I miss you. I really just want to talk to you, and hear that contagious laugh of yours. You were all that I had and I feel so hopeless and loss without my big sister. You treated me more than a sister: you treated me more like a daughter. I never made one decision without consulting with you. I keep asking why. Why did god take you? You were so beautiful and young. The most selfless person that ever walked this earth. You always put yourself last. Sometimes I wonder what if you didn’t and maybe you would still be here?? I don’t know. I just really need you. I Love you so much, sis. You will always be in my heart. You are not just a memory, you are part of me.  

Cassie, it’s your little sister. The one that would look for you in my underwear as a little girl calling out for you, yelling out “Cowie”. You Will always be my Cowie. I wish my Cowie would just walk into the house and say let’s get sushi. I was so in denial that you are gone,( still kinda am) even after your beautiful service. Cassie, what am I gonna do now? I feel like I’m on a deserted island, all alone. Life will never be the same without. You were too young to go. You had all those goals to accomplish and I’m mad you can’t accomplish them.  It was always me and  you. I don’t feel whole anymore.  You are my mom, I give you all the credit. Who I am today is because of you.  I want you back so bad. It’s not fair.  I just want you to know you will always be in my heart.  Forever!! Your legacy and the mark you left on this world will never go unnoticed.  Love you so much. Until we are together again!

Love your sister, 
Tracey

I’ve struggled with writing this mostly because I’m still praying this is just a bad dream and I’m going to wake up and have a text from you saying hey. But here I am the night before we’re supposed to lay you rest and I’ve been crying on and off all evening thinking about all these random memories we have together but unable to to them i to words. So I’ll go with overal memories that’ll always stick with me and that is… 
My dearest Cassie you were always the kindest of us all you mothered so Many of us you loved and always put everyone before yourself. You took care of me at a very hard point in my life and I will never forget that you held me when I needed and told me it’ll be ok and eventually it was. When we were kids and I rode the bus for the time scared you held my hand and told me it’ll be ok and I knew it was because you were with me.  All the times we lived together and stayed up late watching movies or singing in your room are time I’ll think of and smile. I don’t have sisters but my cousins have been my sisters and you were my big sister and I can’t believe I’ll never have the chance to have another Cassie hug because Cassie gave the best hugs warm loving safe hugs I’ll always remeber how you always made sure to tell me you loved me you made sure to tell all those you loved that you love them and now I find myself doing the same beacause now I know you really never know when it’ll be the last time.
I miss you so very much but I know someday we’ll meet again at the pearly gates.  

I remember the first time we met at the Salon and  how you welcomed this Vermont girl right in with open arms . You seemed shy at first but it didn't take long for me to open you up . Cassie my heart ❤ will never be the same.  I will miss our long distance random calls to catch up on our crazy lives and telling you to move out here and work with me again behind the chair at my salon doing hair . I will cherish you my dear friend forever.  All my love sent to your family and friends through this difficult time . You are so missed and so Loved beautiful lady !! Until we meet again . 

Cassie , was a beautiful loving person she loved Lilly as if she was her own . I will be forever grateful for the love and memories she shared with  Lilly . Lilly loved her like her second mama ♥️ . 
Cassie and I grew up together many times living together. We always had tons of laughs together . Our moms were like sisters. Always together having a great time . Maybe to much sometimes to much fun haha but never were they a doll moment.  I will cherish everyone . Love you always Sam 

I’ll never forget the first time I had my hair blonde and the first time I gave my mom a heart attack i’ll never forget the day that Cassie did my hair she would always do my hair for me when I was younger anytime I  would get depressed anytime I get upset she would say let’s do your hair it’ll make you feel better she would always tell me to love myself because no one would love me like me Ill never forget how much love  she had for everybody Nor  I’ll  never forget how strong she was ..  she was a beautiful soul and I’ll never forget that ❤️‍🔥🥰❤️‍🔥 she’s always be in my heart 

My heart and prayers are with the family of Cassie . I’m so shocked and saddened by the news. I met Cassie at American Career College doing  medical billing classes. We got along right away ,  we would laughed  that our birthday was a day apart ,  she was the sweetest caring person. She also would do my hair and did such a good job ! Rip Cassie , you were a sweet , loving , caring person ! 

OBITUARY

Cassandra Lyn Whittle

July 31, 1984 – October 6, 2021

Westminster Memorial Park and Mortuary

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