Budgeting for a Funeral: Planning, Payment & More

What affects funeral and cremation costs?

There are hundreds of decisions that must be made when planning a funeral or cremation. Learn what to expect and get your free Guide to Understanding Funeral & Cremation Costs today.

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Planning a funeral may not be something we look forward to, but it is one of the more thoughtful financial decisions you can make for your family. Just as we prepare for milestones like weddings or retirement, planning for a funeral, cremation or burial is important. 

Death and finances are not easy topics, but when you plan ahead, you avoid leaving your family with tough decisions and financial responsibility during a difficult time. You can also save money.

To help you think through and navigate the process, we’ve broken the topic into four key steps:

Let’s begin with what you need to know about payments, insurance and financial obligations.

Step 1: Understand your benefits and obligations

Just like any major life event, funerals come with financial obligations. Payment for funeral costs is typically expected upfront, though there are some exceptions. By understanding your options, you can avoid unexpected expenses.

Funeral payment expectations

Most funeral homes require payment at the time of the service. Funeral expenses can be paid using a credit card, bank loan, family funds or crowdfunding tools. Having life insurance, funeral insurance, and/or a prepaid funeral plan in place eases this burden.

Does life insurance cover funeral costs?

Life insurance benefits can be used to cover funeral costs, but they're not always paid out immediately. It might take weeks or even months for your family to receive the funds. Term policies may also expire before death occurs, leaving no payout.

Funeral insurance options

There are two common types of funeral insurance:

  • Final-expense insurance: A general fund for end-of-life expenses, with the beneficiary deciding how to spend it.
  • Pre-need insurance: Pays only for pre-selected funeral arrangements and services.

Even with one of these policies, your family may need to pay upfront and wait for reimbursement.

Prepaid funeral plans

These plans allow you to plan a service, lock in today's prices and pay over time. They relieve loved ones from both the emotional toll and financial strain of last-minute planning. They also help you guard against rising costs, ultimately saving you money.

Are funeral costs tax deductible?

In most cases, funeral expenses are not tax deductible. However, some prepaid funeral funds, such as irrevocable funeral trusts (maximum amount varies by state), may not be counted as assets for Medicaid. Additionally, for veterans, the Veterans Administration provides reimbursement for some costs, depending on service-related status.

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Step 2: Consider the products and services that impact costs

Planning a funeral or cremation service involves many decisions, and your choices can significantly impact the cost.

Some of the more common larger expenses for a traditional funeral and burial include:

  • Venue(s) for viewing, visitation and ceremony
  • Embalming
  • Casket
  • Services of a funeral director and clergy or celebrant
  • Flowers
  • Transportation
  • Cemetery plot or mausoleum crypt
  • Grave marker or monument
  • Opening and closing fees

Some of the more common larger expenses for a cremation memorial include:

  • Venue(s) for viewing, visitation and ceremony
  • Cremation
  • Urn
  • Services of a funeral director and clergy or celebrant
  • Flowers
  • Cremation niche or columbarium
  • Opening and closing fees

Death certificates are a smaller expense families must pay.

And if you choose a reception after a funeral or cremation memorial, you may also pay for:

  • A venue
  • Food and beverage catering
  • Flowers
  • Decor
  • Keepsakes

Step 3: Consider your budget

Funerals are deeply personal. So are budgets. Some people prioritize tradition and ceremony, while others prefer simplicity or a celebration of life. Your plan should reflect your unique values, cultural or religious considerations, and what you (or your loved one) would want most.

Before looking for ways to cut costs, spend some time thinking about the type of service that feels right. What matters most to you? What memories do you want to leave behind? Once your vision is clear, there are many ways to bring it to life beautifully and meaningfully without overspending.

Some costs of a funeral or cremation are fixed, but there are other areas families may look to trim costs:

  • Casket or urn: Caskets range in price according to material and ornamentation. Bronze or steel will cost more than wood, for example. The same goes for urns.
  • Venue: Many of today's funeral homes have beautiful, customizable reception rooms that cost far less than other venues. You could also host a service in a backyard or park.
  • Officiant: Instead of hiring a clergy member or celebrant, consider asking a friend or family member to lead the service.
  • Catering: Food and drinks can be elaborate or simple. Lunch will be less than dinner for the same number of guests. Sweets and coffee will be less than lunch.

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Step 4: Meet with a planning advisor

Once you’ve considered your budget and vision, meet with a planning advisor to talk through your options. An advisor can help you tailor a plan that fits your wishes and budget, offer guidance on payment options, and make sure nothing gets overlooked.

Funeral planning may seem overwhelming, but by taking these steps now, you can spare your family from added stress later and ensure your final farewell reflects your life, values and love.

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