Roxie Charlene Pachelo

Roxanne/Roxie Charlene Pachelo, 81, passed away unexpectedly in her beloved home on October 6, 2026, leaving behind an extraordinary legacy of unwavering faith, unconditional love, remarkable strength, and a lifetime of beautiful memories. Born to Ned and Ruth Ratliff in Jefferson City, Missouri, she spent some of her childhood in California before her family settled permanently in Colorado. She graduated from Westminster High School in 1962 and Point Loma Nazarene College in California.

A woman of exceptional grace, timeless beauty, and an infectious personality, she had a remarkable gift for making everyone she encountered feel welcomed, valued, and genuinely loved. Her warmth and vibrant spirit could fill a room, and her kindness left a lasting impression long after she left. She was admired not only for her striking beauty, impeccable style, and effortless elegance, but even more so for the beautiful heart and genuine character that defined her.

Her Christian faith was the foundation upon which she built her life. Raised in the church, she remained steadfast in her walk with Jesus Christ, her Lord and Savior, throughout all 81 years of her life. Her faith was deeply personal and unwavering, sustained through regular Bible reading, prayer, and a lifelong commitment to living according to God's Word. Among her most treasured traditions were Sunday mornings spent attending church with her grandson, who faithfully picked her up each week. Their shared love of the Lord created a beautiful and meaningful bond that will forever be cherished.

A devoted mother and homemaker, she dedicated her early adult years to raising her two daughters and creating a loving, nurturing home. She possessed an extraordinary talent for making everything around her beautiful. From her impeccable eye for decorating to her love of gardening, she brought elegance, warmth, and thoughtful attention to every space she touched. Her beloved home, which she had built and cherished, remained a special source of comfort and pride throughout her later years.

She was also an exceptional cook and gracious hostess whose family gatherings were nothing short of legendary. Holidays and special occasions were celebrated around tables overflowing with delicious homemade dishes, lovingly prepared and beautifully presented. Among her countless specialties, her famous butter-horn rolls became a treasured family tradition. Yet it was never simply about the food. It was about bringing people together, making everyone feel at home, and creating memories that would last a lifetime. Of all her earthly blessings, her family was her greatest joy. She was a deeply devoted mother and an adoring grandmother to three grandchildren, who affectionately called her Nonnie or Nonna. She loved each of them with a depth and purity that words can scarcely express. She was their trusted confidante, their unwavering supporter, and a constant source of encouragement and unconditional love. She treasured the special relationships and time she shared with each grandchild, which included watching endless Hallmark movies with her oldest granddaughter, attending Sunday worship with her grandson, and precious hours spent cooking alongside her youngest granddaughter, who proudly carries her name.

Throughout her life, she demonstrated extraordinary courage and resilience. Even when faced with serious health challenges, she met adversity with remarkable determination, enduring strength, and an unshakable trust in the Lord. Though her body was tested time and again, her spirit remained steadfast. She was, in every sense, a warrior whose faith carried her through life's most difficult seasons.

She also believed deeply in the importance of facing life's challenges with wisdom and personal responsibility. One of her favorite sayings was, "If you don't make the necessary changes while you still can, life will make them for you." These words reflected her belief in living intentionally, taking responsibility for one's choices, and finding the courage to make necessary changes.

Perhaps her most remarkable gift was her ability to form genuine, meaningful connections with others. Her love was never expressed through words alone; it was evident in her actions, her hospitality, her generosity, and the thoughtful way she cared for those around her. She was purposeful in her relationships, sincere in her affection, and deeply cherished by those fortunate enough to know her.

She is survived by her two daughters, Kerri J. Pachelo and Kelly R. Pachelo-Forehand (spouse Tom); her three beloved grandchildren, Haley Joelle Pachelo, Ross Thomas Forehand, and Roxie Charlene Forehand; sister-in-law Beverly Ratliff; her beloved cousins, as well as her very cherished nieces/nephews and great nieces/nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Ned and Ruth Ratliff; her sister, Marilyn R. Rinkenberger, and brother-in-law, Richard K. Rinkenberger; her brother, Jerry N. Ratliff; her beloved niece and nephew, Douglas and Janice Campbell; and many loved ones that she held close to her heart.

Funeral Services will be held on Thursday, November 12, 2026, at 1:00 pm at Olinger Crown Hill, located at 7777 W. 29th Ave., Wheatridge, CO 80033, and officiated by Pastor Steven Blackwell of Harvest Fellowship. A beautiful dove release and reception will occur immediately following the service at the same location, Crown Hill.

If you are unable to attend the service, you can watch via livestream: https://view.oneroomstreaming.com/index.php?data=MTc5MzcyNjQ0OTQzODg1NCZvbmVyb29tLWFkbWluJmNvcHlfbGluaw==

While her unexpected passing leaves an immeasurable void in the hearts of those who loved her, her family takes comfort in the promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ. Her legacy lives on in the faith she exemplified, the family she cherished, the traditions she created, and the countless hearts she touched. She will forever be remembered as a woman of extraordinary faith, timeless grace, remarkable strength, and a beautiful heart that made the world a warmer, brighter place.

"Well done, thy good and faithful servant." — Matthew 25:23