Name: Hillside Funeral Home West
Address: Wichita, KS

I am still trying to pick my jaw up off the floor. I am so sorry to hear about Ricky. I was good friends with his brother Jonny and Opie. I had talked to Ricky several times in the past years always looking for Opie. I just can't believe it, I am SOSOSOSO sorry for you and you family.

Mariann Ostapowich Haggerty
Tulsa, Oklahoma

RickO, you were always good friend of my dads and always good friend to me. Shared many conversations at Friends and the race track! Gonna miss you man. Praying for your family. R.I.P bud.

I have just heard of Rick's passing...I remember him from Hadley, haven't seen him since those days...he and Rick Lamb were 2 of the cool boys at school...I am sorry to hear of his passing...may he RIP

Hope you got flowers. Please feel free to contact me if there is anything I can do. 316-719-2456 / or 1728 E. Lewis Circle, Wichita, KS 67211

Roxanne Holt (Ledbetter) -- Marvin (Monk) Holt little sister, he loved your husband and brother. My father, Monk Holt Sr rebuilt the engine in Rick's camaro. He loved that car. I never got to take a ride, Daddy wouldn't let me. My deepest condolences; God Bless and keep you. --Roxanne Holt-Ledbetter.

Just would like to say, that we knew Rick way back in the days when he must have been about 18yrs old and the O'Brien Family lived right next door. All the memories of that family and the sadness of just too young to go too soon for each one that has and how life is so short that we just never know, but one thing is to think about is to never take for granted life, family, or friends, Over the years my sister and I have ran into Rick and he always was so proud of his kids, that guy was a great dad and a good hearted person and on the day of his funeral, I get a call and afterwards that day totally changed and affected both my sister and I, we got together going over the things about Rick, nothing in life is ever so perfect, but he had alot of good qualities even so things my have gotten in his way, he was a good hearted family man and that is for sure. He was so proud to finally have a baby girl, loved all his boys and always bragged about them, that is for sure and he will be missed by all.....

The first time that I met Rick, he was 11 years old (I was 16 with my first motorcycle). Later on in life I was privileged to play in several bands with Rick. He was a great guitar player, a great friend and was always a joy to be around. I will miss you my friend! Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

I was at a loss yesterday when a friend came by and told me of RickO's passing. I am still in shock. He was always a great friend for everyone and positive to be around. RickO was so proud of his family. I admired him for that.

RickO was a great guy!  I will keep his great grins in my memory.  My condolences to those that loved him best.

We have known Ricko for many years! He was always such a great guy. There to crack a joke and offer a great smile! He will truely be missed. Rest in peace Ricko! Our deepest sympathies to his family.With Our Love and Support.

Ricko was one of those guys who made life more fun when he was around. He played great rhythm guitar and ran sound for a lot of bands, Those were the Southern Rock days for the people I ran with, and Rick was caught up in like all of us. Time flies by, families grow and friends get older. But I will always count Rick as a friend from the old days. Fly high, Free Bird.... We miss you.

I will always remember the nights @ Sam's place. U could always make everyone laugh! We're gonna miss u buddy.

Prayers go out to God for Richard and his family. He was a great guy. Looked forward to chats with him about his family and friends. Was a great pleasure knowing you pal!

RickO was very dear to me. His family was so important to him and they were always so nice to me. I want to thank them for that, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rick was so talented in so many ways. He enjoyed making people happy. We always had so much fun both of us just loved our Camaro's (his was gorgeous) and music. I just can't believe he's gone. I have been out here in AZ for 7 years now, so I haven't seen him for a long time and I regret that. But, he will always be in my heart and will never be forgotten. I hope he will be singing "Angel Eyes" from up there in Heaven.

To all of Rick's family:  My thoughts & prayers are with you.  So sorry for your loss.  RIP Rick O'Brien.

Toni Kuhn

I will always remember Rick in his BA Red Camaro. It was always faster than mine. :-(We'll all be missing his smile!

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.  I haven't seen Rick in over 20 years, but I remember him as a great friend.

