My sincerest condolences to the family and loved ones. Dearest Cynthia, I want to tell you in the few moments I had the privilege to interact with you it was easy to see why you were so loved. One of the things that stood out most about you  was the LOVE you had for kids.  Specially your nieces and nephews. You were a proud auntie and it showed . Although we did not have a personal relationship I want to say you’ve already thought me so much . The last conversation you had with my sister really only validated the caring , selfless , loving person you were. You asked her to please take care of your little sister since you knew your time here was nearing  . I remember getting home that night from your sisters baby shower thinking I want to make her day a little brighter and let her know she is loved  . So I sent you a msg the very next day telling you everything was going to get better . Im saddened  that you never got to read that msg but I’m telling you now you mattered so much and you are so loved ❤️ Thank you for teaching me how it’s possible to be selfless and caring even when you’re going through your own trials. I know you’re resting in a better place now.  The Bible says heaven is a place filled  with EVERLASTING,  happiness ,  peace and joy 🙏 and it brings me peace to know you are in heaven smiling .  Until we meet again 

Love Always 
 Miriam 

My dear Cindy,
Im not taking this too well. I have never lost a friend I was this close to in a very long time so im not too sure how to deal with this. I now know the truth behind the saying " You dont know what you have till its gone" 
We had heard of eachother but were iffy until the day we first hung out and we got to talking and decided we werent that bad at all lol We had eachother laughing and I remember going home thinking I couldnt wait to hang out again! From that day on it became an every day thing pretty much! Wed meet up at Marys and talk and talk. 
We would go to the drive in, beach, barbq at parks, go shopping, cruising, Hollywood, every year wed go see the lights for Christmas and wed drink at all the family parties. If I wasnt there youd stay inside alot and same for me. When you were sick those parties werent the same I wouldnt laugh. You were bossy as hell and you would always dare me to do stupid shit and id do it just to make you laugh. We didnt always have good times there were nights if sit visiting you in the hospital when you first got sick and there were times when you told me you were tired of fighting and Id hang up the phone crying and praying for God to give you strength and he did. You fought this shit like a true warrior and you better never think any different.You would be up late at night and you would always text me sometimes id be half asleep texting you back and the next day id look at the texts and be like "wtf" and you would just say "good night then bitch" This past year was hard on me I was going threw some shit and we didnt see much of eachother but we always talked so we still were up to date on eachothers lives but had I known you were leaving me I would of done what I could to see more of you. 
I could go on and on about how bad this hurts me but you would probably tell me to go write you a book! But this book doesnt have a happy ending and it was way too short. 
You were my best friend "comadre" ill never forget you! <3

To my loving cousin Cindy , I know you’ve finally found peace in your heart. From conversations, to family gatherings, I cherished all the moments I had with you. You never judged me, always told me to be careful in what I do, you’d always laughed at my stupid stories, you’d always talk random shenanigans. You were so genuine. I remember, when u would
tell me how you’ve seen my grandpa. All I can think of is, how he’s now welcomed you to the other side. I know you will always be here with us. I’m so thankful for having u as my cousin I love you babygirl. 
Xoxo,

                               💗- MELLBEAR💗

Cynthia my gorgeous friend...I will miss you soo much. You were the funniest neighbor anyone could ever ask for! Thank you for all the sunshine village memories growing up and taking me under your wing on my first day of high school.  You have the biggest heart and are loved by so many people. You were a blessing for anyone to have in their life. You will truly NEVER be forgotten.  May your son reach for the stars and may all his dreams come true. Rest in peace our beautiful ANGEL♡♡♡

God only knows why he called you, may your beautiful soul rest in paradise. You will and are truly missed!  I pray for the family to gain strength during this difficult time. My condolences. 
God Bless!!! 

Cynthia,
I can honestly say that I have never met such a humble and loving person. Our time of knowing one another was short, but I truly admire and cherish it. Meeting new people in ones family can be intimidating, but you made it that much easier. Whether it was our conversations at dining room tables, the visits at our home when Brenda was pregnant, or taking part and sharing one of the biggest days of B's and my  life by coming all the way up to Oakland as we got married, your loving and caring nature has never gone unnoticed. I am blessed to have known you, thankful for our time with you, and very sad to see you go. You might be gone, but your memory will live forever in those that held you close. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel and your son has the best guardian angel he could ask for. We love you and may you forever Rest In Peace.

I meet ur daughter when I went to pacific my jr year. Me her and joe all became friends. She was always there for me and we remained friends ever since then. I love ur daughter with all my heart she was Genuine, she had morals, old school values and there wasn’t another person like her. I’m sorry for ur loss my respects and condolences. 

Cynthia, I will always cherish the beautiful memories we had. I feel so Blessed to have had you as my sister-in-law. I will miss seeing you at my Moms house. Thank you for always being there for my mom. I will miss you deeply. I will always remember when I saw you at my Mom’s house and you were wearing some white leather vans. And I told you how much I loved them shoes. Later you sent them with my brother and said “give these to your sister,  I remember how much she loved them.  I will forever cherish them. Rest In Peace Cynthia.

Cynthia you will be missed by many but never forgotten.  I will always remember your beautiful smile and laugh, but most of all your LOVE for your Son.  You gave the best gift to him by being his Mommy and showing him a Mothers Love he will cherish for a lifetime.  Fly high BEAUTIFUL and watch over your loved ones.  RIP Sweet Angel.  

Cynthia ❤️ You will be missed so much. I’m forever so grateful you became part of my family. I will never forget all the nights we all would spend at my grandmas house talking all this nonsense and be laughing and just having random conversation. Also taking a trip to rosarito where we all had a fun weekend. I will forever cherish those moments.  🙏🏽

Love Olie 

Tia , I can’t find the words for this loss of yours. You are now resting in paradise looking down on us to help us through this. Just know I’m going to continue to make you proud down here and keep your name alive to Ahren. I hope you come visit me and let me know im still your pride and joy. Im sorry you had to leave without seeing us one last time, but I’m at peace because I was there to pick up every phone call, every text. It sucks I had to come out here this way, but I know you aren’t hurting anymore. Tia I miss you soo much and haven’t slept much since I received that call, since I saw you lay there lifeless, yet at peace. Something told me in my heart you were ready tia, but you still haven’t came to give me that confirmation. I am forever and always going to be your babbygirl. Save me a spot next to you, until we meet again.

Cynthia you will be missed. I won’t forget that last conversation me and you had at your sister baby shower. It will forever be on my memory. You are with our father God now full joy. May you Rest In Peace. 
Love, Emily Calderon. 

Hi my name is Christine Valenzuela. I’m a friend of Cynthia since childhood. Cyn was a true definition of a real friend. You never had to doubt her in any way. She was truly one of a kind & I'm glad to say she was my friend. You don’t find too many friends like Cynthia so that’s why when we became friend back in the days. We automatically clicked like peanut butter and jelly. But when we both became mothers we knew it was time to put our craziness to the side because we realize nobody is worth us doing time & being my away from our children. Cynthia  my beautiful friend I LOVE YOU & I MISS YOU DEARLY. #Cynthiayoullforeverbeinmyheart💖
 May the Lord be with you always. May you rise and soar on eagle's wings. Amen. Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to thy never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that thou art doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for; through Jesus Christ our Lord.🙏🏽😢💔😣
   UNTIL NEXT TIME MY GUARDIAN ANGEL.
 “YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.”
                                           Love Always Your Girl,
                                      CHRISTINE VALENZUELA✨





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Cynthia Berenice Gutierrez

October 10, 1988 – December 7, 2020

Westminster Memorial Park and Mortuary

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