer weekend with the Musiols. 

Many prayers of this part of the great Cosgrove family for the soul of Peter and protection of his family.
Edward C. Cosgrove

I remember Peter from the 1990s, presenting Felony DWI's before the grand jury. He was a capable ADA under Frank Clark. RIP.

My heartfelt sympathies to Tammey and family for your loss.


Peter you always had a smile on your face.  On the days you stopped into the office before going to court, by the time you left every was in a good mood.  Your were one of the good guys,  keep smiling and RIP -

Janet Vogtli

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Peter M. Cosgrove

April 24, 1963 – December 25, 2021

Hoy Funeral Home

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