Its been years since i saw ricko worked with him in the clubs he always made going to work easier,so sorry to hear of his passing. May God bless his family

Joy and Family, so sorry our thoughts and prayers are with you. Diane and Debbie Rogers

you will be missed by all that you met, one of the world's brightest candles has been extinguished, only to burn bigger and brighter. May your family carry you with them in their hearts to keep you alive through them God Bless the family

Ricko my friend for a long long time..i will miss your smiles and friendship...what a good man...God has received a special person back home ....I will always remember you bro...and your sayings.."Riko saying see ya " :(

Rick was a great Guy,and God has another talented musician! I remember his baby that candy apple red camaro,and Bubba Rocks! God bless his family.

Rick O was a old buddy of mine from the club days. He was always fun to be around and will be greatly missed. God Bless you all !

Wow...Could not believe it when I received the phone call...RickO was a great friend, I still can't believe it. Ride that Harley in Heaven BRO.

Saddened to hear of Ricks passing. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.Was a great neighbor that I counted as a friend.

Rick was a good man,always friendly to everyone. He will be missed.

DoeDee I am thinking of you and your family.  So very sorry to hear Rick left way too soon.  Love seeing the pictures of him with his wife and kids.

Rick'O,  Kim has probably known (or at least wish she had) you since she was in diapers.  Myself not as lucky.  I think you have never met anyone who couldn't like you.  Youv'e been an inspiration to more people with your response from your hearing what they say, I think you should have been a therapist.  I'm going to miss you Rick.  You are one of a kind.

His talent for sharing his passion for music started my own passionate journey in the realm of country and swing dance. Beyond the music, he was a strong individual who could tease with the best of them but also knew how and when to take a stand. He stands tall in my memories of Wichita.

One of the memories I hold dearest was the day we all watched the breaking news about the death of Princess Diana. To see a man who I knew for his strength go silent in disbelief spoke volumes. I sit her in my own silence of disbelief. Prayers being sent for him and his family.

I knew Rick back in Jr. High, when I was sweet on his sister.  We all thought we were so cool, but Rick was the coolest, and he had great hair!  Although I haven't seen him in at least 40 years, I can still remember his infectous laugh, and his irreverant sense of humor, that could alway make me laugh, even when the joke was on me.  I'm saddened by the news of his passing, and my thoughts are with you all.

Ricks family your in our hearts and prayers , we all miss him ! Bobby Kuhn and his sis, Shelly

   RICKO thanks for the memories !!!!! It was always fun to be around you.                                                                             angela

Rick was a permanent guest at our house and my Rick lived at Rick-o's the rest of the time.  I don't believe I ever saw him without a smile.  Haven't seen him for years, but knowing he isn't here anymore makes my stomach ache.  I am so sorry this had to happen.  Please accept my sincere regrets.  Love to all
Rick Lamb's Mom, Bobbi Glover

Ricko always brought a smile to my face. I am glad for the times we shared together. always had a great time.

My heart is heavy to hear that Ricky is gone. He was like a little brother to me oh so many years ago.

Over time, I would run into him, and without fail, he always talked with such pride about his family. There was no doubt what made his world go around. My sincere condolences to you all.

Today many local musicians have lost a dear friend. Ricko ran sound for many of us, and always had a "The Show Must Go On" attitude. As I am sure he would want us to have now. Ricko was one of a few who would always go the "Extra Mile" and then some to make things right, and see that each player had what they needed to make the gigs go off without a hitch. He truely cared about what the end product sounded like. It wasn't just a gig to him. You could tell he enjoyed it, and that he took pride in his work. That attitude, your smile, and most of all your friendship will be missed. We had alot of fun together. Thats for sure! To Lisa and your six beautiful children my deepest sympathy. To my friend Ricko, Rest in peace my friend. You are loved, and will be missed!
Al

40 years... we had our fun we had our tears we had our battles we shared our fears you were my brother you had my back and now I'm left with the memories of 40 years...I love you brother

Rick was always so nice.  He always had a smile on his face and had such a positive attitude.. It's been YEARS since I've seen him but he left such a positive impression on me.  I remember him fondly..  RIP

Lisa, Doedee, Opie and children, Rick, was my best friend, co-worker and brother. He was at his best when he would often speak of his family. Please know that he loved ALL of us with that huge heart of his. Honor him by living the rest of our days to the fullest and being the best we can be. Our deepest sympathy to all....
Mark and Melody Webb

OBITUARY

Richard RickO Jay O'Brien

June 7, 1959 – July 2, 2012

Hillside Funeral Home West

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