Xavier James Points

Xavier Points passed on October 19, 2026, at the age of 15. He was born on December 7, 2010, in Phoenix, Arizona, the son of Jesse J. Points and Michelle D. Matos-Crespo. Xavier was raised in Wichita, KS and currently attended South High School as a Sophomore.

Xavier was preceded in death by his grandma, Fidella Nicholson; uncle, Dell Crosby.

Survivors include his mom, Michelle; dad, Jesse and wife, Mikayla; sisters, Destiny Points, Nova Points; best auntie ever, Shakira Ruiz-Crespo and husband, Devin Garcia; aunts and uncles, Joshua Ruiz, Heycha Ruiz, Misael Ruiz, Sabrina Ruiz, Rachel Points, Amilynn Matos, Angelica Matos, Luis Matos; grandparents, Rosa Crespo, Luis Daniel Matos, Richard Points; great grandma, Iris Rivera; cousins, Devin Jr., Josiah, Abigail, Addilynn, Gabriel, Riley, Ethan, Maliyah, Nevaeh, Baby Josiah, Isaiah, Araceli, Antonio, Bryleigh, Allison.

Xavier was sweet, funny, loving & cared alot for his Family. He Loved his siblings very much, he loved all cousins. He loved his parents, he loved alot of people that meant alot to Him, like his Best Friend Orlando. They been friends since Elementary and its unbreakable Friendship. He was so close to his sister Destiny - who is like his twin, they were also like Best Friend's, she knew all his good and bad moments & all his secrets. They had the same imagination growing up that when it came to reality they also knew they had each other to confide to Xavier told everything if not to his Mother his Sister. To lose him this way, a part of us left with him. But, a piece of all of us will always be with Him.

Xavier's hobbies were playin video games, watchin TikTok videos, collecting squishies, hot wheels, Pokémon cards, playin Basketball. He loved music & Lego movies, Star Wars & Scarface. He loved Fuzzy Blankets, his Favorite Holiday was Halloween. We all enjoyed dressing up every Year. He Loved his Cat, May & he started to take care of Blue(dog) like it was his own. He also enjoyed swimming, he was a great swimmer, four wheel riding with his Dad & wrestling...He also enjoyed trail walks with Mom & Sissy. He found some of the places we would go to peaceful.

He was a Loverboy, he loved hard..he did get to experience Love & Heartbreak. He was Handsome & had such a huge heart. He was soft & he would listen to those that wanted to vent to him.

Xavier growing up - he talked about how he wanted to join the Army because he was unsure of what he wanted to do with his Life. But he wanted to grow up and have two Husky dogs & live alone in his own apartment...That's what he would tell his sister.

Xavier was beautiful, just as beautiful as Life itself & he was happy. He was smart & brilliant.

Xavier was very loving towards his family and friends, and we all surrounded him with love throughout his entire life. He’s my second born child but he was never PUT second. He and his sister, Destiny both share the title “Love of My Life”. I love them both to my core and there isn’t a sacrifice I wouldn’t make for them. How much I love them can’t be measured. Even though I would try to show and tell him all the time how much I love him, my son was struggling with his mental health. He was 15, which is a very formative age where he was trying hard to figure things out…especially who he was & the type of man he was becoming. At that age, he didn’t realize how vulnerable he was & sadly, his mental health preyed on him. The struggle became a war. He was too overwhelmed, which made it easy for whatever self-doubt he had to blind him of his self-worth. My son was in pain and sadly saw no way out because he couldn’t see how beautiful his soul really was. I just hope and pray that God pulled him out of the darkness that ate away at him and tried to swallow him whole and he now feels free and is at peace. I will love him and miss him every second of every day until I finally see him in person again…but until then, he will always be on my mind & in my heart just like he’s always been.

You will be a part of Us Forever

I Love You My Sun