OBITUARY
Robert Darden Peterson Jr.
April 15, 1951 – January 20, 2020
IN THE CARE OF
Demaine Funeral Home – Fairfax
Robert Darden Peterson, Jr. (Bob) salesman, home renovator, and motivator to many, died peacefully in his home in Fairfax, VA, at age 68, on January 20, 2020 to be with his Lord and Savior, after an 18-month battle with ALS.
Born in Ft. Worth, TX on April 15, 1951, the only son of Col Robert Darden and Lillian Louise Jones Peterson, of Jonesboro, AR, and middle sibling with six sisters, the family was relocated often by the US Air Force, including 2 years in Guam, where he watched his father fly daily dangerous missions to Vietnam. After graduating locally from Ft Hunt High School, he attended United States Military Academy at West Point to pursue his own military career.
Robert spent 20 years as an Internal Auditor/Investigator in various government and private assignments, then changed careers and became a Home Improvement Contractor, selling and delivering jobs including anything from roofs to concrete to kitchens and additions. He was known locally for finding work for the less fortunate, anyone who asked. He would pair them with Master Tradesmen, often leading them to pursue the trade themselves.
Late in his career and after the love of his life retired from her own career in Fairfax County Public Schools, Bob and Patty bought, renovated and sold run down homes in the area.
After renovating and flipping nine houses locally, his final career was cut short by the devastating ALS diagnosis in July 2018. ALS rapidly progressed from one muscle to the next confining him to a wheelchair by May 2019. Since then every day has been a daily battle to survive, until he was mercifully called to Heaven on Jan 20, 2020.
Robert leaves his loving wife Patricia Hilary Peterson and their adult children Hilary Louise Peterson and Robert Darden Peterson III (Heather), and four adorable grandchildren Parker Alexandra Peterson, Virginia Jane Peterson, Robert Darden Peterson IV, and Arthur John Peterson. He also leaves his foster children, Michael Downey and Maria Downey Shepherd (Jesse). He is also survived by all six of his sisters. Roberta ter Kuile (Chris), of Tryon, NC; Patricia Campbell, of Rodgers, AR; Nancy Rains, of Rodgers, AR; Lillian Downs (Ben) of College Station, TX; Helen Downey, of Flat Rock, NC; and Margaret Ann Gignilliat (Matthew), of Savannah, GA.
The family would like to express their sincere appreciation to the Veterans Administration, Capital Caring Hospice and especially the ALS Association. The family would also like to encourage you to reach out to anyone you may know suffering from ALS and to their family members with comfort and prayers.
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January 26, 2020
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January 27, 2020
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January 27, 2020
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